Earlier she was telling all about another employees past and how she's been in jail and such... I already knew (though my manager doesn't know I know) but I think it's wrong to be sharing this girls past like that.
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
It's too bad you're boss is so insecure.
About a month or less ago my boss said something unkind about a co-worker to me (like he was confiding in me) and I looked him straight in the eye and said, "I wonder what kinds of things you say about me when I'm not here..." And walked away.
So now she tells me that she has people sitting in the parking lot watching us at night to see if we 'goof off'.
Every time she opens her mouth it surprises me more!
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
My boss is a creep.
He hit on me after he gave me my review. I told him that he should talk to someone else in our department since he wasn't her boss (she was interested in him). I thought that would be enough of a hint that I wasn't interested but he would call my house from his cell phone(I never answered) and one day when I was leaving work he followed me outside to the front of the building and asked me out. I was freaked out and didn't know what to say so I just kept saying I don't know. Then he said for me to call him and let him know and I told him I couldn't do that. I've been avoiding him as much as possible ever since. I just found out that someone in my department heard him and now it's like I feel like my reputation there is messed up. People kept making comments to me about him and now I know why.
Are you sure your boss doesn't have a thing for you. It sounds way to wierd.
I have a slight drama issue at work. My manager talks about each employee to the other employees working. We all know she does it, and she seems to pin point one girl the most (even telling me not to take her home after work anymore because the manager says she thinks the girl is not appreciative enough).
When it's me and this other girl working together we talk (though still doing our work and completing it) but the manager gets mad that we're talking (not mad at us actually talking, but that we're friendly) and she'll get rude with me when I'm friendly to the girl! The other night I was talking about going walking with the girl in the morning (around 6 am) so we can get in shape, the manager comes over and says to me... "you can't do that, I need you here and you'll be too tired for work if you walk that early". She does whatever she can to make sure I do not befriend this other employee.
This woman is driving me nuts but I need this job right now, any suggestions on how to handle this without going insane and killing her? :roll:
This women is clearly shitting herself that if you spend time with other colleagues she might have to face the fact that one of you will find a backbone and address the fact that she talks about you all behind your backs.She sounds damn dangerous...........I'd be addressing this issue with her or her manager.
“There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
giving my notice on Saturday... either i'll only have 2 weeks left or she'll throw a shit fit and I'll jut walk out.
either way I can't deal with this woman any longer.... it's just not worth it.
When I left my job (the one where my boss was your bosses clone) I gave her a month notice. She was pissed that I was leaving and scheduled me to work EVERY DAY of that month. 30 days straight. Idiot. Needless to say I returned the same day with my updated 2 week notice letter.
giving my notice on Saturday... either i'll only have 2 weeks left or she'll throw a shit fit and I'll jut walk out.
either way I can't deal with this woman any longer.... it's just not worth it.
When I left my job (the one where my boss was your bosses clone) I gave her a month notice. She was pissed that I was leaving and scheduled me to work EVERY DAY of that month. 30 days straight. Idiot. Needless to say I returned the same day with my updated 2 week notice letter.
I'm so glad to be out of that place.
honestly I think this woman will just not put me on the schedule at all for the next 2 weeks.... which is fine by me. She has NO IDEA I have a second job, so she'll think she's screwing me.
each day this week I almost walked out, so I figured it's time to leave before they find her bloody body in the dumpster in the back :?
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
honestly I think this woman will just not put me on the schedule at all for the next 2 weeks.... which is fine by me. She has NO IDEA I have a second job, so she'll think she's screwing me.
each day this week I almost walked out, so I figured it's time to leave before they find her bloody body in the dumpster in the back :?
I always knew you were a little crazy! Just not THAT crazy!
I left early the other day because I was sick, I asked her and she said it was fine and that we had plenty of coverage. Now I find out that she talked about how I skipped outta work and 'left everyone hanging' and today she won't talk to me... This is getting ridiculous!!
Just stay out of it... keep your personal life away from your work life. Meet the other girl in the morning but don't tell your manager. Go to work, do your job and if she bitches about someone else just say 'look I'd rather just stay out of it to be honest'. There is very little work out there so just get your pay check and remind yourself why you're there.
There are very few places that don't have bitching, from EITHER sex, and it's not something I'm particularly fond of. When someone bitches to me I can't help but wonder what they're saying about me to somebody else... but I just don't care.
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
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Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Earlier she was telling all about another employees past and how she's been in jail and such... I already knew (though my manager doesn't know I know) but I think it's wrong to be sharing this girls past like that.
can I ask what you reply to her when she says things like that?
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
bottom line, do your job. and do it well. they can't touch you , if you bring the right attitude. they need a reason to fire you, and drama isn't good enough. you can do whatever you want, as long as your labor is productive. the law protects you in this regard.
in fact, its your boss who is slipping on her job. if she's so worried about drama and bs, she's not being productive. I would talk to her boss, tell them you can do her job better, and tell them why. if she's more focussed on drama than productivity, then she's fucking up. go above her., take her job. then go jogging or whatever it is you want to do with the other employee.
I used to work in a restaurant, very high end restaurant...and one night a sous chef want off on me, for no reason. -its already an extremely stressful environment, hard work. but he took me aside and went off on me. dude was pissed. for no reason though. it was because he didn't like me. had nothing to do with my labor. So i fucking ripped into him. the entire kitchen heard the exchange. for me it wasn't about being right or anything. he was trying to establish his bullshit authority, and for me it was about defending my labor, which i was very good at. i ended up telling him to fuckoff, to his face. loud enough for the entire kitchen staff to hear. and he got fired the next day.
If you're doing your job, and doing it well, that's the bottom line. the rest is bullshit.
Earlier she was telling all about another employees past and how she's been in jail and such... I already knew (though my manager doesn't know I know) but I think it's wrong to be sharing this girls past like that.
can I ask what you reply to her when she says things like that?
I told her I'm not comfortable with her talking about other employees to me and that I'm just there to do my job not get in the middle of things. Needless to say I've been on her shit list since. I found another job and am quitting this week...along with another girl.
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
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About a month or less ago my boss said something unkind about a co-worker to me (like he was confiding in me) and I looked him straight in the eye and said, "I wonder what kinds of things you say about me when I'm not here..." And walked away.
Every time she opens her mouth it surprises me more!
My boss is a creep.
He hit on me after he gave me my review. I told him that he should talk to someone else in our department since he wasn't her boss (she was interested in him). I thought that would be enough of a hint that I wasn't interested but he would call my house from his cell phone(I never answered) and one day when I was leaving work he followed me outside to the front of the building and asked me out. I was freaked out and didn't know what to say so I just kept saying I don't know. Then he said for me to call him and let him know and I told him I couldn't do that. I've been avoiding him as much as possible ever since. I just found out that someone in my department heard him and now it's like I feel like my reputation there is messed up. People kept making comments to me about him and now I know why.
Are you sure your boss doesn't have a thing for you. It sounds way to wierd.
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This women is clearly shitting herself that if you spend time with other colleagues she might have to face the fact that one of you will find a backbone and address the fact that she talks about you all behind your backs.She sounds damn dangerous...........I'd be addressing this issue with her or her manager.
either way I can't deal with this woman any longer.... it's just not worth it.
When I left my job (the one where my boss was your bosses clone) I gave her a month notice. She was pissed that I was leaving and scheduled me to work EVERY DAY of that month. 30 days straight. Idiot. Needless to say I returned the same day with my updated 2 week notice letter.
I'm so glad to be out of that place.
each day this week I almost walked out, so I figured it's time to leave before they find her bloody body in the dumpster in the back :?
I always knew you were a little crazy! Just not THAT crazy!
There are very few places that don't have bitching, from EITHER sex, and it's not something I'm particularly fond of. When someone bitches to me I can't help but wonder what they're saying about me to somebody else... but I just don't care.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Wish you were here...
♥~RIP Dad
bottom line, do your job. and do it well. they can't touch you , if you bring the right attitude. they need a reason to fire you, and drama isn't good enough. you can do whatever you want, as long as your labor is productive. the law protects you in this regard.
in fact, its your boss who is slipping on her job. if she's so worried about drama and bs, she's not being productive. I would talk to her boss, tell them you can do her job better, and tell them why. if she's more focussed on drama than productivity, then she's fucking up. go above her., take her job. then go jogging or whatever it is you want to do with the other employee.
I used to work in a restaurant, very high end restaurant...and one night a sous chef want off on me, for no reason. -its already an extremely stressful environment, hard work. but he took me aside and went off on me. dude was pissed. for no reason though. it was because he didn't like me. had nothing to do with my labor. So i fucking ripped into him. the entire kitchen heard the exchange. for me it wasn't about being right or anything. he was trying to establish his bullshit authority, and for me it was about defending my labor, which i was very good at. i ended up telling him to fuckoff, to his face. loud enough for the entire kitchen staff to hear. and he got fired the next day.
If you're doing your job, and doing it well, that's the bottom line. the rest is bullshit.