So I walked past an ex gf tonight at the bar

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  • Rygar
    Rygar Posts: 8,712
    nothingman44 wrote:
    its just common knowledge that no matter how nice you are to a girl and how good you treat them...they still like to take a dump on your head and make you feel like shit.
    You mean 'smell' like shit.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    nothingman44 wrote:
    its just common knowledge that no matter how nice you are to a girl and how good you treat them...they still like to take a dump on your head and make you feel like shit.

    ok, i'm not saying that women like to be with assholes, but maybe the problem is that they get bored. they probably like a little challenge every now and again, they want a guy with ambitions, someone who pays attention to her but also has other goals to reach in life.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    pjoasisrule wrote:
    That is exactly how I feel about her now. As I said, I never did anything wrong to her and basically treated her like royalty and she broke up with me out of nowhere yet I would still at least have the decency to at last smile and say hi yet she noticed me walking by so she just moved out of the way and didnt even look at me.

    i hope you understand that i'm not trying to give you any shit in here, but you've got to forget about this and stop thinking about her because they only person who is feeling hurt is you.

    maybe she didn't say 'hi' to you because she knows she's upset you and doesn't know how you feel towards her, maybe she was scared and was waiting if you would start talking to her first
  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    genie wrote:
    i think the real problem lies with you, why should you care so much if she's noticed you or not?


    that's got nothing to do with it.....if you come upon somebody you know or once knew, acknowledge them....she didn't need to hold a 5 minutes conversation but at least say hi. how's it going?....he says great...he asks her, she responds....22 fucking seconds out of her life wouldn't have killed her :rolleyes:
  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    I agree with the OP. There is no problem with wanting to be acknowledged by someone you used to care about. I would want to say hi and maybe have a 1 minute conversation with my ex, it's always nice to see how people are doing that you used to know very well.
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  • genie
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    cutback wrote:
    that's got nothing to do with it.....if you come upon somebody you know or once knew, acknowledge them....she didn't need to hold a 5 minutes conversation but at least say hi. how's it going?....he says great...he asks her, she responds....22 fucking seconds out of her life wouldn't have killed her :rolleyes:

    what if it was a messy break up? my first ex and i broke up with each other, after a trip that gone horribly wrong, and when we saw each other in the pub we didn't say nothing to each other not even a nod, although i did notice him looking at me at one point. and now a year later we are talking to each other again :D but this time i'm keeping my distance, seeing him once or twice a year is good enough for me.
  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    genie wrote:
    i hope you understand that i'm not trying to give you any shit in here, but you've got to forget about this and stop thinking about her because they only person who is feeling hurt is you.


    I don't think the op is feeling all that hurt, in fact I am sure he will forget about this whole thing in a few hours. He is just confused and a little insulted at why someone would just completely ignore you. I don't think he is sitting in a corner beating himself over such a small issue, but it is something that makes you go 'wtf? why would she just blow me off like that? oh well' I am sure the point of the thread is basically to see if anyone has had a similar occurrence.
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  • norm
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    genie wrote:
    what if it was a messy break up? my first ex and i broke up with each other, after a trip that gone horribly wrong, and when we saw each other in the pub we didn't say nothing to each other not even a nod, although i did notice him looking at me at one point. and now a year later we are talking to each other again :D but this time i'm keeping my distance, seeing him once or twice a year is good enough for me.


    i'm just talking about common courtesy genie....he didn't seek her out...it was a chance meeting...according to pjoasis this was a gf from long ago....at some point she needs to move on...her actions just seem immature and petty
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    cutback wrote:
    i'm just talking about common courtesy genie....he didn't seek her out...it was a chance meeting...according to pjoasis this was a gf from long ago....at some point she needs to move on...her actions just seem immature and petty

    as someone else pointed out in here, she maybe have felt awkward, why didn't the OP say "hi" to her first?
  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    NothinGBetteRPJMaN wrote:
    I agree with the OP. There is no problem with wanting to be acknowledged by someone you used to care about. I would want to say hi and maybe have a 1 minute conversation with my ex, it's always nice to see how people are doing that you used to know very well.

    Now that I think about it I saw my ex this summer and completely blew her off.

    I was pretty drunk and my friends and I were walking back from the beach at like 1am. She, her boyfriend, another girl I know, and maybe someone else were walking in the opposite direction. I got all excited to see the other girl and hugged her and asked how she was etc and all I did was scan the rest of their crowd and didn't say hi to any of them.

    If I were sober or less drunk I would have said hi, but I think I didnt say hi because I didnt want to make a drunken fool of myself, idk. All I know is I would like to say hi to her and catch up for a few minutes.
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  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    genie wrote:
    as someone else pointed out in here, she maybe have felt awkward, why didn't the OP say "hi" to her first?

    He said he wanted to say hi but she turned her back to him when he got close, clearly giving him the sign that she didn't want to be said hi to.
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  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    My favorite is when I am walking on the quad and I make eye contact with someone I know like 30ft away. You can't say hi just yet because that's just weird so we break eye contact. As I get within in 5-10ft I try to reestablish eye contact to say 'Hi' but they continue looking at the ground because they don't know what to do in that situation. So we don't say hello.

    If I saw that same person when we were only 5-10ft apart to begin with they would say hi. Add in the 30ft awkwardness before hand and they don't say hi. People are so awkward.
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  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    I am the number one killer of threads!
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  • muiren77
    muiren77 Posts: 3,511
    NothinGBetteRPJMaN wrote:
    I am the number one killer of threads!

    how so?
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    apparently, 07162056 is THE date...
  • Whizbang
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    pjoasisrule wrote:
    She had to move out of the way for me yet she didnt even acknowledge that I was there. Girls are so damn ridiculous sometimes.........that is all.

    Dude...seriously, my ex bf does the same thing to me when I've seen him at bars. Averts eyes and moves around me....I find it hilariously childish.
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  • norm
    norm Posts: 31,146
    Whizbang wrote:
    I find it hilariously childish.

    BOOM!!! exactly!!!


    unless the breakup involved violence or some shit like that you can acknowledge one another...we all gotta live here, let's not be assholes about it :D
  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    muiren77 wrote:
    how so?

    because after I post, no one else does! Even if I make a major contribution, no one responds to it
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  • muiren77
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    NothinGBetteRPJMaN wrote:
    because after I post, no one else does! Even if I make a major contribution, no one responds to it

    poor you...
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    apparently, 07162056 is THE date...
  • pjoasisrule
    pjoasisrule Posts: 3,412
    genie wrote:
    i hope you understand that i'm not trying to give you any shit in here, but you've got to forget about this and stop thinking about her because they only person who is feeling hurt is you.

    maybe she didn't say 'hi' to you because she knows she's upset you and doesn't know how you feel towards her, maybe she was scared and was waiting if you would start talking to her first

    I am over it and her. Its just something that was a bit ridiculous and immature.
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  • NothinGBetteRPJMaN
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    muiren77 wrote:
    poor you...

    Indeed. No one loves me, will you be my friend? You seem nice.
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