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Should I be nervous?

LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
edited April 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
I have a date with a girl tonight I haven't seen in 10 years. I went to prom with her back in '99. Had a huge crush on her back then. Still think she's beautiful.

Thanks Facebook!


I need a tranquilizer or three.

:)
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  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    Just remember...she's 10 years older now. ;)
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    Just remember...she's 10 years older now. ;)
    Ha! Is that a good or bad? :)
  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P
    I don't think I can beat that. ;)
  • pjsteelerfanpjsteelerfan Maryland Posts: 9,903
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P

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  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Cinnamon Girl wrote:
    Just remember...she's 10 years older now. ;)
    Ha! Is that a good or bad? :)

    Could be either, but I'm always taken aback by people I haven't seen in years. They look older, of course, but I'm never ready for it, you know?

    I'm sure it'll be wonderful...especially compared to CiW's story!! :lol:
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  • arqarq Posts: 8,049
    Dude enjoy your time with her, she must be nervous too, so relax be cool and you may score another date with her or a nice friendship, she's now 10 years more experienced, believe me those 10 years extra will work on your favor, well you'll know tonight!

    Enjoy!!! :D
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    All right.. a few glasses of wine before I go and I should be good. :)
  • Cinnamon GirlCinnamon Girl Posts: 1,854
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    All right.. a few glasses of wine before I go and I should be good. :)

    Good Luck!!!
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  • orig_long redorig_long red Posts: 2,029
    just get her drunk, dive right in and make us proud.
    Jam out with your clam out.
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Date went well!

    It was good seeing her gain. She was a lot more intelligent and focused than I remember, but thats a difference between 18 and 28.

    I think I made it clear I was into her without going overboard on a first date.

    Ball is in her court now. Hopefully she invites me to do something soon. :)
  • rhcpjam1029rhcpjam1029 Posts: 1,981
    dude! you gotta give us some more details! what did she look like??? better/worse/different???
    Beavis: All my friends are brown and red? What does that mean?
    Butthead: It means that his friends are like turds and that they like suck.
    Beavis: Heh heh. Oh yeah. Yeah! Get those spoons out of my face before I shove them up your butt!
    Butthead: Huh huh.
  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    rhcpjam6306 wrote:
    dude! you gotta give us some more details! what did she look like??? better/worse/different???
    She looked similar. Still gorgeous in my mind.
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    congrats on the date. glad it all worked out well.
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P


    Is it bad that I laughed really hard at this? Damn that was hilarious...like someone else said, it was right out of a movie or TV.
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P

    holy shit....what a weirdo! That tops every bad date I ever had. Dang...

    I would ordered him to leave. :o
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P

    Sooooooo..you're saying there wont be a 2nd date ? :lol:
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  • ajedigeckoajedigecko \m/deplorable af \m/ Posts: 2,430
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P
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  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    sounds a lot like CHANGESinWAVES went out with Daniel Johnston...... amazing post. :) and sorry you had to go on that date. i remember a year ago there was a thread about dates where the other person got really drunk? my worst date story (which was in that thread & involved mucho puke-o) doesnt hold a candle to yours!!

    LikeAnOcean - G-wan ya good thing, thats awesome!! i have recently run into girl i fancied when younger so totally see where you're coming from, fingers crossed for ya ;)
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,412
    Phantom Pain wrote:

    Sooooooo..you're saying there wont be a 2nd date ? :lol:

    LOL!!! :lol:
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    JordyWordy wrote:
    sounds a lot like CHANGESinWAVES went out with Daniel Johnston...... amazing post. :) and sorry you had to go on that date. i remember a year ago there was a thread about dates where the other person got really drunk? my worst date story (which was in that thread & involved mucho puke-o) doesnt hold a candle to yours!!

    LikeAnOcean - G-wan ya good thing, thats awesome!! i have recently run into girl i fancied when younger so totally see where you're coming from, fingers crossed for ya ;)
    Hey thanks!

    Its been 11 days though since our date. I've been chatting with her online everyday ever since, but she hasn't tossed me the idea of a second date yet, although I did tell her to let me know when she would be available again after the first date.. I might remind her that I still want to see her again, but she hasn't brought up the idea. I hate these games. :)
  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    LikeAnOcean wrote:
    Its been 11 days though since our date. I've been chatting with her online everyday ever since, but she hasn't tossed me the idea of a second date yet, although I did tell her to let me know when she would be available again after the first date.. I might remind her that I still want to see her again, but she hasn't brought up the idea. I hate these games. :)

    so she taken the bait yet? no point beating around the bush, just ask her if she wants to go to X on X day. specifically ask her, and if she's not on for it, well you gave it a shot.
  • SnaggletoothSnaggletooth Posts: 63
    dude these people are not mind readers, you have to be direct. You gotta grow a set and be like look " I am pretty important person, people know me, I have many leather bound books, and my den smells of rich mahogany." After you set her up with that sweet line you need to whip out your penis shaped cake that you baked specifically for her. After that she should be horny as a queen been, fully lubricated I am saying. So then you say to her "I want to be on you" . . . if she doesn't understand that, then invite her to the pants party.
  • A satellite forever orbitingA satellite forever orbiting Posts: 1,888
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    Ohhh I wish you better luck then I had in a similar situation. It was a guy I went to a winter formal with in HS and a few months ago (10 years since we dated) we went 'out' on a date. This date consisted with him showing up at my house in sweat pants, then I had to ask if we could go out to get something to eat since he already ate but I was starving... Then I payed for the food, even though he ate also. We then came back to my house where he proceeded to tell me how he was abducted by aliens and they removed the part of his brain that held the cure for cancer, also that he conjured the devil with friends when they were high and he still lives in the woods by his house, ohhh and that his mom used to be able to fly!! He then asked if we were gonna make out... to which I said I hadn't planed on it... Then he asked if he could at least touch me to see if there was a spark! He wouldn't leave no matter what I did or said so around 4am I pretended to fall asleep so he'd leave. When he woke me up to say goodbye he hugged me and wouldn't let go and I had to push him off of me and ask him to leave. He called me every night for a week after, even though I never answered.

    Enjoy yourself and I hope yours goes much better than mine did :) :P

    you told me that this whole thing would be between you and i. how dare you betray me like that. the aliens gave me powers to melt people with my eyes so you better watch out!
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  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    dcfaithful wrote:
    Is it bad that I laughed really hard at this? Damn that was hilarious...like someone else said, it was right out of a movie or TV.
    The sad thing is he has a child!
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  • Jill-oJill-o Posts: 33
    Snaggletooth wrote:
    dude these people are not mind readers, you have to be direct. You gotta grow a set and be like look " I am pretty important person, people know me, I have many leather bound books, and my den smells of rich mahogany." After you set her up with that sweet line you need to whip out your penis shaped cake that you baked specifically for her. After that she should be horny as a queen been, fully lubricated I am saying. So then you say to her "I want to be on you" . . . if she doesn't understand that, then invite her to the pants party.

    nice..such a great movie
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