putting yourself in awkward situations for others

haffajappa

So my bf went to hang out with some friends last night... he has a set of friends who i am very close with (who i met him through) and another set of friends who i've never met before but are a different crowd with different interests. They bought him and I tickets for a fundraiser at a club at the end of the month and said he was thinking of going cause he'd like to see all his old friends again.

The club isn't really my scene, so I told him I don't really want to go but that he should still go for sure... (the rational being, the club is dresscode, i dont have club-ish clothes, and even if i did i probably wouldn't look good in them or feel comfortable in them, but i can't afford it anyways and if it was between getting hooker boots or new snowboard bindings I'd rather have the latter) ...then he said that he wasn't going to go if I don't go... so then I said that I'd suck it up and go because I know if I wanted him to come with me to a rock concert he'd go cause he'd know I'd appreciate it..

and then he was like no let's not go because I don't want you to feel awkward... and then I was insisting we go.. ahhhhh... us and our first world problems.




anyone got a slutty skirt and hooker boots i can borrow?

Heineken Helen

why is everyone insisting on having themed parties in these days of the credit crunch :oops: usually means I've to buy new stuff i'll never wear again and it's a pain in the arse.

Go though and have fun

PearlOfAGirl

doin'the-evolution wrote:

So my bf went to hang out with some friends last night... he has a set of friends who i am very close with (who i met him through) and another set of friends who i've never met before but are a different crowd with different interests. They bought him and I tickets for a fundraiser at a club at the end of the month and said he was thinking of going cause he'd like to see all his old friends again.

The club isn't really my scene, so I told him I don't really want to go but that he should still go for sure... (the rational being, the club is dresscode, i dont have club-ish clothes, and even if i did i probably wouldn't look good in them or feel comfortable in them, but i can't afford it anyways and if it was between getting hooker boots or new snowboard bindings I'd rather have the latter) ...then he said that he wasn't going to go if I don't go... so then I said that I'd suck it up and go because I know if I wanted him to come with me to a rock concert he'd go cause he'd know I'd appreciate it..

and then he was like no let's not go because I don't want you to feel awkward... and then I was insisting we go.. ahhhhh... us and our first world problems.

anyone got a slutty skirt and hooker boots i can borrow?

Just threw them away!!

justjoshingu

thats a pretty good fight that ya'll are having. both of you wanting to give in for the other one.

dunkman

Heineken Helen wrote:

why is everyone insisting on having themed parties in these days of the credit crunch :oops: usually means I've to buy new stuff i'll never wear again and it's a pain in the arse.

Go though and have fun

aye , but you wouldnt need to buy a slutty skirt and hooker boots though would you?

haffajappa

dunkman wrote:

Heineken Helen wrote:

why is everyone insisting on having themed parties in these days of the credit crunch :oops: usually means I've to buy new stuff i'll never wear again and it's a pain in the arse.

Go though and have fun

aye , but you wouldnt need to buy a slutty skirt and hooker boots though would you?

HAHAHAH...
sorry i shouldn't laugh....



....but instead ask, hey hel, can i borrow your slutty skirt and hooker boots?

Heineken Helen

doin'the-evolution wrote:

dunkman wrote:

Heineken Helen wrote:

why is everyone insisting on having themed parties in these days of the credit crunch :oops: usually means I've to buy new stuff i'll never wear again and it's a pain in the arse.

Go though and have fun

aye , but you wouldnt need to buy a slutty skirt and hooker boots though would you?

HAHAHAH...
sorry i shouldn't laugh....



....but instead ask, hey hel, can i borrow your slutty skirt and hooker boots?

lol, of course... any particular colour/style???

dunkman

Heineken Helen wrote:

lol, of course... any particular colour/style???

give her the see-thru plastic ones.

Fifthelement

What size are your feet? I may have something in the Tickle-trunk :shock:
















If your Canadian, you'll get that reference :P

libragirl

Well it was cool that he was willing not to go for you. I guess you could have borrowed some cool club clothes

smithnic

If this ever happens and someone lends you them I think you have a new avatar photo no?

Heineken Helen

dunkman wrote:

Heineken Helen wrote:

lol, of course... any particular colour/style???

give her the see-thru plastic ones.

you never gave them back to me :evil:

haffajappa

Heineken Helen wrote:

dunkman wrote:

Heineken Helen wrote:

lol, of course... any particular colour/style???

give her the see-thru plastic ones.

you never gave them back to me :evil:

ugh! don't let dunk raid your closet before i get to...
now he's going to look sluttier than me and all the boys'll be grinding on him and not me! :(

catefrances

doin'the-evolution wrote:

So my bf went to hang out with some friends last night... he has a set of friends who i am very close with (who i met him through) and another set of friends who i've never met before but are a different crowd with different interests. They bought him and I tickets for a fundraiser at a club at the end of the month and said he was thinking of going cause he'd like to see all his old friends again.

The club isn't really my scene, so I told him I don't really want to go but that he should still go for sure... (the rational being, the club is dresscode, i dont have club-ish clothes, and even if i did i probably wouldn't look good in them or feel comfortable in them, but i can't afford it anyways and if it was between getting hooker boots or new snowboard bindings I'd rather have the latter) ...then he said that he wasn't going to go if I don't go... so then I said that I'd suck it up and go because I know if I wanted him to come with me to a rock concert he'd go cause he'd know I'd appreciate it..

and then he was like no let's not go because I don't want you to feel awkward... and then I was insisting we go.. ahhhhh... us and our first world problems.




anyone got a slutty skirt and hooker boots i can borrow?

reverse psychology works a treat doesnt it??

dunkman

doin'the-evolution wrote:

now he's going to look sluttier than me and all the boys'll be grinding on him and not me! :(

to be honest you've just described my normal saturday night out.

Jennytree

your bf is weird... my one would jump at the chance to be let out on his own...



... uh ooooh!

decides2dream

sorry, no hooker boots and probably not a short enough skirt anymore.



ahhhhhhhh...the things we do for those we love!
but as you said, rationally.....it's reciprocal, and that's what truly counts. it IS good tho, when you can reach a place where you can do your thing, he does his....and one doesn't always have to get in these awkward situations just for the other. of course too, it's always nice to know you CAN depend on who you love to come thru for you too.


try and have fun!

Royals32

Fifthelement wrote:

What size are your feet? I may have something in the Tickle-trunk :shock:















If your Canadian, you'll get that reference :P

Mr. Dressup!

I loved that show...Casey and Finnegan ROCKED!

Hitch-Hiker

I gave my hooker boots to a charity shop the other day. They mightn't have sold them yet though. There's still hope!

haffajappa

smithnic wrote:

If this ever happens and someone lends you them I think you have a new avatar photo no?

perhaps this can be arranged

haffajappa

Jennytree wrote:

your bf is weird... my one would jump at the chance to be let out on his own...



... uh ooooh!

i know?
i kept urging him to go but he kept saying he didn't wanna talk about it anymore.

whatever, i looked at my schedule anyways and as it were, i work that night!
off the hook! zing!