Do what I do: take a 5 day weekend (my birthday is always around Memorial Day weekend) and drink so much that you think that you're liver is going to crawl out of your body and explode right in front of you.
Do what I do: take a 5 day weekend (my birthday is always around Memorial Day weekend) and drink so much that you think that you're liver is going to crawl out of your body and explode right in front of you.
for some reason...that doesn't sound like a very good time...not sure why...
Go to Medieval Manor and have dinner with your friends, get on stage with a loaf of bread between your legs battling another hot chick, and finish the night off with a stop at....wait for it....The House of Blues.
On my 30th I went out to a killer restaurant and just made a fucking beast of myself with a crew of close friends and the girl I was having sex with at the time.
Do that.
Or she could buy a giant butt plug from Pure Romance or something.
i don't recall what i did for my 30th....:o...i think just an awesome dinner out, drinks........same as my 35th. hell, most occasions, big and small, marked by a great meal and drinks. sometimes just me and mr. dream, sometimes with family and/or friends. food and drink with a special occasion...can't go wrong!
there it is:
dayspa with friends for fun and pampering. hell, i'd love it even solo.
2 guys, bottle of wine - nuff said.
dinner at a fantastic place with some of your fave people.
said 2 guys cleaning your house!
perfect!
ugh, now the "difficult" friend is being well, difficult. she wants to change it to this coming weekend. I have no idea what do to do. maybe I'll just go to the spa by myself.
ugh, now the "difficult" friend is being well, difficult. she wants to change it to this coming weekend. I have no idea what do to do. maybe I'll just go to the spa by myself.
man...tell her you only turn 30 once and you'd like to celebrate it on your birthday...if, of course, you care. i would.
why can't she take the day off? is she a close friend?
ugh, now the "difficult" friend is being well, difficult. she wants to change it to this coming weekend. I have no idea what do to do. maybe I'll just go to the spa by myself.
who cares what she thinks? it's your day, not hers. fuck her. go out with your other friends and do teh spa thing during the day just for yourself. i did that for myself a couple years back on my own and loved it
man...tell her you only turn 30 once and you'd like to celebrate it on your birthday...if, of course, you care. i would.
why can't she take the day off? is she a close friend?
yeah she is a close friend. and I only have a couple friends in this state. one of them is out because of her dog and other stuff and another is out because she's working...this difficult one is actually OFF on the weekend in question but wants to go away with other friends...so actually whenever I do it it's not going to be anymore than 2 people...doesn't really seem worth all this trouble. I guess we can just try to go out to eat, but I'm really into going out to eat so I wouldn't even know what restaurant to go to.
um, nothing in particular. I like everything but there's really not much I get like excited about. I guess seafood would be my favorite, but my friends don't eat fish and sea food places are more expensive than a lot of other places. If I were going for seafood I'd rather go with my parents so I don't have to feel bad.
did other people do something interesting for their 30th or was it uneventful? I only have one friend who's already turned 30, and she had a huge party because we were in grad school and, well, when you're in school you know enough people to have a party. Is it lame not do anything for your 30th birthday? I have no idea. I usually don't really do anything, but I feel like these with the 0s on the end are somehow important. I'm getting really stressed about this!!!
it's in a few weeks. last night my friends were asking me what I want to do. I don't have many friends in the area at all, so I can't really have a party or anything. In the area I have like 3-4 girlfriends (and I guess their partners), a brother, and 2 neighbors, and possibly 1-2 coworkers. Any suggestions?
3-4 girlfriends is not enough for you? i'd be mighty pleased even with that number.
i don't give a shit about my birthdays no more, i don't plan it at all, i roll with it, if ya know what i mean :cool:
My 30th is in two weeks and apparently a surprise party is on the docket. (Those things never stay a surprise.) My actual birthday falls on a Monday and I may wind up spending it at a Libertarian Party social in Boston. Extremely random and I think that's why I'm intrigued by it.
A couple suggestions...
Staying in: Find the night when the most people are free and have everyone get together at your place (or someone else's). Get a bunch of booze and break out cards, board games, DVDs, music...whatever you like to do around the house. If you add a bunch of people and alcohol to the most mundane fun, it usually turns out pretty great.
Going out: I would suggest scouring the Weekly Dig or the Phoenix for events on the day or days you're looking at. I always find something interesting that I never would've found out about otherwise. Interesting art exhibits, crazy themed club nights, bands, film festivals/screenings/double features, comedy shows, theater, etc.
I threw a party...my party! In a tent in the garden. And, and this is the killer..I played the music all night!!! I made about 4 compilation tapes, rigged up some big speakers, and boy....that garden party rocked like a mo fo!!!! And no one (well not many) complained.
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And go to the House of Blues. LOL
for some reason...that doesn't sound like a very good time...not sure why...
Or she could buy a giant butt plug from Pure Romance or something.
i'd like that for my 40th.
i don't recall what i did for my 30th....:o...i think just an awesome dinner out, drinks........same as my 35th. hell, most occasions, big and small, marked by a great meal and drinks. sometimes just me and mr. dream, sometimes with family and/or friends. food and drink with a special occasion...can't go wrong!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
just felt like sharing that
shit that'd work for my 38th this year
*edit* oh yeah and to answer the question lol do the spa thing during the day then dinner with friends in the evening
:eek:
hahahahahahahaha.
and absolutely...would work any year!
i agree - spa day and dinner out.
in fact, i think i want that for *my* birthday this year. welll that and the 2 guys, bottle of wine.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
that's what i said haha
hells yeah...spa....2 guys/wine....dinner after they pass out and they can do my laundry and vacuum after they wake up
get em to throw in scrubbing the bathroom and you're talking a multiple orgasm night!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
now THAT is a birthday celebration!
there it is:
dayspa with friends for fun and pampering. hell, i'd love it even solo.
2 guys, bottle of wine - nuff said.
dinner at a fantastic place with some of your fave people.
said 2 guys cleaning your house!
perfect!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
man...tell her you only turn 30 once and you'd like to celebrate it on your birthday...if, of course, you care. i would.
why can't she take the day off? is she a close friend?
yeah she is a close friend. and I only have a couple friends in this state. one of them is out because of her dog and other stuff and another is out because she's working...this difficult one is actually OFF on the weekend in question but wants to go away with other friends...so actually whenever I do it it's not going to be anymore than 2 people...doesn't really seem worth all this trouble. I guess we can just try to go out to eat, but I'm really into going out to eat so I wouldn't even know what restaurant to go to.
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um, nothing in particular. I like everything but there's really not much I get like excited about. I guess seafood would be my favorite, but my friends don't eat fish and sea food places are more expensive than a lot of other places. If I were going for seafood I'd rather go with my parents so I don't have to feel bad.
Then I went to a really weird party near Green Lake.
Wild.
Get a tattoo of a dog....or buy a dog and name it Tattoo!
haha the latter sounds like a better idea
damn, if I could take care of a dog I totally would...
I've just never had a big birthday thing before. I didn't really do anything on my 21st, my 18th was spent at a swim meet...
3-4 girlfriends is not enough for you? i'd be mighty pleased even with that number.
i don't give a shit about my birthdays no more, i don't plan it at all, i roll with it, if ya know what i mean :cool:
A couple suggestions...
Staying in: Find the night when the most people are free and have everyone get together at your place (or someone else's). Get a bunch of booze and break out cards, board games, DVDs, music...whatever you like to do around the house. If you add a bunch of people and alcohol to the most mundane fun, it usually turns out pretty great.
Going out: I would suggest scouring the Weekly Dig or the Phoenix for events on the day or days you're looking at. I always find something interesting that I never would've found out about otherwise. Interesting art exhibits, crazy themed club nights, bands, film festivals/screenings/double features, comedy shows, theater, etc.
do nothing, just gather round few of your mates and have few beers ( or wine if you like wine ) don't stress to much