Women.. question for you..

LikeAnOcean

Do you like to be chased?

Seriously.

I keep giving up on women because I'm doing all the work. They agree to meet me out, but I drop them after a few dates because they've shown no sign of wanting to make plans or ask ME when I'm available.

Do guys have to do all the work, or are these particular girls just not that interested?

illegal pants

hell yes

just worked for me :!:

ZiggyStar

I think they're not that interested....maybe. If they were keen, they'd be ringing you too.

I chased my bf....totally cracked onto him....10 years later we're still together.

ECM

god I want to respond, though I know the backlash if I do

«¤tîg®ê§§¤»

women like being chased, but only if they like you back, otherwise its basically stalking

ZiggyStar

«¤tîg®ê§§¤» wrote:

women like being chased, but only if they like you back, otherwise its basically stalking

THAT is very very true!!!

justam

«¤tîg®ê§§¤» wrote:

women like being chased, but only if they like you back, otherwise its basically stalking

Right.

I'd say it another way just to be clear: women like the enthusiasm of being chased when they like you, but it can be a problem if you're trying to chase them and they DON'T like you.

I'd say the best way to know whether or not you're on the right side of the line is to think about whether she tends to say "yes" to your requests to see her or whether she says "no."

PearlOfAGirl

justam wrote:

«¤tîg®ê§§¤» wrote:

women like being chased, but only if they like you back, otherwise its basically stalking

Right.

I'd say it another way just to be clear: women like the enthusiasm of being chased when they like you, but it can be a problem if you're trying to chase them and they DON'T like you.

I'd say the best way to know whether or not you're on the right side of the line is to think about whether she tends to say "yes" to your requests to see her or whether she says "no."

Yes!! So true

CHANGEinWAVES

«¤tîg®ê§§¤» wrote:

women like being chased, but only if they like you back, otherwise its basically stalking

That about sums it up.:D
When you are tying her up and putting her in the trunk you've gone too far, unless of course it's role play

soulsinging

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Do you like to be chased?

Seriously.

I keep giving up on women because I'm doing all the work. They agree to meet me out, but I drop them after a few dates because they've shown no sign of wanting to make plans or ask ME when I'm available.

Do guys have to do all the work, or are these particular girls just not that interested?

You have to do all the work. What you need to understand is the sense of entitlement attractive young women have. Whether or not they're interested in you is irrelevant, because you are only of interest to them insofar as you give them something to do on the weekend and make them feel hot and their friends feel jealous. No guy she sees has any claim on her, you are all just guys she's keeping on deck for the day she decides to settle. Wait until they hit 30 or so and their friends are all having kids and her biological clock starts ticking. Then you'll find women that start to pull their weight in a relationship and call you with ideas for the weekend. Until then, she has no need to call you because she can just accept the date with the former quarterback and ride him until she's walking funny... no need to limit herself by appearing too interested in any one guy.

Motha Judson

soulsinging wrote:

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Do you like to be chased?

Seriously.

I keep giving up on women because I'm doing all the work. They agree to meet me out, but I drop them after a few dates because they've shown no sign of wanting to make plans or ask ME when I'm available.

Do guys have to do all the work, or are these particular girls just not that interested?

You have to do all the work. What you need to understand is the sense of entitlement attractive young women have. Whether or not they're interested in you is irrelevant, because you are only of interest to them insofar as you give them something to do on the weekend and make them feel hot and their friends feel jealous. No guy she sees has any claim on her, you are all just guys she's keeping on deck for the day she decides to settle. Wait until they hit 30 or so and their friends are all having kids and her biological clock starts ticking. Then you'll find women that start to pull their weight in a relationship and call you with ideas for the weekend. Until then, she has no need to call you because she can just accept the date with the former quarterback and ride him until she's walking funny... no need to limit herself by appearing too interested in any one guy.

I may not agree with you on TMT, but you are so fucking spot on with this post its unreal.

TheDecline13

Evil Closet Monkey wrote:

god I want to respond, though I know the backlash if I do

DO IT!!

Phantom Pain

soulsinging wrote:

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Do you like to be chased?

Seriously.

I keep giving up on women because I'm doing all the work. They agree to meet me out, but I drop them after a few dates because they've shown no sign of wanting to make plans or ask ME when I'm available.

Do guys have to do all the work, or are these particular girls just not that interested?

You have to do all the work. What you need to understand is the sense of entitlement attractive young women have. Whether or not they're interested in you is irrelevant, because you are only of interest to them insofar as you give them something to do on the weekend and make them feel hot and their friends feel jealous. No guy she sees has any claim on her, you are all just guys she's keeping on deck for the day she decides to settle. Wait until they hit 30 or so and their friends are all having kids and her biological clock starts ticking. Then you'll find women that start to pull their weight in a relationship and call you with ideas for the weekend. Until then, she has no need to call you because she can just accept the date with the former quarterback and ride him until she's walking funny... no need to limit herself by appearing too interested in any one guy.

Wow...Dead On ! Great post

decides2dream

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Do you like to be chased?

Seriously.

I keep giving up on women because I'm doing all the work. They agree to meet me out, but I drop them after a few dates because they've shown no sign of wanting to make plans or ask ME when I'm available.

Do guys have to do all the work, or are these particular girls just not that interested?

of course!
everyone likes to be persued, desired.
however, when a girl/woman really likes a guy he doesn't have to do ALL the work...so for this particular girl just have to say, she's just not that into you. early on in the beginnings of a relationship many women may 'expect' more 'work' on the males behalf in their persuit, makes them feel desired, etc.....but if she also desires you, she'll at least meet you halfway, and/or also surprise you on occasion. if you are doing everything, yes....she's just going through the motions. she may like you, but not that much, thus the lack of effort. i think it's pretty obvious if a woman, or a man, is truly interested. they ACT interested - by their behavior, how they react to you, how they present themselves to you....intrested in what you have to say, smiling, responses, body language, etc.

WildChildRose

Effort definitely counts for something.

InHiding19

Its really not fair it is way more difficult for attractive men to find attractive women they like.

LikeAnOcean

soulsinging wrote:

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Wait until they hit 30 or so and their friends are all having kids and her biological clock starts ticking. Then you'll find women that start to pull their weight in a relationship and call you with ideas for the weekend. Until then, she has no need to call you because she can just accept the date with the former quarterback and ride him until she's walking funny... no need to limit herself by appearing too interested in any one guy.

Well that just answered my question. She's either a pill or not that interested.

patrickredeyes

It a waste when your chasing the wrong one.

norm

chase you? is this the Serengeti? are you gazelles?

i've asked you out...that means i'm interested....i'm not a bengal tiger....i will not jump through hoops...people really need to get out of high school :roll:

_

Depends on how you define "chased".

OneTooFree

i stop being interested in a woman if i don't feel the interest being reciprocated. i'll call her and ask to go out at first, but if i'm doing all the work in terms of setting up/planning our dates that's not the type of woman i want to be in a relationship with

i'm looking for someone who wants to be with me as much as i want to be with them

youngster

soulsinging wrote:

LikeAnOcean wrote:

Do you like to be chased?

Seriously.

I keep giving up on women because I'm doing all the work. They agree to meet me out, but I drop them after a few dates because they've shown no sign of wanting to make plans or ask ME when I'm available.

Do guys have to do all the work, or are these particular girls just not that interested?

You have to do all the work. What you need to understand is the sense of entitlement attractive young women have. Whether or not they're interested in you is irrelevant, because you are only of interest to them insofar as you give them something to do on the weekend and make them feel hot and their friends feel jealous. No guy she sees has any claim on her, you are all just guys she's keeping on deck for the day she decides to settle. Wait until they hit 30 or so and their friends are all having kids and her biological clock starts ticking. Then you'll find women that start to pull their weight in a relationship and call you with ideas for the weekend. Until then, she has no need to call you because she can just accept the date with the former quarterback and ride him until she's walking funny... no need to limit herself by appearing too interested in any one guy.

Man this is so true. Great fucking post.

PJGARDEN

I don't like to be chased at all. If I don't show interest, don't push. I don't like to be pressured and it's the biggest turn off in the world to me to keep pushing.

OneTooFree

PJGARDEN wrote:

I don't like to be chased at all. If I don't show interest, don't push. I don't like to be pressured and it's the biggest turn off in the world to me to keep pushing.

and i hate being the guy who keeps pushing. i take lack of interest to mean exactly that.


i do not participate in the mind games

PJGARDEN

FuzzyDunlop wrote:

PJGARDEN wrote:

I don't like to be chased at all. If I don't show interest, don't push. I don't like to be pressured and it's the biggest turn off in the world to me to keep pushing.

and i hate being the guy who keeps pushing. i take lack of interest to mean exactly that.


i do not participate in the mind games

Agreed 100%! Problem is for the proor men of the world, some women love the mind games. How's a guy supposed to know which are playing and which ones really aren't interested. :?

Hinn

Am I the only one mentally picturing some random woman being chased down a street by an angry mob?

Thorns2010

Hinn wrote:

Am I the only one mentally picturing some random woman being chased down a street by an angry mob?

Well......I'm picturing that now!

SOLAT319

Evil Closet Monkey wrote:

god I want to respond, though I know the backlash if I do

better watch out boyfriend!

LikeAnOcean

PJGARDEN wrote:

FuzzyDunlop wrote:

PJGARDEN wrote:

I don't like to be chased at all. If I don't show interest, don't push. I don't like to be pressured and it's the biggest turn off in the world to me to keep pushing.

and i hate being the guy who keeps pushing. i take lack of interest to mean exactly that.


i do not participate in the mind games

Agreed 100%! Problem is for the proor men of the world, some women love the mind games. How's a guy supposed to know which are playing and which ones really aren't interested. :?

I'm not going to play games with her. She's either being a pain or she's really not that interested.. She knows I want to go out again. I mentioned this coming weekend, but only after she was "busy" the past few weekends.. I'll see if she reminds ME. I invited her to my friends birthday party, but "she didn't like the bar it was at".. I'm done pushing. I'm a smart, attractive, guy. If she can't give me a second date, thats probably the reason she is 28 and single.

gobrowns19

LikeAnOcean wrote:

I'm not going to play games with her. She's either being a pain or she's really not that interested.. She knows I want to go out again. I mentioned this coming weekend, but only after she was "busy" the past few weekends.. I'll see if she reminds ME. I invited her to my friends birthday party, but "she didn't like the bar it was at".. I'm done pushing. I'm a smart, attractive, guy. If she can't give me a second date, thats probably the reason she is 28 and single.

good post, and you're probably right.

i don't get the way girls think sometimes, i honestly don't

decides2dream

Oxxys wrote:

Its really not fair it is way more difficult for attractive men to find attractive women they like.

why?
:?
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