Ugg. Trouble with the two families

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  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    Without even reading.....at least you don't have trouble with the 'Five Families'. :D Had to say it.
    LOL I was waiting for that. Only took a few hours ;)
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  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    my kids. my rules. the grandparents had their turn... now its mine. :)
    however... i am a grandparent and though the way i do things is different from the way my daughter does things, i defer to her always.




    exactly as it should be. :)


    AC, have to admit tho...it's an enviable "problem" to have, two grandmas involved in your daughter's life and love her so. i understand your frustration, but do always remember how lucky you, your wife and especially your daughter all are to have these 2 women in your lives.
    Stay with me...
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  • _Crazy_Mary_
    _Crazy_Mary_ Posts: 1,299
    I went through a situation kind of like this. The thing is, it was my mom that spoilered my daughter. She didn't know how to tell her no, gave her anything she wanted. Ice cream for breakfast? Sure! It was a strain on my relationship with my mother and myself and I finally had to send my daughter to daycare.
    I think the answer to your problems is to limit your daughter's time w/ both grandmas. If they are your main source for babysitting, figure something else out. It sounds to me like both g-mas are being immature. Why would one criticize the other?
    I really screwed that up. I really Schruted it.