i don't want to think of him
genie
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that's right, once again i got another guy in my head that i now think about :rolleyes: i saw him for the second time at another person's birthday, this time he wasn't so wasted as the last time, so when i saw him i reminded him about myself revealing few little embarrassing details that he told me previously when he was drunk. The guy is a comedian...he's not good on punch lines sometimes, but he is good with impressions....anyway that's not what i'm on about, i'm writing in here because i think i like him!........shit.....the guy is not my type at all, he is chuby, older than me, shorter than me ( i think )...but he is cute and has an interesting character.
and in the end i even asked if i can hug him, and yes by that time he realised that i like him.
damn...that's where the problem is...i don't think i want to date him, but i sure would like to listen to him, and just find out more about him as a person.
and in the end i even asked if i can hug him, and yes by that time he realised that i like him.
damn...that's where the problem is...i don't think i want to date him, but i sure would like to listen to him, and just find out more about him as a person.
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im sitting in front of my laptop trying my best not to think about the person ive completely fallen for. so hard to surpress these emotions
true, i want to think about work, philosophy, and other stuff :cool:..instead i can just see that i'm going to waste at least two weeks thinking about this guy before i let it go.
Tis hard to be happy with what we have, hey!
im probably going to spend the next few months thinking about the girl ive fallen for - shes my best mate. shes away on a Uni trip at the moment and probably with a guy she likes from her course right now - kills me inside!
nah, not Jeff if you are talking about PJ, and if so i never thought Jeff was short and chuby
hard to be happy with what i have?
oh no! i've got to admit that's so much more worse. just remember that these days relationships don't last long
Yes, I wouldn't describe him that way, too. He was just the lastest boy on my brain, that allowed me to relate to your dilemna. I suppose I was way off, although I could try to recoup with, being happy with self?
sounds corny/cheesey, but i care for her so much that if this guy of her course is going to make her happy, then i'll do my best to be happy for her
ok, i think i'm happy with myself but i want to have more things in life than i do now. it's just when i meet people who are fun and larger than life then i'm drawn to them be it man or woman. hell, i don't even know if i fancy this guy or if i just want to get to know him, at this moment i am very confused with my emotions.
uh, that is tough,i sure wouldn't want to be in your situation. but you are doing the right thing, plus i have much more faith in friendships, i think friendships are far more better than relationships
anyway, i gotta go now good night
SLOW DOWN GIRL!
No hurry. By the sounds of it, if you do get involved with this guy, you probably will be boared of him after a short while.
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you really think so? just out of curiosity what makes you say that?
but i do know what you mean about slowing down. maybe you're right, i guess i must approach it in a cool manner and not blow it all out of proportion....though i am kinda fascinated by him.
please define casual dating.
and yep there is a reason why i'm drawn to him, after my little fling with dark-creative-depressed kind of guy didn't work out now i'm more interested in funny, happy, nutty guys. my reasons for liking this guy are: because he is a joker, likes to be the center of attention, and a bit of a nutter.
I'm in the same boat as you! Except this guy is my best friends younger brother, which is fine, but yeah. I can't get him out of my head! He's the most intelligent guy I've ever met, and we have almost everything in common. He's really sweet, and well, hot damn. We had a bit of a thing on my birthday, and the other day he told me that he has a thing for me. I've got less than six mo. left here in the US and I don't want a relationship, and while a nice summer fling would be great, is it really appropriate right now? What if I get attached? He is pretty much my dream guy and well, if I am thinking of him this much now, I know it's going to be worse come Sept. But you know, he's just, PERFECT right now, and aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Best two days of my life: Oasis at MSG and Pearl Jam at the Gorge.
i'm probably going to sound like a hypocrite contradicting myself but, go for it! if it all goes well for those few months then at least you'll have some good memories
as for me, it's quite a different story, i'd like to take it easy and get to know the guy on a friendly basis, but how do i do that? because he doesn't usually hang around with my mate...how do i get to know someone without them thinking that i want something more..or them wanting something more from me?
the rest comes naturally, if at all
if i go for a coffee with him, then that would be called a date....and i don't want that, i want to observe and suss him out before anyone suspects anything.
oh well he is a comedian afterall i will ask my mate to watch out for any shows he's going to be doing...so i can see and talk to him there...like a true stalker
I don't ever remember getting to know a guy on a friendly basis before, well, you know, but kudos to you for being able to do so! That makes me sound so terrible, but I have this HUGE commitment fear, and that is actually weird of me to say since I've been in two, two year relationships. Just being with this guy though, it just adds up. It's just that feeling you get when you know, and I've never felt this before. I really want to be with him, really really do, but in the end, I guess only time spent with him will tell. I even gave him let him borrow my Soundgarden albums, which I NEVER let anyone touch, so that is huge in itself. hahahahhaha, i'm a dork. I wish I had the answer, or the secret to getting to know a guy properly, but I don't, cause I think I could use it too. I rush in to things, which is never good. I guess group things? but how do you avoid the personal stuff when it's just the two of you? ah! relationships are far too complicated for me, I never want to get married.
Best two days of my life: Oasis at MSG and Pearl Jam at the Gorge.
hehehe, i'm different i don't like to rush into things, and will have to say that i won't let any guy rush me into anything like it happened last time.hehe annoying things about relationships is when a guy calls me everyday or even worse texts me everyday! honestly if the next guy i'm going to be going out with is going to do this i will have to tell him not to or dump him there and then
but i don't know i guess with this guy i can't be playing all stalkerish for too long cause he's witty. and since i'm all direct and honest lately then next time i see him i might just tell him this "look dude, you're kinda interesting character, can i just be friends with you?"
and if he's going to be prick about it then it's not even worth knowing such a guy.
My Morning Jacket
Pearl Jam
Neil Young
Wilco
Tool
Rush
Drive By Truckers
pj shows
8/17/98
8/15/00
8/18/00
8/20/00
6/22/03
10/2/04
8/5/07
hmm..ok