how do you know when you're in love?

genie
genie Posts: 2,222
edited December 2009 in All Encompassing Trip
is it the blushes, :o
or the dilated pupils in the eyes,
or uncontrollable arousal in the pants ;):D
or instant heart attack when admired gives a glance

so yep, i want to know what are the signs when you know you're in love

* edit* nothing scientific please! do not bore me with science.....i want jokes
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  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    genie wrote:
    is it the blushes, :o
    or the dilated pupils in the eyes,
    or uncontrollable arousal in the pants ;):D
    or instant heart attack when admired gives a glance

    so yep, i want to know what are the signs when you know you're in love

    Withdrawal
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Ahnimus wrote:
    Withdrawal

    erm....withdrawal from what and whom? write a bit more
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    genie wrote:
    erm....withdrawal from what and whom? write a bit more

    If you love someone, you have chemical bond in your brain. When you are around them the bond is satisfied. When you are away from them the thoughts enter your mind to satisfy the desire to be with them and satisfy the chemical bond.

    All of the symptoms that people experience with withdrawal from love are similar in characteristics to withdrawal from recreational drugs like cocaine.

    Love is a really potent drug that can become immediately addictive. Never-the-less it is a drug and that explains the withdrawal symptoms.

    So, basically, what I mean to say is, if you have the withdrawal symptoms you are in love. But that doesn't mean it's the mystical, last-forever, fantasy love. That doesn't exist.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • Pacomc79
    Pacomc79 Posts: 9,404
    genie wrote:
    erm....withdrawal from what and whom? write a bit more


    your friends and having fun. Eventually this develops in to marriage, failure to answer ones cellular, putting the toilet seat down upon finishing and becoming absolutely utterly lame when it comes to hanging out :D

    generally, you kind of just know.
    My Girlfriend said to me..."How many guitars do you need?" and I replied...."How many pairs of shoes do you need?" She got really quiet.
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    Pacomc79 wrote:
    your friends and having fun. Eventually this develops in to marriage, failure to answer ones cellular, putting the toilet seat down upon finishing and becoming absolutely utterly lame when it comes to hanging out :D

    generally, you kind of just know.

    lol, my toilet seat is always down, I live alone. The lid is also always down. Anyway, that's a whole different issue most men and women seem to be pretty self-centred and myopic about.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Ahnimus wrote:
    If you love someone, you have chemical bond in your brain. When you are around them the bond is satisfied. When you are away from them the thoughts enter your mind to satisfy the desire to be with them and satisfy the chemical bond.

    All of the symptoms that people experience with withdrawal from love are similar in characteristics to withdrawal from recreational drugs like cocaine.

    Love is a really potent drug that can become immediately addictive. Never-the-less it is a drug and that explains the withdrawal symptoms.

    So, basically, what I mean to say is, if you have the withdrawal symptoms you are in love. But that doesn't mean it's the mystical, last-forever, fantasy love. That doesn't exist.

    when you meet a woman you like you watch out for these symptoms?
    Ahnimus, thank you but i was looking for something less scientific, i want it to be more of funny thread...
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    genie wrote:
    when you meet a woman you like you watch out for these symptoms?
    Ahnimus, thank you but i was looking for something less scientific, i want it to be more of funny thread...

    Stick to the AET :P
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • Pacomc79
    Pacomc79 Posts: 9,404
    Ahnimus wrote:
    If you love someone, you have chemical bond in your brain. When you are around them the bond is satisfied. When you are away from them the thoughts enter your mind to satisfy the desire to be with them and satisfy the chemical bond.

    All of the symptoms that people experience with withdrawal from love are similar in characteristics to withdrawal from recreational drugs like cocaine.

    Love is a really potent drug that can become immediately addictive. Never-the-less it is a drug and that explains the withdrawal symptoms.

    So, basically, what I mean to say is, if you have the withdrawal symptoms you are in love. But that doesn't mean it's the mystical, last-forever, fantasy love. That doesn't exist.


    well done, I had not thought of it this way before, but in my experience it's quite accurate. It seems a little different though as I age and have been through 2 or 3 good withdrawals now.

    oh and for the record, peeing sitting down is kind of nice, I can read for a bit, enjoy the quiet privacy of the room, I am just annoyed at the demand for my always having to remember to lower the lid as if females would contract some disease from having to touch the lid or look at toilet water.
    My Girlfriend said to me..."How many guitars do you need?" and I replied...."How many pairs of shoes do you need?" She got really quiet.
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    Pacomc79 wrote:
    well done, I had not thought of it this way before, but in my experience it's quite accurate. It seems a little different though as I age and have been through 2 or 3 good withdrawals now.

    I have to give credit to the scientific community. Howstuffworks.com and Wikipedia.com

    Thanks though :)
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    Pacomc79 wrote:
    oh and for the record, peeing sitting down is kind of nice, I can read for a bit, enjoy the quiet privacy of the room, I am just annoyed at the demand for my always having to remember to lower the lid as if females would contract some disease from having to touch the lid or look at toilet water.

    Insist that the lid/cover be placed down to protect objects from falling into the toilet water. That's what I do. My toilet lid is always down. My ex insisted I put the seat down and I insisted she put the lid down. It ended up being me going after her for leaving the lid up.

    One time, she went to the washroom, opened the door and began brushing her teeth. I noticed she'd left the lid up and kindly asked her to place it down, she did. Moments later she bumped the sink and my brush fell off, hit the lid of the toilet and bounced onto the floor. So I said "See, that is exactly why I say 'put the lid down'".
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Ahnimus wrote:
    I have to give credit to the scientific community. Howstuffworks.com and Wikipedia.com

    Thanks though :)

    damn, i'm going to be bored for not posting this in AET

    and if you want to praise scientific community and bunch of other web sites maybe you should start a new thread :p
  • stateoflove79
    stateoflove79 Posts: 2,845
    When you buy a 4k diamond engagement ring and ask that person to spend the rest of their life with you. :)
    Is it so wrong to think that love can keep us safe?
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    When you buy a 4k diamond engagement ring and ask that person to spend the rest of their life with you. :)

    I take that as a sign of ignorance. Maybe love.

    Diamonds are just compressed carbon. Da Beers!
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    genie wrote:
    damn, i'm going to be bored for not posting this in AET

    and if you want to praise scientific community and bunch of other web sites maybe you should start a new thread :p

    Well the satisfaction of the chemical bond and the withdrawal symptoms are biochemical reactions which you are probably looking for. Weak knees, sweat, lack of focus, impaired judgement, etc...
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • stateoflove79
    stateoflove79 Posts: 2,845
    Ahnimus wrote:
    I take that as a sign of ignorance. Maybe love.

    Diamonds are just compressed carbon. Da Beers!

    I was focusing more on the lifetime together thing...

    The ring is the symbol...
    Is it so wrong to think that love can keep us safe?
  • Ahnimus
    Ahnimus Posts: 10,560
    I was focusing more on the lifetime together thing...

    The ring is the symbol...

    Hehe, I know. A poor symbol though.
    I necessarily have the passion for writing this, and you have the passion for condemning me; both of us are equally fools, equally the toys of destiny. Your nature is to do harm, mine is to love truth, and to make it public in spite of you. - Voltaire
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    When you buy a 4k diamond engagement ring and ask that person to spend the rest of their life with you. :)

    and what if they instead insist upon having 5k diamond ring, including tiara ;):D
  • deadnote
    deadnote Posts: 1,678
    not really sure , cant keep your mind off that person
    my data has been erased
    set your laughter free

    dreamer in my dream

    we got the guns

    i love you,but im..............callin out.........callin out
  • Love is...

    Trust
    Having nothing to hide
    When you can honestly say you'd lay your life on the line for that person,
    When you feel complete knowing that he/she is in your life
    I'll cut you in.
  • deadnote
    deadnote Posts: 1,678
    had to edit this one
    set your laughter free

    dreamer in my dream

    we got the guns

    i love you,but im..............callin out.........callin out