My mom passed.....please read

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  • arq
    arq Posts: 8,101
    I'm with you brother and your family.
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  • Riverrunner
    Riverrunner Posts: 2,419
    What nice memories you have of your mother, and what a well written post. I am sure she is very proud of you. The circumstances of her passing are so sad. My condolences to you and yours.
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  • Yellow Bedwetter
    Yellow Bedwetter NYC Posts: 2,832
    sorry to hear about your loss MP
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  • greasyt
    greasyt Posts: 49
    I'm terribly sorry for your loss. Your story had me near tears. I hope you & your family can get through this tough time together.
  • Mrs_Vedder78
    Mrs_Vedder78 Posts: 431
    I'm so very sorry for your loss.
  • patrickredeyes
    patrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    Very sorry for your loss.
  • demetrios
    demetrios Posts: 98,322
    sorry about your mom! :cry:
  • FoxyMop
    FoxyMop Posts: 303
    I read your story with tears in my eyes. My deepest condolences to you and your family for this tragic loss. :( It's so difficult to lose a parent, particularly with a new baby in your life.
  • manhattan
    manhattan Posts: 258
    It is so hard for anyone to understand the despair and hopelessness that are a part of serious depression. I hope you and your family won't feel that you are to blame for your mother's unhappiness. This was caused by . a chemical imbalance in her brain. You did the right thing by staying in touch and giving her support. Even though she wasn't able to overcome her despondence, I'm sure she never stopped loving you. Try to focus on all the positive aspects of her life and don't try to come up with reasons for what she did -- it would only end up making you feel worse.

    My best wishes to you and your family.
  • mvluckymike
    mvluckymike Posts: 329
    Sorry for your loss stay strong.Man death sucks i lost two family members last week (mon. then sat) from cancer.Just remember the good times.
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  • youngster
    youngster Boston Posts: 6,576
    My condolensces to you and your family. I lost my mom years ago so I know some of the pain you feel.
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  • halszka123
    halszka123 Posts: 1,109
    I can only say the same what other here - I am very sorry for Your lost.
    I hope You will feel better soon
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  • PJ Fan est. 1990
    PJ Fan est. 1990 Posts: 1,788
    Sorry for your loss...

    it seems like this dark sense of atmosphere has been following around me way too often lately...

    my father passed away a couple of years ago, my mother has been depressed ever since. she's doing a hell of a lot better now, but she still struggles...and after my dad died, my grandfather died, and now my grandmother is sick...and aside from that, a couple of years ago my girlfriends father was in a motorcycle accident, he survived luckily but that has seriously affected her life, both her grandfathers have been in and out of the hospital and to top it all off, her mother is an alcoholic...so it seems like this common theme has been playing it's song for the passed 2 years...but the way i see it, with dark times comes light ahead. but even with that in mind, keep yourself in the present. take things as they come...cause "you can spend your time alone, redigesting passed regrets. or you can come to terms and realize you're the only one who cannot forgive yourself...makes much more sense to live in the present tense"
  • falsebelief
    falsebelief Posts: 46
    I am a licensed massage therapist and have worked on a few women that have experienced similar disease(by disease I mean dis-ease, there is an dis easement in the body, some are fatal). I recommended accupuncture as a remedy. Massage therapy and or accupuncture have cured this. Please FWD this to anyone that you deem helpful too.
  • aNiMaL
    aNiMaL Posts: 7,117
    A terribly sad story. I am very sorry for your loss. There are no words that i can offer. Keep your head up and stay strong for your family.
  • Ok
    Ok Posts: 2,146
    Thoughts are with you man.
  • SS2972
    SS2972 Posts: 49
    im am so sad to hear this! i feelso bad for you and all of your family esp the kids. maKES ME SO SAD! ;-(
  • electronblue
    electronblue WPB, Florida Posts: 3,504
    sounds like your mother was one of the very best..

    blessings to you and yours <3<3<3
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  • mavi
    mavi Posts: 941
    I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts go out to you and your family.
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  • Vedder_Girl77
    Vedder_Girl77 Posts: 4,341
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. :cry:
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