AET: The place where I can vent my frustration.
pjfan31
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Okay, sorry to load this shit on you guys, but I find this is a good place to raise my concerns when no one else will listen.
This is about my sisters boyfriend(who don't get me wrong is a nice guy and has stuck by my very ill sister) that frustrates me.
*My sister and her boyfriend are constantly kissing in front of me which I hate, she is my sister I don't want them constantly making out when I'm around. Passionately kissing each other should be behind closed doors IMO
* He is lazy, he stays over 2 nights a week and is over for the majority of a 3rd night, and will not lift a finger(this has been a constant for 2yrs). I told my sis tonight if he is going to have dinner here, every once in a while he will have to do the dishes. IT was met with an argument with my sis tonight and I over heard him say "I'm here to visit you, not do the dishes"
* He is nearly 30 and has not got a drivers license yet, and we are constantly being used as a taxi service.
* I know for a fact he lies, and he thinks he is a know it all.
* Mum and Dad know all this, yet choose to do nothing as he has stuck by my sister through a debilitating illness (which I am very grateful for), but in pleasing her, they ignore my concerns.
I'm sorry for unloading this, but if I raise any concerns with my sister, we get in a big argument, and I know that if I vented all my frustrations with her, it would jeopardise our relationship.
I'm not a prude, but 2 years of constantly pashing infront of me and all this stuff. AAARRRGGGHHHH. I feel uncomfortable in my own house.
This is about my sisters boyfriend(who don't get me wrong is a nice guy and has stuck by my very ill sister) that frustrates me.
*My sister and her boyfriend are constantly kissing in front of me which I hate, she is my sister I don't want them constantly making out when I'm around. Passionately kissing each other should be behind closed doors IMO
* He is lazy, he stays over 2 nights a week and is over for the majority of a 3rd night, and will not lift a finger(this has been a constant for 2yrs). I told my sis tonight if he is going to have dinner here, every once in a while he will have to do the dishes. IT was met with an argument with my sis tonight and I over heard him say "I'm here to visit you, not do the dishes"
* He is nearly 30 and has not got a drivers license yet, and we are constantly being used as a taxi service.
* I know for a fact he lies, and he thinks he is a know it all.
* Mum and Dad know all this, yet choose to do nothing as he has stuck by my sister through a debilitating illness (which I am very grateful for), but in pleasing her, they ignore my concerns.
I'm sorry for unloading this, but if I raise any concerns with my sister, we get in a big argument, and I know that if I vented all my frustrations with her, it would jeopardise our relationship.
I'm not a prude, but 2 years of constantly pashing infront of me and all this stuff. AAARRRGGGHHHH. I feel uncomfortable in my own house.
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I'm with you on the passionate kissing around others. I'm not much of a fan of that myself.
It seems like if the guy is over that often he should help out. I have to assume she does not go over to his place? I mean maybe if she went over there and he did all the cooking and clean up maybe he feels it should be that way when he is there but i'm guessing that is not the case.
sorry you are having such a frustrating time. Maybe sometime you could suggest doing somethign where you all cook together and clean up together?
As a guy i'm kind of useless in the kitchen but i usually can help chop stuff up etc or if you get a grill involved (burgers, steaks etc) i'm all in for cookin then
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