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A Diamond is Forever...

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    dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    my wife bought her own engagement ring.. if it got lost then i'd never be able to describe it :o

    thats actually the truth.

    i also have no idea how to work a washing machine
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
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    geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    There ain't enough jewelry in the world for that.


    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_0e614308a1877a254fb4bcfaa1666c0b.jpg

    And, I'd rather have a house than a ring.

    totally agree with you. hell, if i get my own house i'm might just rent out the upstairs part of the house and never work again!
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    geniegenie Posts: 2,222
    Jammin909 wrote:
    The topic is engagement rings…

    What is the tradition in other countries around the world? I find it stressful and unnecessary that a man is EXPECTED to fork over a thousand+ dollars for an engagement ring.

    i strongly doubt about getting engaged with anyone ever in my life, but if it happens a ring made out of leafes will do just fine for me :) yes, it's my hippy side of me coming out now :D
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    TrixieCatTrixieCat Posts: 5,756
    If you people are putting down less than ten thousand dollars as a down payment on a house, you may as well get the ring. lol
    Cuz you are gonna be up to your neck in mortgage payments with that.
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    SpunkieSpunkie I come from downtown. Posts: 5,673
    Don't forget to see Blood Diamond if you are thinking of buying a rock. I'm with Dexter on this topic. Artsy is better.
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    StellyStelly Posts: 170
    TrixieCat wrote:
    If you people are putting down less than ten thousand dollars as a down payment on a house, you may as well get the ring. lol
    Cuz you are gonna be up to your neck in mortgage payments with that.

    Exactly!! I hate the "I'd rather have a downpayment on a house" argument. The ring is a better investment! When I bought my wife's ring, it was immediately appraised at $3,000 more than I paid for it.

    Better than the current housing market.
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    JaneNYJaneNY Posts: 4,438
    Jammin909 wrote:
    The topic is engagement rings…

    What is the tradition in other countries around the world? I find it stressful and unnecessary that a man is EXPECTED to fork over a thousand+ dollars for an engagement ring.

    You don't have to spend that much. Spend what you can afford and be sensible. (I've been married 25 years so I guess my ideas count for something!) He gave me what he could when we were both starving students, and then last year on our 25th anniversary he gave me this:
    http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q118/PJningal/ring.jpg
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    mookie9999mookie9999 Posts: 4,677
    When my gf and I were discussing rings last summer she pulled a figure seemingly out of the air that I was ok with. Personally, I'm not a believer in the two or three times monthly salary theory.
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    Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 12,479
    you buy what you can afford

    and putting money into real estate is a better investment 90% of the time

    Thats what we did an now and are in a better cash position than if we spent big bucks on a ring.
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    tish wrote:
    Don't forget to see Blood Diamond if you are thinking of buying a rock. I'm with Dexter on this topic. Artsy is better.

    i was gonna mention Blood Diamond.
    i swear, i don't ever want another diamond after seeing that film last year...
    tragic.

    i got my engagement ring 23 years ago (married for 21 years next month)
    and i don't think a diamond is necessary.
    there are so many other stones and antiques are special too.
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    anothercloneanotherclone Posts: 1,688
    The diamond should be big enough so that other guys know it's not worth it to walk over from the other side of a bar and come and hit on the chick.

    Mark your turf, men! :D

    Seriously though, I would be happy with whatever. My first marriage, I didn't even have an engagement ring. Second time around, I just so happened to find a guy that liked to give me shiny sparklers to adorn myself with.
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