I think my friends sister likes me....

Thoughts_Arrive
Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
edited April 2010 in All Encompassing Trip
I have felt this for a few years now, catch her looking at me, acting kind of flirty with me, and on Easter night when we were all out she kind of got close to me in the car on the way home (she had a bit to drink but surely knew what she was doing) and other little things over the years that make me feel she likes me.

Having said that, would you date your friends sister?
Me and her brother are close friends, I have huge respect for him.
That is why I have not taken things further as I respect him.
It's kinda been bugging me for a while as I think me and her would be a good couple.
We are opposite of each other in terms of music tastes, opposites attract?
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  • neilybabes86
    neilybabes86 Posts: 16,057
    work that
    i post on the board of a band that doesn't exsist anymore .......i need my head examined.......
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    every girl is someone's sister or daughter so...
    neilybabes86 wrote:
    work that

    :mrgreen:
  • Kevinman
    Kevinman Atlanta, GA USA Posts: 1,923
    I've seen it ruin some friendships around me. Not always the best idea, but not easy to ignore feelings. Be carefull and good luck. Hope it works out if you decide to try it.
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  • neilybabes86
    neilybabes86 Posts: 16,057
    norm wrote:
    every girl is someone's sister or daughter so...
    neilybabes86 wrote:
    work that

    :mrgreen:


    and they need to be worked like an only child :lol:

    better the friend than joe dingo from down the block
    i post on the board of a band that doesn't exsist anymore .......i need my head examined.......
  • Lone Drawn Meteor
    Lone Drawn Meteor Posts: 1,230
    Is she crazy (in general)? y/n
    Easter flirting just comes off as desperate. Enough time has passed since Jesus died that you shouldn't fall for a sympathy lay. Wait until Christmas. See what she does when you present her with you dick in a box.
    What's the age difference between she and her brother? +/- 5 years?
    If she's in Junior high, you better wait a few months.
    Does he have other sisters if you strike out with sister #1? y/n
    Preferably older than you so you can tell if that azz will hold up.
    What if you break up with your guy friend?
    You don't want to tear a family apart because you and your buddy can no longer play Magic® together.

    Seriously. Honestly answering these 4 simple questions could save you from making the biggest mistake of your life.
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  • MayDay10
    MayDay10 Posts: 11,915
    One of my best friends' sister is in a very serious relationship with one of his close college buddies. He has never had an issue with it and as I recall, he actually may have helped instigate it.
  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    How does your friend feel about the whole ordeal?

    Are you attracted to her?

    Lastly, given the chance...how far would you go? ;):mrgreen:
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  • FirstExit
    FirstExit Los Angeles Posts: 973
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    I have felt this for a few years now, catch her looking at me, acting kind of flirty with me, and on Easter night when we were all out she kind of got close to me in the car on the way home (she had a bit to drink but surely knew what she was doing) and other little things over the years that make me feel she likes me.

    Having said that, would you date your friends sister?
    Me and her brother are close friends, I have huge respect for him.
    That is why I have not taken things further as I respect him.
    It's kinda been bugging me for a while as I think me and her would be a good couple.
    We are opposite of each other in terms of music tastes, opposites attract?

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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    dcfaithful wrote:
    How does your friend feel about the whole ordeal?

    Are you attracted to her?

    Lastly, given the chance...how far would you go? ;):mrgreen:

    To answer your three qns....
    He wouldn't know.
    Yes I am.
    I would first let my friend know and ask if he's cool with it, I wouldn't do it behind his back.
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    FirstExit wrote:
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    I have felt this for a few years now, catch her looking at me, acting kind of flirty with me, and on Easter night when we were all out she kind of got close to me in the car on the way home (she had a bit to drink but surely knew what she was doing) and other little things over the years that make me feel she likes me.

    Having said that, would you date your friends sister?
    Me and her brother are close friends, I have huge respect for him.
    That is why I have not taken things further as I respect him.
    It's kinda been bugging me for a while as I think me and her would be a good couple.
    We are opposite of each other in terms of music tastes, opposites attract?

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    lol I don't get it?
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Lone Drawn Meteor wrote:
    Is she crazy (in general)? y/n
    Easter flirting just comes off as desperate. Enough time has passed since Jesus died that you shouldn't fall for a sympathy lay. Wait until Christmas. See what she does when you present her with you dick in a box.
    What's the age difference between she and her brother? +/- 5 years?
    If she's in Junior high, you better wait a few months.
    Does he have other sisters if you strike out with sister #1? y/n
    Preferably older than you so you can tell if that azz will hold up.
    What if you break up with your guy friend?
    You don't want to tear a family apart because you and your buddy can no longer play Magic® together.

    Seriously. Honestly answering these 4 simple questions could save you from making the biggest mistake of your life.

    To answer some of these qns.
    Crazy no.
    Her and her bro are twins lol, not much age difference.
    She is soon to be 23 so not in school.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • CAVSTARR313
    CAVSTARR313 Posts: 8,756
    I say give her the business.. ask questions later.. offer your sister up for your friend to make it fair :lol:
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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Cavstarr313 wrote:
    I say give her the business.. ask questions later.. offer your sister up for your friend to make it fair :lol:

    Married, much older than him lol
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  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    dcfaithful wrote:
    How does your friend feel about the whole ordeal?

    Are you attracted to her?

    Lastly, given the chance...how far would you go? ;):mrgreen:

    To answer your three qns....
    He wouldn't know.
    Yes I am.
    I would first let my friend know and ask if he's cool with it, I wouldn't do it behind his back.

    You're a good friend. If you're interested, given your respect for your friend...running it past him and looking for his stamp of approval would be quite an admirable gesture.

    :thumbup: Go get her!
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  • FirstExit
    FirstExit Los Angeles Posts: 973
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    FirstExit wrote:

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    lol I don't get it?

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  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    now I get it lol, but I already knew what each was from the pics lol
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  • FirstExit
    FirstExit Los Angeles Posts: 973
    Thoughts_Arrive wrote:
    now I get it lol, but I already knew what each was from the pics lol

    Well sir, that is my advice.
  • jimed14
    jimed14 Posts: 9,488
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  • dcfaithful
    dcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    jimed14 wrote:
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    Seeing jimed in here made me want to say something. (jimed, I think you know what I'm about to mention...)

    Okay. I love my girlfriend...till the end of time. Wouldn't choose anybody else to spend all my time with.

    Having said that...just do me one favor. Establish her outlook on Ronnie James Dio. Then, and only then will you know if it's the right choice.

    I've learned to accept my girlfriend's unappreciative nature towards the king of metal, but I still sometimes look at her and just think what kind of imbalance is in her brain and why did it happen?

    :twisted:

    just teasing....

    kind of....

    remember.....Dio.
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