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pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
edited June 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
hi guys...

So there is this girl I work with in a small business of about 5 people, 2 of my sisters work there, one of them is the boss.... So this girl (not my sister just clearing it up) is extremely good looking, she is 18 (I'm 22 keep in mind) and I am starting to really like her. We get on really well, but i don't know if I am reading the signs wrong...... When I get friendly with a good sort, automatically I am like good sort, good personality she must be the love of my life.

Here's where I need advice... What should I do???? It's not as simple as asking her out, because if I have read the signs wrong then it won't be good for the business.... I'm a guy who likes the girl to make the first move, I hope she does this, because that will ease my troubles....

Please some advice.... She is nearly all I have been thinking of lately. At least I get to work with her by ourselves on Monday.....

Cheers guys, I'm off to sleep, a big night.....
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  • WobbieWobbie Posts: 30,436
    We have a saying where I work - "Don't shit where you eat." Get my drift? :D
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  • EvilMerlinEvilMerlin Posts: 1,865
    imalive wrote:
    We have a saying where I work - "Don't shit where you eat." Get my drift? :D

    That's where I stand. I'll never dip my pen in the company ink.
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    pjfan31 wrote:
    hi guys...

    So there is this girl I work with in a small business of about 5 people, 2 of my sisters work there, one of them is the boss.... So this girl (not my sister just clearing it up) is extremely good looking, she is 18 (I'm 22 keep in mind) and I am starting to really like her. We get on really well, but i don't know if I am reading the signs wrong...... When I get friendly with a good sort, automatically I am like good sort, good personality she must be the love of my life.

    Here's where I need advice... What should I do???? It's not as simple as asking her out, because if I have read the signs wrong then it won't be good for the business.... I'm a guy who likes the girl to make the first move, I hope she does this, because that will ease my troubles....

    Please some advice.... She is nearly all I have been thinking of lately. At least I get to work with her by ourselves on Monday.....

    Cheers guys, I'm off to sleep, a big night.....

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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    Yeah dude stay away

    Do not date someone you work with

    Not to mention she is young and immature most likely

    I'm sure this could get messy if things don't work out
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  • DeLukinDeLukin Posts: 2,757
    Run away.
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  • libragirllibragirl Posts: 4,632
    I would suggest you just ask her out
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  • polarispolaris Posts: 3,527
    you're 22 ... she's 18 ... fuck everything and go for it ... if it goes to shit - chalk it up to a learning experience ... if it goes well - then you're laughing ...

    no regrets
  • dbhdbh Posts: 156
    I'd say, as hard as it would be, keep your thoughts to yourself for the time being. Then if she opens up more, you do the same...who knows what may happen. Would you be ok if she just wanted to be friends? Oh, I'd also ask your sister to see what she thinks. :D Good luck!
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  • rearviewmirorrearviewmiror Posts: 894
    Just ask her out for a casual drink after work. see where non work conversation goes.

    Dating at work isn't always bad.
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  • WobbieWobbie Posts: 30,436
    rearviewmiror wrote:
    Just ask her out for a casual drink after work. see where non work conversation goes.

    What kind of drink? A Shirley Temple? She's 18!! :p
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  • DOSWDOSW Posts: 2,014
    polaris wrote:
    you're 22 ... she's 18 ... fuck everything and go for it ... if it goes to shit - chalk it up to a learning experience ... if it goes well - then you're laughing ...

    no regrets

    +1
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  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,312
    just wait for the xmas party

    best chance for interoffice nookie


    and what happens at the xmas party stays at the xmas party (in a perfect world)
  • pjfan31pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    imalive wrote:
    What kind of drink? A Shirley Temple? She's 18!! :p
    In australia. legal drinking age is 18.....

    Thanks for the advice guys. We will see how it pans out.... fingers crossed
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  • cheeseandricecheeseandrice Posts: 206
    Your sister is the boss? Ask her for a second opinion as to whether or not you're reading too much into it or not. I'm sure since it's such a small office, she's noticed something. If it's cool, you'll know right away. If it is unprofessional, I'm sure she'll let you know.
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  • triangleman12triangleman12 Posts: 193
    About two years ago I dated a girl from work, everything went great for about 4 months, then she gave the "It's not you, it's me, I want to focus more on my career now, blah blah blah" speech. Alright, fine. I respected her for being honest, we agreed to just continue the friend/co-worker relationship we had built 2 years prior to dating. And then . . . (dum dum) . . . .


    SHE FUCKS AROUND WITH ANOTHER COWORKER A MONTH AFTER DUMPING ME!!!! Sorry for the caps! :) But I guess, she DID say she wanted to focus "more on her career" haha. Now it's extremely ackward when I see her at work and I have secret thoughts hoping somehow someway a filing cabinet will fall on her, sort of like the scene from Wizard of Oz when Dorothy's house kills the wicked witch . . . bitch? Wow . . . this post was great therapy :) Thanks.
  • JaneNYJaneNY Posts: 4,438
    Unless you're planning to ask her to marry you, you should probably leave her alone. If things don't go well, it will then be awkward to see her everyday.
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  • Music For RhinosMusic For Rhinos Posts: 1,693
    So you work together, who cares?

    I say go for it. You miss 100% of the ones you don't try.

    Just ask yourself: would you rather try and fail or do nothing and spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been?
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