help... manager talks about other employees to me.

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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    I left early the other day because I was sick, I asked her and she said it was fine and that we had plenty of coverage. Now I find out that she talked about how I skipped outta work and 'left everyone hanging' and today she won't talk to me... This is getting ridiculous!!
    Just stay out of it... keep your personal life away from your work life. Meet the other girl in the morning but don't tell your manager. Go to work, do your job and if she bitches about someone else just say 'look I'd rather just stay out of it to be honest'. There is very little work out there so just get your pay check and remind yourself why you're there.

    There are very few places that don't have bitching, from EITHER sex, and it's not something I'm particularly fond of. When someone bitches to me I can't help but wonder what they're saying about me to somebody else... but I just don't care.
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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Earlier she was telling all about another employees past and how she's been in jail and such... I already knew (though my manager doesn't know I know) but I think it's wrong to be sharing this girls past like that.
    can I ask what you reply to her when she says things like that?
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • PearlOfAGirl
    PearlOfAGirl Posts: 15,993
    That is so NOT professional on her part. If she's talking to you about other employees, then she could be talking to them about you!! ;)

    Wish you were here...

    ~RIP Dad
  • Commy
    Commy Posts: 4,984
    the drama of a fascist environment.



    bottom line, do your job. and do it well. they can't touch you , if you bring the right attitude. they need a reason to fire you, and drama isn't good enough. you can do whatever you want, as long as your labor is productive. the law protects you in this regard.

    in fact, its your boss who is slipping on her job. if she's so worried about drama and bs, she's not being productive. I would talk to her boss, tell them you can do her job better, and tell them why. if she's more focussed on drama than productivity, then she's fucking up. go above her., take her job. then go jogging or whatever it is you want to do with the other employee.


    I used to work in a restaurant, very high end restaurant...and one night a sous chef want off on me, for no reason. -its already an extremely stressful environment, hard work. but he took me aside and went off on me. dude was pissed. for no reason though. it was because he didn't like me. had nothing to do with my labor. So i fucking ripped into him. the entire kitchen heard the exchange. for me it wasn't about being right or anything. he was trying to establish his bullshit authority, and for me it was about defending my labor, which i was very good at. i ended up telling him to fuckoff, to his face. loud enough for the entire kitchen staff to hear. and he got fired the next day.


    If you're doing your job, and doing it well, that's the bottom line. the rest is bullshit.
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    Earlier she was telling all about another employees past and how she's been in jail and such... I already knew (though my manager doesn't know I know) but I think it's wrong to be sharing this girls past like that.
    can I ask what you reply to her when she says things like that?
    I told her I'm not comfortable with her talking about other employees to me and that I'm just there to do my job not get in the middle of things. Needless to say I've been on her shit list since. I found another job and am quitting this week...along with another girl.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"