To The Most Amazing Woman Ever...goodbye. :)

RolandTD20Kdrummer · December 2007

Then after a few months of living with her....reality sets in....there is no such thing as perfect.

GreenTeaDisease · December 2007

turnedmyworldtoblack wrote:

agreed what bad timing to take a shot at somebody

well obviously she wasn't so perfect now was she. perfection is relative to the relationship. otherwise, there's no such thing.

seriously, people watch way too many romantic comedies and have lost all touch with reality.

(and I don't get the "throwing stones" comment, I don't live in a glass house. and besides, stones get thrown here *all* the time, for no reason. I was just giving my opinion.)

roar · December 2007

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

(and I don't get the "throwing stones" comment, I don't live in a glass house. and besides, stones get thrown here *all* the time, for no reason. I was just giving my opinion.)

again, don't throw stones.
honestly...who are YOU to call anyone or anyone's feelings pathetic? (especially from some of the posts i've seen)

this guy wanted to get something off of his chest...and by the view count on this thread, clearly there are a few people who might identify with him.

turnedmyworldtoblack · December 2007

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

well obviously she wasn't so perfect now was she. perfection is relative to the relationship. otherwise, there's no such thing.

seriously, people watch way too many romantic comedies and have lost all touch with reality.

(and I don't get the "throwing stones" comment, I don't live in a glass house. and besides, stones get thrown here *all* the time, for no reason. I was just giving my opinion.)

It just seems extremely selfish for you to pass judgement on him like you are the creator of words and feelings. If he thinks she was perfect, and in his eyes she was, then why is that not perfection?

Im not an arguer so I will drop it after this post, It just blows my mind that someone spills there guts in a 10 paragraph post and your input is to tell him he is "pathetic". What is going on in your mind that you thought that would be a positive healthy response?

Anon · December 2007

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

did this person die or did they just break up with you?

If she just broke up with you, this is...how do I put this...hmmm...somewhat pathetic.

seriously, wtf??

Why is there always an idiot or 2 that ruins a heart-felt thread like this for no apparent reason...??

patrickredeyes · December 2007

all4PearlJam wrote:

seriously, wtf?? Why is there always an idiot or 2 that ruins a heart-felt thread like this for no apparent reason...??

Maybe some just haven't gone threw what the thread starter and some of us have. And they don't understand what the big deal is. I didn't get what the big deal was. And them BAM I found out. So now when someone posts a thread like this. I totally understand and feel for them. Cause it can happen to anybody.

pjtradeking · December 2007

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

well obviously she wasn't so perfect now was she. perfection is relative to the relationship. otherwise, there's no such thing.

seriously, people watch way too many romantic comedies and have lost all touch with reality.

(and I don't get the "throwing stones" comment, I don't live in a glass house. and besides, stones get thrown here *all* the time, for no reason. I was just giving my opinion.)

Wow! Talk about kicking a man when he is down.;)

You know, I expected a few of these.. I didnt expect everyone would get it. I am fine with your opinion.

Call it a too many romantic comedies, call it losing touch, call it what you want. This is the most real thing I have ever experienced. A life altering moment and if I beleive it to be that, then that is all that matters to me. Say what you will, but beauty and perfection are in the eyes of the beholder. To this beholder, she IS and ALWAYS will be MY perfection.

Regardless of what you think of me and my sappy emotions my friend, you cant take this from me.

decides2dream · December 2007

wow. i totally *get* what you are saying/feeling. however, not to add too much *reality* to the situation, but...perhaps i am mistaken, but aren't you married with a few children? if i were your wife, i would utterly cry at these words. firstly, to know my husband could feel so deeply, and express his emotions with clarity and openess....but moreso i would cry b/c these words would not be for me, but for some other woman he'd rather be with. while i can understand and identify with your emotions...i find them rather painful to think of the 'other' person in your life, the one you DO have a life with right now. for her, for your children, i hope you find the *perfection* and love there once more, and just hold onto this dream/fantasy of a woman in the back of your mind. for yourself, for all, i hope you can move on. hold onto the beauty of your feelings, but redsicover the love and life you have. good luck.

*edit....errrrrr........fuck. i just realized, i was thinking of lizardking in regards to being married/kids.

so yea, please disregard.

pjtradeking · December 2007

decides2dream wrote:

wow. i totally *get* what you are saying/feeling. however, not to add too much *reality* to the situation, but...perhaps i am mistaken, but aren't you married with a few children? if i were your wife, i would utterly cry at these words. firstly, to know my husband could feel so deeply, and express his emotions with clarity and openess....but moreso i would cry b/c these words would not be for me, but for some other woman he'd rather be with. while i can understand and identify with your emotions...i find them rather painful to think of the 'other' person in your life, the one you DO have a life with right now. for her, for your children, i hope you find the *perfection* and love there once more, and just hold onto this dream/fantasy of a woman in the back of your mind. for yourself, for all, i hope you can move on. hold onto the beauty of your feelings, but redsicover the love and life you have. good luck.

I totally respect what you just said. You dont know me that well if at all(as most here dont) and I can see how it looks from the outside, so for me to sit here and try to justify what I said and why I said it, would be a moot point. I appreciate any and all opinons on the topic. It is complicated at best.

cory · December 2007

I had this feeling once. I married her. It was a mistake.

Disclaimer: If by some chance my wife steals my password and sees this post, Honey, you know I love you. Now let's get naked.

Linda · December 2007

bittersweet read......

TrixieCat · December 2007

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

did this person die or did they just break up with you?

If she just broke up with you, this is...how do I put this...hmmm...somewhat pathetic.

Wait, aren't you the one that couldn't get a date to the Christmas party after living how long where you are? Herein lies the reason. I am not even going to tell you what you are as you HAVE to be aware of it. lol
He is not the pathetic one here.

decides2dream · December 2007

pjtradeking wrote:

I totally respect what you just said. You dont know me that well if at all(as most here dont) and I can see how it looks from the outside, so for me to sit here and try to justify what I said and why I said it, would be a moot point. I appreciate any and all opinons on the topic. It is complicated at best.

as i've said elsewhere...no judgements. i totally understand such feelings, on all sides....and 'complicated at best'....absolutely! all i can offer is you must choose, sooner or later. with or without this 'perfect woman' obviously something is amiss, and you sell yourself short, as does your partner with herself, if you 'settle'.....so best to start thinking what do you TRULY want. ANYthing is possible with love and the right attitude, things so far gone you think impossible to revive....or to blaze a new path again and find your heart's desire.

i wish you all the best.

pjtradeking · December 2007

decides2dream wrote:

as i've said elsewhere...no judgements. i totally understand such feelings, on all sides....and 'complicated at best'....absolutely! all i can offer is you must choose, sooner or later. with or without this 'perfect woman' obviously something is amiss, and you sell yourself short, as does your partner with herself, if you 'settle'.....so best to start thinking what do you TRULY want. ANYthing is possible with love and the right attitude, things so far gone you think impossible to revive....or to blaze a new path again and find your heart's desire.

i wish you all the best.

I know EXACTLY what you mean, and believe me, have struggled with this and many other things for a long long time. Long before this 'perfect woman' came into my life. I know what I TRULY want and TRULY need to do, but sometimes those things are harder than one might think to actually put in motion.(Not saying you, just people in general)

This 'perfect woman' helped me put alot of things into perspective as well, whether she knows it or not. Some of the things that she is facing, mirrored my own situation, so I took more from her than she may realize. OMG how I miss her...:(

At any rate, thanks for your prospective, and I do know what you are saying.

To The Most Amazing Woman Ever...goodbye. :)

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