I get it ALOT from one certain person. It annoys the hell out of me....to the point I no longer want to talk to this person. :mad: Trust me, I understand!
This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper
I get it ALOT from one certain person. It annoys the hell out of me....to the point I no longer want to talk to this person. :mad: Trust me, I understand!
what bothers me is that I seem to get it in every area of life! I have no idea why, but it's always my most immature friends that seem to want to talk to me like a I'm a child.
what bothers me is that I seem to get it in every area of life! I have no idea why, but it's always my most immature friends that seem to want to talk to me like a I'm a child.
People tend to be condescending when they are feeling insecure. It's a tool to make them feel better about themselves. It's not you...it's them.
This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper
I get this from people on this board all the time.
Pretty much only one of them continues to take jabs at me. Trying to correct spelling and such. I care about my spelling here?? lol
However, I do recall you being extremely condescending to someone on here when he poured his heart out and you called him pathetic. That is what sticks in my mind about you. Calling a man pathetic because he was voicing the innermost thoughts of his heart and soul.
That is condescending.
Cause I'm broken when I'm lonesome
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
I get this from people on this board all the time.
Pretty much only one of them continues to take jabs at me. Trying to correct spelling and such. I care about my spelling here?? lol
I've apologized sooooooooo many times for this. I DEFINITELY won't do it again, I promise. :(
This is the greatest band in the world -- Ben Harper
I will say this, I have definitely never spelled definitely wrong again!
And GTd will be the same with 'condescension'
But on a more serious note, it is true that people that have a tendency to be patronising or condescending do have a bit of an inferiority complex or feels so vastly superior that anyone and everyone is inferior to them. And, unless this person is royalty, I doubt it is the case.
I know it can trouble you and it makes you fume, but the only thing to do is ignore it. Maybe easier said than done, but these people are not worth it. If you already had a word with this person (maybe she/he doesn't realise she/he comes across this way) and nothing changed, forget it.
But on a more serious note, it is true that people that have a tendency to be patronising or condescending do have a bit of an inferiority complex or feels so vastly superior that anyone and everyone is inferior to them. And, unless this person is royalty, I doubt it is the case.
I know it can trouble you and it makes you fume, but the only thing to do is ignore it. Maybe easier said than done, but these people are not worth it. If you already had a word with this person (maybe she/he doesn't realise she/he comes across this way) and nothing changed, forget it.
Yep, I was playing a gig the other week and a lawyer mate of my brother didn't even let me get offstage before he started condescending to me, telling me how I could be more commercial if I cut out the complicated guitar playing. I said "You like Dire Straits, don't you? Fuck off." That did the trick.
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People suck ass!!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
i'm sorry...i just couldn't resist.
and sure, i feel your pain. there are plenty of condescending people in the world. fuck em.
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
hahaha oops yeah, I couldn't edit that!
what bothers me is that I seem to get it in every area of life! I have no idea why, but it's always my most immature friends that seem to want to talk to me like a I'm a child.
People tend to be condescending when they are feeling insecure. It's a tool to make them feel better about themselves. It's not you...it's them.
Pretty much only one of them continues to take jabs at me. Trying to correct spelling and such. I care about my spelling here?? lol
However, I do recall you being extremely condescending to someone on here when he poured his heart out and you called him pathetic. That is what sticks in my mind about you. Calling a man pathetic because he was voicing the innermost thoughts of his heart and soul.
That is condescending.
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
I've apologized sooooooooo many times for this.
I will say this, I have definitely never spelled definitely wrong again!
And I don't feel right when you're gone away
Because I'm so damn militant about spelling?? :( I know...it's a disease.
But on a more serious note, it is true that people that have a tendency to be patronising or condescending do have a bit of an inferiority complex or feels so vastly superior that anyone and everyone is inferior to them. And, unless this person is royalty, I doubt it is the case.
I know it can trouble you and it makes you fume, but the only thing to do is ignore it. Maybe easier said than done, but these people are not worth it. If you already had a word with this person (maybe she/he doesn't realise she/he comes across this way) and nothing changed, forget it.
Well, I certainly didn't take offense! Like I said, you worded it a whole lot better than I did. (I'm not so much with the words!