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Jammin909Jammin909 Posts: 888
edited January 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
The topic is engagement rings…

What is the tradition in other countries around the world? I find it stressful and unnecessary that a man is EXPECTED to fork over a thousand+ dollars for an engagement ring.
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Jammin909 wrote:
    I find it stressful and unnecessary that a man is EXPECTED to fork over a thousand+ dollars for an engagement ring.
    So do I.
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    well if you love the woman enough you should be willing to fork over a thousand+ for her. but then again i'm only 15 and now little to nothing on this nonsense. :p
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    well if you love the woman enough you should be willing to fork over a thousand+.

    So then rich people love more than poor people?! :confused:
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_f4da669cda858a62a4e508c78bf1c789.jpg

    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_fc19f01609e25916c6a3caebf0c67a5c.jpg

    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_0e614308a1877a254fb4bcfaa1666c0b.jpg

    just for fyi......
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Jammin909 wrote:
    The topic is engagement rings…

    What is the tradition in other countries around the world? I find it stressful and unnecessary that a man is EXPECTED to fork over a thousand+ dollars for an engagement ring.

    thats bullcrap. why should the guy have to spend a months salary on a ring? no man, its about time the chick spends that much on a ring for the GUY. see how SHE likes it! :D i dont want to ever get married but if i did.....the guy is freakin lucky cuz i cant wear jewelry anyway!!!! :D
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Whizbang wrote:
    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_f4da669cda858a62a4e508c78bf1c789.jpg

    There ain't enough jewelry in the world for that.


    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_0e614308a1877a254fb4bcfaa1666c0b.jpg

    And, I'd rather have a house than a ring.
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  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    AmentsChick wrote:
    So then rich people love more than poor people?! :confused:
    no im not saying that. to add to my statement, the woman in the relationship should be willing to accept whatever the male might get her for a proposal...


    did i just contradict myself??? its been a long freekin day....
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


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  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    well if you love the woman enough you should be willing to fork over a thousand+ for her. but then again i'm only 15 and now little to nothing on this nonsense. :p

    ohhh boy. you will learn! and dude, be a PIMP. let the chicks buy YOU stuff!!! :cool:
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    AmentsChick wrote:
    There ain't enough jewelry in the world for that.


    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_0e614308a1877a254fb4bcfaa1666c0b.jpg

    And, I'd rather have a house than a ring.

    HOWL!!!!
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Whizbang wrote:
    HOWL!!!!

    Howl?! You a wolf?
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    AmentsChick wrote:
    So do I.

    Me too !!

    I dont think my wife will ever know I bought a Cubic Zirconia will she ??


    ;)
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  • moster78moster78 Posts: 1,591
    SENROCK! wrote:
    ohhh boy. you will learn! and dude, be a PIMP. let the chicks buy YOU stuff!!! :cool:

    That's what I did. I gave my girlfriend a diamond engagement ring, she got me a Gibson Les Paul!
  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    AmentsChick wrote:
    There ain't enough jewelry in the world for that.


    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_0e614308a1877a254fb4bcfaa1666c0b.jpg

    And, I'd rather have a house than a ring.

    and really, I'd rather be able to buy my own home and my own jewelry. and...well, I did buy a house on my own. Jewelry is low on the list of wants at the moment. I'd rather save for a horse.
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • gobrowns19gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    well if you love the woman enough you should be willing to fork over a thousand+ for her. but then again i'm only 15 and now little to nothing on this nonsense. :p

    Wow, not to hijack the thread, but are you seriously 15? That is my sisters age! Haha. I assumed you were like a junior in college.
    Happiness is only real when shared
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    moster78 wrote:
    That's what I did. I gave my girlfriend a diamond engagement ring, she got me a Gibson Les Paul!

    That's actually not a bad idea!!
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Howl?! You a wolf?

    sorry...my version of "LOL" or "LMFAO".
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    gobrowns19 wrote:
    Wow, not to hijack the thread, but are you seriously 15? That is my sisters age! Haha. I assumed you were like a junior in college.
    yep me is 15.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • gobrowns19gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    yep me is 15.

    Damn as soon as I posted that there were 4 other posts in the same minute. Wow.

    Regardless man, that's awesome!
    Happiness is only real when shared
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Phantom Pain wrote:
    Me too !!

    I dont think my wife will ever know I bought a Cubic Zirconia will she ??


    ;)

    I would never be able to tell...maybe she won't either.

    P.S. How's Bailey?
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • lalalalaaaaaaaalalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    Whizbang wrote:
    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_f4da669cda858a62a4e508c78bf1c789.jpg

    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_fc19f01609e25916c6a3caebf0c67a5c.jpg

    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v21/Whizbang/funny%20stuff/l_0e614308a1877a254fb4bcfaa1666c0b.jpg

    just for fyi......
    buahaha

    Kim Shady layin' it down for all you suckers out there.
  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    AmentsChick wrote:
    That's actually not a bad idea!!
    wow, i feel sorry for the next man who turns you away!
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Drop The Leash 10 wrote:
    wow, i feel sorry for the next man who turns you away!

    LOL! Me too, I think I'm a great catch!! :D
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Jammin909Jammin909 Posts: 888
    SENROCK! wrote:
    thats bullcrap. why should the guy have to spend a months salary on a ring? no man, its about time the chick spends that much on a ring for the GUY. see how SHE likes it! :D i dont want to ever get married but if i did.....the guy is freakin lucky cuz i cant wear jewelry anyway!!!! :D

    Well I know it's normally the woman's family who pays for the wedding, which can easily surpass that spent on the ring.

    I just think it should be an even exchange without expections that one covers the ring while the other takes care of the wedding.

    Just throwing another angle out there...
    The less you know, the more you believe.
  • moster78moster78 Posts: 1,591
    AmentsChick wrote:
    That's actually not a bad idea!!

    Its a pretty good deal. She still made out in the end as the ring is still way more than the guitar, but I'd rather have a guitar then a diamond ring. So I win, I guess.
  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    gobrowns19 wrote:
    Damn as soon as I posted that there were 4 other posts in the same minute. Wow.

    Regardless man, that's awesome!
    i'm the youngest i know of on here. there is one 16 year old chick here too. shes pretty cool

    EDIT: 1,600! are you kidding me?!?! WTF? i think yesterday i was at 1450. :eek: i need to get a life :o
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    moster78 wrote:
    Its a pretty good deal. She still made out in the end as the ring is still way more than the guitar, but I'd rather have a guitar then a diamond ring. So I win, I guess.

    And, you can play her good music...so, she kinda wins, too!! :D
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • WhizbangWhizbang Posts: 1,314
    Saturnal wrote:
    buahaha

    Kim Shady layin' it down for all you suckers out there.

    like Slim Shady...I'm back, I'm back.
    believe it or not, we don't "need" anything. that is only the spoiled brat in us trying to fill some temporary solution to an emptyness that does not exist.

    I have eaten so much gold I crapped excellence - drtyfrnk29

    Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!
  • moster78moster78 Posts: 1,591
    AmentsChick wrote:
    And, you can play her good music...so, she kinda wins, too!! :D

    Yup, its how I proposed too! Guitar in hand, playing and singing a romantic song.
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    moster78 wrote:
    Yup, its how I proposed too! Guitar in hand, playing and singing a romantic song.

    Aw crap...now I'm jealous. :) Very sweet...I want to find a man like that!
    This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper

  • Jammin909Jammin909 Posts: 888
    I guess all the Europeans are sleeping. I really want to know if woman over there have the same expectations.
    The less you know, the more you believe.
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