dealing with flaky people - can I get some advice?

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  • flywallyfly
    flywallyfly Posts: 1,453
    RACE THAT CANT BE WON wrote:
    instead of facebook status checks or whatever maybe you should just gaff and tag her like a shark to monitor her movements..

    Good one ! LOL.... :lol:
  • fanch75
    fanch75 Posts: 3,734
    12345AGNST1 wrote:
    After that I just texted her saying if you tell me you wanna chill atleast stick with it. I havent talked to her since, im not wasting my time.

    Shi, you treat a bytch like Seven-Up; neva have, neva will! You tell the bytch like this: you say, "Bytch, you wisout me is like Harold Melvin wisout da Blue Notes, you'll never go platinum! Hey yo, Daz, gimme a light."
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  • _Crazy_Mary_
    _Crazy_Mary_ Posts: 1,299
    I say let it go.
    If she contacts you, then maybe you can set up another date. If not, forget about it.
    Some people have serious trouble saying no. She may have told you 'yes' to not hurt your feelings. Or maybe she did want to see you, but chickened out. She could be extremely shy.
    Don't get in touch with her, though. Let her come to you. And don't ask her about dinner w/ her parents.
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  • bee_boy
    bee_boy Posts: 384
    I thought this thread was about dandruff and psoriasis :|
  • mfc2006
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    bee_boy wrote:
    I thought this thread was about dandruff and psoriasis :|
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  • iluvcats
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    _Crazy_Mary_ wrote:
    IAnd don't ask her about dinner w/ her parents.

    I agree
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    goo wrote:
    and thanks to a lot of you with some helpful comments, but others of you need to lighten up on me. I'm not enraged with anger over here over a "tentative" date that got thrown out and it's not like I'm stalking anyone. I can't help I caught site of what she said when I signed onto MY facebook. sheesh.

    Fair enough. But if you are coming across as slightly... uh, intense (for lack of a better adjective), wouldn't you rather hear it from us strangers before reacting in a way that might cause you to hear it from her? It's not to say that's the way you feel - just that your actions/attitude MAY be interpreted that way.

    As for the advice to make her come to you, I disagree. If you feel like hanging out with her, ask her out again and don't play any games. I always think honesty is the best policy. And if you're honest about how you feel and are non-judgemental, it creates an environment where she can be comfortable being honest about how she feels, including telling you straight up if she's not interested.

    At this point, any assumption that she blew you off and/or isn't interested is nothing but speculation. Sometimes people are just busy or feeling kind of anti-social. I avoid going out with new people, though, for fear that they won't be understanding of this and will just think I'm blowing them off all the time. It's too bad though, 'cuz there were guys I would've gone out with again had they just not been so quick to think I was blowing them off.
  • 12345AGNST1
    12345AGNST1 Posts: 4,906
    fanch75 wrote:
    12345AGNST1 wrote:
    After that I just texted her saying if you tell me you wanna chill atleast stick with it. I havent talked to her since, im not wasting my time.

    Shi, you treat a bytch like Seven-Up; neva have, neva will! You tell the bytch like this: you say, "Bytch, you wisout me is like Harold Melvin wisout da Blue Notes, you'll never go platinum! Hey yo, Daz, gimme a light."

    do you smoke crack?
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  • fanch75
    fanch75 Posts: 3,734
    12345AGNST1 wrote:
    fanch75 wrote:
    12345AGNST1 wrote:
    After that I just texted her saying if you tell me you wanna chill atleast stick with it. I havent talked to her since, im not wasting my time.

    Shi, you treat a bytch like Seven-Up; neva have, neva will! You tell the bytch like this: you say, "Bytch, you wisout me is like Harold Melvin wisout da Blue Notes, you'll never go platinum! Hey yo, Daz, gimme a light."

    do you smoke crack?

    Negro, please.
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