I was made a fool

halszka123

What happened...
I found on one forum a post from someone who wanted sb to go for a trip on vacation. He was feeling lonely, and I feel lonely here, where i live now, so it seemed to be good reason to travel together.
So I started to mail him on friday.
Hmm. He seemed to be very sentimental and romantic person (and i started to be bored, but try to be polite - now i have time to try to open myself for different people).
And finally, today i realized one of his mail was written different font. So I checked, if that sentence wasn't from somewhere in internet.

And i found out, that it was on his blog. And the best was - he put there my mail to him. Just like other mails from people, who perhaps, don't know about it like me before.
He is a writer or sth, because there were opinion other people about his book.
Anyway. He's Capricorn, and he said he likes honest and upright people and many sublime things... that's why i didn't believe him much, and that's why i checked him. And i was right.

And You know, what i think? Besides I'm f***in mad and angry he put my mail on the blog without my knowledge and permission... now, again I am confirmed in this belief - don't trust person with golden-mouthed.

Unmasking hypocrisy is as much making me feel strong as much making me feel disgusting this kind of people

Cosmo

halszka123 wrote:

What happened...
I found on one forum a post from someone who wanted sb to go for a trip on vacation. He was feeling lonely, and I feel lonely here, where i live now, so it seemed to be good reason to travel together.
So I started to mail him on friday.
Hmm. He seemed to be very sentimental and romantic person (and i started to be bored, but try to be polite - now i have time to try to open myself for different people).
And finally, today i realized one of his mail was written different font. So I checked, if that sentence wasn't from somewhere in internet.

And i found out, that it was on his blog. And the best was - he put there my mail to him. Just like other mails from people, who perhaps, don't know about it like me before.
He is a writer or sth, because there were opinion other people about his book.
Anyway. He's Capricorn, and he said he likes honest and upright people and many sublime things... that's why i didn't believe him much, and that's why i checked him. And i was right.

And You know, what i think? Besides I'm f***in mad and angry he put my mail on the blog without my knowledge and permission... now, again I am confirmed in this belief - don't trust person with golden-mouthed.

Unmasking hypocrisy is as much making me feel strong as much making me feel disgusting this kind of people

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Have you asked him to take it down?
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Politely?

halszka123

No, I didn't. I just wrote to him that I know about the blog, and about my feeling.
More! I send him a commentary on his blog below my letter about it, plus: question - how many words in his answers were written for the public, and how many were really his own considerations.

Now, I'm waiting for his answer

you are

don't trust him anymore. if you ask questions and act out in anger he'll just use that against you. he seems to want those reactions out of you or anyone else that will believe him. if i were you, i would cut off all communication with him. the more you talk to him, the more information he will put on his blog.

i hope everything works out for you.

just tina

no offense to those have gotten involved in something good from this internet of ours, but for the most part i'd say don't get involved on a message board. i can't see good things coming from it. for the most part.

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Doesnt like the view wrote:

no offense to those have gotten involved in something good from this internet of ours, but for the most part i'd say don't get involved on a message board. i can't see good things coming from it. for the most part.

i agree (and also no offense to those who have found true love on the net), but you can hardly trust the guy/girl next door these days. anyone can be what you want them to be on the internet. you've got to be careful and not so trusting.

just tina

you are wrote:

i agree (and also no offense to those who have found true love on the net), but you can hardly trust the guy/girl next door these days. anyone can be what you want them to be on the internet. you've got to be careful and not so trusting.

exactly.

kristophed

Link?

halszka123

You know what he said?
He doesn't understand, why i'm angry. I should be proud that he found my mail so interesting, that he wanted to share it with people;)
And, there's a little spark of hope he's not so bad and insensitive, because, he declared he can delete my letter from the blog, if i want it.

Funny guy - i'm sarcastic a little bit

Cosmo

halszka123 wrote:

You know what he said?
He doesn't understand, why i'm angry. I should be proud that he found my mail so interesting, that he wanted to share it with people;)
And, there's a little spark of hope he's not so bad and insensitive, because, he declared he can delete my letter from the blog, if i want it.

Funny guy - i'm sarcastic a little bit

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See? Things work out.
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Now... copy and paste your letter on here so we can make a thorough assessment.

halszka123

You want me to do impossible thing.
I mailed with that man in polish. Don't make me translate all of this. It's nothing personal, we just talked about many things that were our consideration, but, anyway - why people don't understand, that was correspondence. Just between two people.
BTW. That man is not involved in our message pit. Probably he doesn't even know what is Pearl Jam (as i know he listened classic music)

Cosmo

halszka123 wrote:

You want me to do impossible thing.
I mailed with that man in polish. Don't make me translate all of this. It's nothing personal, we just talked about many things that were our consideration, but, anyway - why people don't understand, that was correspondence. Just between two people.
BTW. That man is not involved in our message pit. Probably he doesn't even know what is Pearl Jam (as i know he listened classic music)

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Just a joke, sweetie.
I'm glad things worked out for you.
peace... love...

halszka123

Cosmo wrote:

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Just a joke, sweetie.
I'm glad things worked out for you.
peace... love...

WildChildRose

Hmm a little confused but I think I get what you are saying. You are okay with him now, even though he was making fun of you in his blog? Why are you okay with it now?

halszka123

I'm sure he didn't make fun of me. he didn't laugh at my mail, no... you should read all our mails, so You would know what I mean...
I was angry, because he sent my mail in his blog without asking me for permission. First I thought it was no big deal for him to do that, but... now... I think he didn't catch the thin line what is private message and what is already not. Probably he is not tactful.
No, one more chance. And I sill don't trust this kind of person, but I'm curious how is he like besides this.
Believe me, I'm not so stupid to let strange man demean me.
It's so strange that some people don't understand some things, which should be so clear. It's making me crazy. But maybe after this rude behavior he's some good points?

WildChildRose

halszka123 wrote:

I'm sure he didn't make fun of me. he idn't laugh at my mail, no...
i was angry because he sent my mail in his blog without asking me for permission. First I thought it was no big deal for him to do that, but... now... i think he didn't catch the thin line what is private message and what is already not. Probably he is not tactful.
No, one more chance. And i sill don't trust this kin of person, but i'm curious how is he like besides this.

Oh okay. But you said he doesn't even know who Pearl Jam is! That concerns me more than the blog! hehe. ;-)

Swan

post the link to his blog.

JordyWordy

halszka123 wrote:

I'm sure he didn't make fun of me. he didn't laugh at my mail, no... you should read all our mails, so You would know what I mean...
I was angry, because he sent my mail in his blog without asking me for permission. First I thought it was no big deal for him to do that, but... now... I think he didn't catch the thin line what is private message and what is already not. Probably he is not tactful.
No, one more chance. And I sill don't trust this kind of person, but I'm curious how is he like besides this.
Believe me, I'm not so stupid to let strange man demean me.
It's so strange that some people don't understand some things, which should be so clear. It's making me crazy. But maybe after this rude behavior he's some good points?

im sure he does have some good points.

for example, he sounds like he knows the right things to say.

BUT, if he cannot keep things private then that is a MASSIVE problem.
you cannot trust someone who (1) will break your trust so easily
and (2) does not understand why that is bad

sorry to say....

halszka123

You shouldn't be sorry. I know You right:) I agree. That's why I am not going to tell him anything important and private;)

riffrandall

Capricorn guys are assholes. They are cold & distant & sarcastic and totally out for themselves. Stay clear. I'm a Capricorn girl & I have a twin brother. I know what I'm talking about!

halszka123

riffrandall wrote:

Capricorn guys are assholes. They are cold & distant & sarcastic and totally out for themselves. Stay clear. I'm a Capricorn girl & I have a twin brother. I know what I'm talking about!

Thanx:)
I'm not sure if I believe in horoscope. Maybe once -every time I met Gemini it finished very bad way for me...