Who's single tonight ?

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  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    oh and to answer the thread title, yes. I'm currently single :)
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    oh and to answer the thread title, yes. I'm currently single :)


    define single. :D
    NOPE!!!

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  • mdigenakis
    mdigenakis Posts: 1,337
    kenshunt wrote:
    Ended a relationship today and i feel like shit hehe.
    suck, i hear you.
    "Don't let the darkness eat you up..."

    -Greg Dulli

  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Jeanie wrote:
    define single. :D
    How do you mean? :) I'm not currently seeing anyone :o
    Explain Jeanie :)
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Ken, just hold on. :) Time will pass. Now will be over. It'll be ok mate. :)

    http://au.youtube.com/watch?v=1uYmyhmqcaY
    NOPE!!!

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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    How do you mean? : ) I'm not currently seeing anyone : o
    Explain Jeanie : )

    oh don't mind me J. :)

    I am currently a mental case. :o I just discovered in the last 12 months there are different kinds of single. Least I think so. :confused:

    Currently not seeing anyone clarifies. I guess not seeing someone means jack shit if your head and heart are otherwise engaged is all.

    I've been happily and I mean REALLY HAPPILY single for a lot of years, now not so much, but still not seeing anyone. See? :rolleyes: Mental case! :D
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

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  • mdigenakis
    mdigenakis Posts: 1,337
    Jeanie wrote:
    oh don't mind me J. :)

    I am currently a mental case. :o I just discovered in the last 12 months there are different kinds of single. Least I think so. :confused:

    Currently not seeing anyone clarifies. I guess not seeing someone means jack shit if your head and heart are otherwise engaged is all.

    I've been happily and I mean REALLY HAPPILY single for a lot of years, now not so much, but still not seeing anyone. See? :rolleyes: Mental case! :D

    i see
    "Don't let the darkness eat you up..."

    -Greg Dulli

  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Jeanie wrote:
    oh don't mind me J.

    I am currently a mental case. :o I just discovered in the last 12 months there are different kinds of single. Least I think so.

    Currently not seeing anyone clarifies. I guess not seeing someone means jack shit if your head and heart are otherwise engaged is all.

    I've been happily and I mean REALLY HAPPILY single for a lot of years, now not so much, but still not seeing anyone. See? :rolleyes: Mental case! :D
    I think I understand you :) or as well as anyone can when it seems like you barely do yourself at the moment :) thought provoking post though... seriously. I've never really thought of it like that... I supposed single is kind of an ambiguous statement.
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • DopeyBoy
    DopeyBoy Posts: 170
    Been single like 3 months now...can't say I'm enjoying it too much! Not really quite as bad as I thought it'd be, but still no fun.
    Well, I guess technically I'm still married, which just makes everything more awkward.
    But, c'est la vie...

    Peace
    :-p
    "Six million dollars we turned down, to prevent our song to be sung by a cock" E.V. - San Diego, June 5, 2003
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    mdigenakis wrote:
    i see

    You do? :D:o

    You sound like my old shrink! :p

    Now all you gotta say is, "and how do you feel about that?" and we're there! ;)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    I think I understand you :) or as well as anyone can when it seems like you barely do yourself at the moment :) thought provoking post though... seriously. I've never really thought of it like that... I supposed single is kind of an ambiguous statement.

    See to me, being single, it's either something visited upon you that you resent and don't want. Or it's something you embrace, love to be, and live with well. Least that's how I saw it. To me single is a label. It's what I have to put on all my official forms and the like you know? But I am not single. Because to be single I would need to be free and I am not free. So I guess I was single and now I am something else. It's not married and it's not single. It's another thing entirely. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • mdigenakis
    mdigenakis Posts: 1,337
    Jeanie wrote:
    You do? :D:o

    You sound like my old shrink! :p

    Now all you gotta say is, "and how do you feel about that?" and we're there! ;)
    indeed.
    "Don't let the darkness eat you up..."

    -Greg Dulli

  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    Jeanie wrote:
    See to me, being single, it's either something visited upon you that you resent and don't want. Or it's something you embrace, love to be, and live with well. Least that's how I saw it. To me single is a label. It's what I have to put on all my official forms and the like you know? But I am not single. Because to be single I would need to be free and I am not free. So I guess I was single and now I am something else. It's not married and it's not single. It's another thing entirely. :)
    That makes absolute and perfect sense :) I only wish I viewed being single how you do. I'm not content being "free" :o I'm not overly worried though. I'm doing fine as I am and who knows what's over the horizon? maybe it's just a matter of time :)
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    Jeanie wrote:
    See to me, being single, it's either something visited upon you that you resent and don't want. Or it's something you embrace, love to be, and live with well. Least that's how I saw it. To me single is a label. It's what I have to put on all my official forms and the like you know? But I am not single. Because to be single I would need to be free and I am not free. So I guess I was single and now I am something else. It's not married and it's not single. It's another thing entirely. :)

    aw! that made me smile
  • South of Seattle
    South of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    I feel single since my husband works 7 days a week.

    I kid you not. He works 40-50 hours a week at his office, and then works another 40 hours a week for a different job...


    so 80-90 hours a week. every week, with no end in sight.

    Holy Crap! :eek:

    I work 84 hours a week, but at least I get the next week off. Damn!
    NERDS!
  • Proteus
    Proteus Posts: 166
    Fuckin...




















































    I forgot what I was gonna say.
    FUEL AND RELEASE!!! happiness is good FOR AN hour... FUEL AND RE-LEASE!!! happines is good FOR an HOU-ER.
    --P. Farrell
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    mdigenakis wrote:
    indeed.

    :D sorry mdige! :o

    Not trying to giggle at you but gee you got the bloke down pat! :D
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • mdigenakis
    mdigenakis Posts: 1,337
    Jeanie wrote:
    :D sorry mdige! :o

    Not trying to giggle at you but gee you got the bloke down pat! :D

    yeah i know

    if i may ask, which type of single is the sucky kind?
    i've been single most of my life, but now its sucks alot. I cannot stress alot enough.
    "Don't let the darkness eat you up..."

    -Greg Dulli

  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    Holy Crap! :eek:

    I work 84 hours a week, but at least I get the next week off. Damn!


    yeah, its rather crazy if you ask me.
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Jeremy1012 wrote:
    That makes absolute and perfect sense : ) I only wish I viewed being single how you do. I'm not content being "free" : o I'm not overly worried though. I'm doing fine as I am and who knows what's over the horizon? maybe it's just a matter of time : )


    YIKES!! :eek:

    If I'm making sense we gotta get you out there fella! ;)

    Single is the best I think, if your head's right! You can truly learn to love being in your own company, coz let's face it, YOU are the person you will spend the most time with in your life. So it makes sense to enjoy being around yourself. Doing the things that you enjoy, challenging yourself, entertaining yourself, loving yourself. And the beauty of that is, when you know yourself well and you have embraced single, you know exactly who you are and are more able to share YOU with someone else and recognize the kinds of people that you want to share with. But I reckon you're doing ok with it all J. :) Tis me that's busy with the navel contemplation lately! :o So many things to learn in this life. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift