Nah, you're no rat, believe me you did the right thing. I wish I did that when i got a nasty pm a while back. Instead I got in trouble. It's the mods responsibility to handle harrassment on the board.
Who the hell would send you nasty private messages? I don't remember you being an unfriendly or hostile poster.
Nah, you're no rat, believe me you did the right thing. I wish I did that when i got a nasty pm a while back. Instead I got in trouble. It's the mods responsibility to handle harrassment on the board.
Who the hell would send you nasty private messages? I don't remember you being an unfriendly or hostile poster.
Thank you :oops: but I probably can be if I don't like you
lol thorns, tis a good lesson to learn!
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
oh..I thought you reported it? sorry i guess i read this thread wrong :? Well Im glad it's okay now..Internet drama is stupid. Real life drama is enough..lol
I did report it. Internet drama is indeed stupid... and misleading. We'd probably get on great in real life... who knows?
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
oh..I thought you reported it? sorry i guess i read this thread wrong :? Well Im glad it's okay now..Internet drama is stupid. Real life drama is enough..lol
I did report it. Internet drama is indeed stupid... and misleading. We'd probably get on great in real life... who knows?
Well I don't think you would want to be friends with someone like that anyway.
These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
Nah, you're no rat, believe me you did the right thing. I wish I did that when i got a nasty pm a while back. Instead I got in trouble. It's the mods responsibility to handle harrassment on the board.
Who the hell would send you nasty private messages? I don't remember you being an unfriendly or hostile poster.
were you referring to me? or Helen? It had nothing to do with the board. But you do remember me having a little vacation right?
These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
Nah, you're no rat, believe me you did the right thing. I wish I did that when i got a nasty pm a while back. Instead I got in trouble. It's the mods responsibility to handle harrassment on the board.
Who the hell would send you nasty private messages? I don't remember you being an unfriendly or hostile poster.
were you referring to me? or Helen? It had nothing to do with the board. But you do remember me having a little vacation right?
Initially referring to you since I assume Helen hit a few nerves with her AMT threads/posts. Yes from the old boardd but you're free again.
'And yet you post it on the board?? you dont give a fuck you fat smelly drunk?
you're full of shit you love the drama you dyke'
by JK whatever the hell NYPJ1's going by now. I presume there's an ignore function or something? :geek:
well i guess whoever sent it has got a point with the drama bit if youve decided to post it on the open forum. the rest of the name calling is just bullshit.
hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
Couldn't you have asked the question without putting the PM in? *ducks from the objects Hells Bells will now throw at me* :twisted:
then the question would be "Is there a 'report' function?"
ohhh you mean the actual pm? d'oh! i couldnt post the ones i was getting as they were highly rude.
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
No, not at all, where did I even hint at such a thing?
I just think it's nice to know who and what you're dealing with. I've had fallouts here, and I've always kept any pm's as respectful as I could.
from personal experience i know you do jamie.
and no you didnt hint at such a thing. i was more thinking about the mob mentality. and how that can sometimes get out of hand. and i do know where youre coming from.
hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
No, not at all, where did I even hint at such a thing?
I just think it's nice to know who and what you're dealing with. I've had fallouts here, and I've always kept any pm's as respectful as I could.
from personal experience i know you do jamie.
and no you didnt hint at such a thing. i was more thinking about the mob mentality. and how that can sometimes get out of hand. and i do know where youre coming from.
That's ok then, I mean we're all grown ups, there's no excuse for disrespect on the level Helen was shown. I know her, and have enjoyed her company on three occassions and if anyone is in any doubt then I will vouch for her being only a 'drunk' and none of the other nasty things she was called, obviously I know the other one is not true because she was with her b/f.
Right then grown ups, what was that about mice farting we we're talking about earlier....?
That's ok then, I mean we're all grown ups, there's no excuse for disrespect on the level Helen was shown. I know her, and have enjoyed her company on three occassions and if anyone is in any doubt then I will vouch for her being only a 'drunk' and none of the other nasty things she was called, obviously I know the other one is not true because she was with her b/f.
Right then grown ups, what was that about mice farting we we're talking about earlier....?
sssssssh if you listen you can hear them.
hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
Couldn't you have asked the question without putting the PM in? *ducks from the objects Hells Bells will now throw at me* :twisted:
well, imo, if someone is pathetic and childish enough to unleash that sort of abuse on someone, then they deserve to be outed.
I concur, but if I didn't know Helen, I may think of her for being just as childish for creating this thread in the first place. But I know there's method in her madness. That dude was a meany!
I concur, but if I didn't know Helen, I may think of her for being just as childish for creating this thread in the first place. But I know there's method in her madness. That dude was a meany![/quote]
'And yet you post it on the board?? you dont give a fuck you fat smelly drunk?
you're full of shit you love the drama you dyke'
by JK whatever the hell NYPJ1's going by now. I presume there's an ignore function or something? :geek:
well i guess whoever sent it has got a point with the drama bit if youve decided to post it on the open forum. the rest of the name calling is just bullshit.
I think it was fair enough of her to post it on the open forum. People should be exposed for writing shit like that.
'And yet you post it on the board?? you dont give a fuck you fat smelly drunk?
you're full of shit you love the drama you dyke'
by JK whatever the hell NYPJ1's going by now. I presume there's an ignore function or something? :geek:
well i guess whoever sent it has got a point with the drama bit if youve decided to post it on the open forum. the rest of the name calling is just bullshit.
I think it was fair enough of her to post it on the open forum. People should be exposed for writing shit like that.
Couldn't you have asked the question without putting the PM in? *ducks from the objects Hells Bells will now throw at me* :twisted:
well, imo, if someone is pathetic and childish enough to unleash that sort of abuse on someone, then they deserve to be outed.
Agreed... I felt bad about it afterwards and actually asked Kat to close this thread... but I think if you write something like that, you lose all entitlements to privacy. It was a spur of the moment decision and I made the wrong one.
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
well i guess whoever sent it has got a point with the drama bit if youve decided to post it on the open forum. the rest of the name calling is just bullshit.
I think it was fair enough of her to post it on the open forum. People should be exposed for writing shit like that.
Couldn't agree more.
Thanks fellas... Jenny and Cate are right of course but I still don't think this needs MUCH defending :oops:
Jenny, I'd agree that if I didn't know me I'd think it was a bit childish :oops: but since you know me, you'll also know that I really don't care what people think of me on here. I'll just say whatever's in my head at the time... and that's BOUND to leave you unpopular with some people... and I'm cool with that
The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Thanks fellas... Jenny and Cate are right of course but I still don't think this needs MUCH defending :oops:
Jenny, I'd agree that if I didn't know me I'd think it was a bit childish :oops: but since you know me, you'll also know that I really don't care what people think of me on here. I'll just say whatever's in my head at the time... and that's BOUND to leave you unpopular with some people... and I'm cool with that
have to say, agree with cate and jenny...and it's not 'defending' anything. that PM is all kinds of bad news - nothing to defend there. i would think simply copying/pasting said offensive PM and sending on to the mods would be the way to go, no matter who is involved. posting PMs on the board is just a no-no imo, and i do believe people on the message pit have been banned for doing such things in the past. private messages are....private....messages. obviously, when they go over the line it's time to alert the mods, but not other board members, publicly. just my 2 cents.
Thanks fellas... Jenny and Cate are right of course but I still don't think this needs MUCH defending :oops:
Jenny, I'd agree that if I didn't know me I'd think it was a bit childish :oops: but since you know me, you'll also know that I really don't care what people think of me on here. I'll just say whatever's in my head at the time... and that's BOUND to leave you unpopular with some people... and I'm cool with that
have to say, agree with cate and jenny...and it's not 'defending' anything. that PM is all kinds of bad news - nothing to defend there. i would think simply copying/pasting said offensive PM and sending on to the mods would be the way to go, no matter who is involved. posting PMs on the board is just a no-no imo, and i do believe people on the message pit have been banned for doing such things in the past. private messages are....private....messages. obviously, when they go over the line it's time to alert the mods, but not other board members, publicly. just my 2 cents.
Well helen didn't post WHO it was from , I think it's a good thing to let people here know as an example , that some shit just ain't cool. Sure air your greivances but decorum and politeness OUGHT to be the rule.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
person shouldnt hide behind that message though.. he said bad stuff about Helen... it's up to her what she does with it... he gave up that ownership when he hit 'send'...
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
Couldn't you have asked the question without putting the PM in? *ducks from the objects Hells Bells will now throw at me* :twisted:
then the question would be "Is there a 'report' function?"
ohhh you mean the actual pm? d'oh! co i uldnt post the ones i was getting as they were highly rude.
I wanna see 'em
i think i deleted them.. maybe not.
worth a laugh.
oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
Thanks fellas... Jenny and Cate are right of course but I still don't think this needs MUCH defending :oops:
Jenny, I'd agree that if I didn't know me I'd think it was a bit childish :oops: but since you know me, you'll also know that I really don't care what people think of me on here. I'll just say whatever's in my head at the time... and that's BOUND to leave you unpopular with some people... and I'm cool with that
have to say, agree with cate and jenny...and it's not 'defending' anything. that PM is all kinds of bad news - nothing to defend there. i would think simply copying/pasting said offensive PM and sending on to the mods would be the way to go, no matter who is involved. posting PMs on the board is just a no-no imo, and i do believe people on the message pit have been banned for doing such things in the past. private messages are....private....messages. obviously, when they go over the line it's time to alert the mods, but not other board members, publicly. just my 2 cents.
Well helen didn't post WHO it was from , I think it's a good thing to let people here know as an example , that some shit just ain't cool. Sure air your greivances but decorum and politeness OUGHT to be the rule.
actually, she DID.
and you're right...politeness should and IS the rule, and sending offensive PMs isn't cool, and nor is posting said content. both are uncool imo, and as i said...in the past, people were banned for posting private messages. the 'cool' thing to do, imo, is to alert the mods, not the board. beyond that, simply my opinion on the topic.
if i send a PRIVATE message, no matter the content, it is because i want only you to read my words. whether the content is innocuous or offensive, it was meant to be private. obviously, if it is offensive or threatening, alerting the mods - privately - is the way to go. to me, if it is 'OK' to post a PM because it's 'offensive'....when would it not be OK to post one? there is a line....and imo...PMs should remain as such. that is all. one can easily ask if there is a report a PM function without given content, or naming names, etc.
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EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
lol thorns, tis a good lesson to learn!
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Well I don't think you would want to be friends with someone like that anyway.
were you referring to me? or Helen? It had nothing to do with the board. But you do remember me having a little vacation right?
I know, I've seen your drunk posts! :shock:
EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
well i guess whoever sent it has got a point with the drama bit if youve decided to post it on the open forum. the rest of the name calling is just bullshit.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
http://www.facebook.com/jennytree
SMELL YER MA!
my thoughts exactly.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
well, imo, if someone is pathetic and childish enough to unleash that sort of abuse on someone, then they deserve to be outed.
you mean so everyone else can jump on board and hurl abuse at the pathetic pmer???
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
No, not at all, where did I even hint at such a thing?
I just think it's nice to know who and what you're dealing with. I've had fallouts here, and I've always kept any pm's as respectful as I could.
then the question would be "Is there a 'report' function?"
ohhh you mean the actual pm? d'oh! i couldnt post the ones i was getting as they were highly rude.
I wanna see 'em
from personal experience i know you do jamie.
and no you didnt hint at such a thing. i was more thinking about the mob mentality. and how that can sometimes get out of hand. and i do know where youre coming from.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
That's ok then, I mean we're all grown ups, there's no excuse for disrespect on the level Helen was shown. I know her, and have enjoyed her company on three occassions and if anyone is in any doubt then I will vouch for her being only a 'drunk' and none of the other nasty things she was called, obviously I know the other one is not true because she was with her b/f.
Right then grown ups, what was that about mice farting we we're talking about earlier....?
sssssssh if you listen you can hear them.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I concur, but if I didn't know Helen, I may think of her for being just as childish for creating this thread in the first place. But I know there's method in her madness. That dude was a meany!
http://www.facebook.com/jennytree
SMELL YER MA!
I concur, but if I didn't know Helen, I may think of her for being just as childish for creating this thread in the first place. But I know there's method in her madness. That dude was a meany![/quote]
I came, I saw, I concurred.
I think it was fair enough of her to post it on the open forum. People should be exposed for writing shit like that.
Couldn't agree more.
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
Jenny, I'd agree that if I didn't know me I'd think it was a bit childish :oops: but since you know me, you'll also know that I really don't care what people think of me on here. I'll just say whatever's in my head at the time... and that's BOUND to leave you unpopular with some people... and I'm cool with that
Verona??? it's all surmountable
Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
Wembley? We all believe!
Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
Chicago 07? And love
What a different life
Had I not found this love with you
have to say, agree with cate and jenny...and it's not 'defending' anything. that PM is all kinds of bad news - nothing to defend there. i would think simply copying/pasting said offensive PM and sending on to the mods would be the way to go, no matter who is involved. posting PMs on the board is just a no-no imo, and i do believe people on the message pit have been banned for doing such things in the past. private messages are....private....messages. obviously, when they go over the line it's time to alert the mods, but not other board members, publicly. just my 2 cents.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
Well helen didn't post WHO it was from , I think it's a good thing to let people here know as an example , that some shit just ain't cool. Sure air your greivances but decorum and politeness OUGHT to be the rule.
Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
i think i deleted them.. maybe not.
worth a laugh.
actually, she DID.
and you're right...politeness should and IS the rule, and sending offensive PMs isn't cool, and nor is posting said content. both are uncool imo, and as i said...in the past, people were banned for posting private messages. the 'cool' thing to do, imo, is to alert the mods, not the board. beyond that, simply my opinion on the topic.
if i send a PRIVATE message, no matter the content, it is because i want only you to read my words. whether the content is innocuous or offensive, it was meant to be private. obviously, if it is offensive or threatening, alerting the mods - privately - is the way to go. to me, if it is 'OK' to post a PM because it's 'offensive'....when would it not be OK to post one? there is a line....and imo...PMs should remain as such. that is all. one can easily ask if there is a report a PM function without given content, or naming names, etc.
agree....disagree....c'est la vie.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow