True friends...

halszka123

I guess it's not important to anybody, but I have to write this. It's growing bigger and bigger inside me...
It's so painful when You realize that Your friends are not so truly friends as they should be.
When You really need them, when You feel so bad, everything in Your life is wrong, and this one drop just overflowed my sorrow. And You need helpful hand and... they just turn away. They don't have time...
And there is an hour of truth. Now I know my best friend is my brother, even we don't share with every thoughts. But when I need somebody- he's with me.
Others are just... known.

Kilgore_Trout

ive been in that boat brutha... i had a friend throughout jr. high and high school that was like a brother to me and we had a sudden and inexplicable falling out our senior year... i know hes a good guy at heart but he got more worried with the image he was trying to portray and got into some drugs and other nonsense i didnt really want a part of... its 10x worse than any breakup... you figure your friends are in it for the long haul but sometimes that doesnt turn out to be the case

hope you get through whatever youre dealing with and have some friends left to count on

failedpersephone

a brother is still good to have in the true friend department...

sometimes people are myopic...and we smell...but essentially we are good...

if you don't put too much faith in us...


sorry your friends weren't there - but at least your brother was...any safety net is better than nothing

muah! kisses

Jeanie

True friends are like diamonds - precious and rare.
False friends are like autumn leaves - found everywhere.

brain of c

everyone is a rock.

we are an island.

Heineken Helen

halszka123 wrote:

I guess it's not important to anybody, but I have to write this. It's growing bigger and bigger inside me...
It's so painful when You realize that Your friends are not so truly friends as they should be.
When You really need them, when You feel so bad, everything in Your life is wrong, and this one drop just overflowed my sorrow. And You need helpful hand and... they just turn away. They don't have time...
And there is an hour of truth. Now I know my best friend is my brother, even we don't share with every thoughts. But when I need somebody- he's with me.
Others are just... known.

I'm sorry you're going through this :( . I think a lot of us have gone through it at some point. I lost my best friend just before christmas cos she was only really a friend if she needed me for something, a few times I needed her and she was NEVER there! So I had to end it but it was coming for a while... and funny enough I felt liberated then.

I've also had a painful moment where I realised my sister is my best friend cos she's the only one who would always be there... even if it's just an ear. I just had to accept that though and I'm pretty ok with it now

You'll get through this... if you wanna talk about what's going on, ya know we're here.

KosmicJelli

yep... when times are tough and you need help...sometimes one can find it amazing whom their friends are. Its even more disheartening when you can only find solace in your friends and not your family... I am really saddened by that fact. I have friends here I would consider over members of my family any day... it took me a long time to figure out.
Just be thankful you have friends you can depend on no matter what... it helps!!!

halszka123

Thank You. Everyone.
Heineken Helen - I know what U mean, i went through the same and i thought then that i found my true friends, but now i see i was wrong.
Yes, it is harder to know U cannot rely on your family - i through the same tooo. I mean my parents, who drink too much alcohol.
It sad but it's true - we are all alone sometimes. That "sometimes" is really sometimes this special moment in our lifes, that we shouldn't stay alone, but we are.
i feel i was betreyed by my friends. i know i'll stand up. Again. but one thing in me is dying. It's faith in friendship.
one day maybe i wiil become a robot. Without human feeling. I hope i will die just after this

halszka123

btw. i had only a few friends. Who is still them?

Cropduster84

Friends come and go.....you change, they change.....


circumstances seem to highlight who your friends really are......

halszka123

Don't You think it is so cruel?
i want, i want so much to rely on sb...
to share my thoughts and my feelings... and be understood. Or feel that sb TRIES to understand me

Indian Summer

Sometimes the best part of going through a tough time in your life is finding out who your real friends are.

Heineken Helen

Indian Summer wrote:

Sometimes the best part of going through a tough time in your life is finding out who your real friends are.

I agree! I mean with these friends who I lost I kinda knew all along anyway that they weren't good... but you know it when you find real friends. It also makes you more self reliant... what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.