How do you know if a girl likes you?
thunderDAN
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Can someone please help me, this is driving me crazy and I don't have anyone to take me seriously enough to give me decent advice.
alright, so a girl I dated in college (graduated 2 years ago, and we really only dated officially for about 4-5 weeks) called me up a couple weeks ago and wanted to meet me for lunch. I hadn't talked to her in about a year (we randomly ran into eachother so it wasn't planned.) So we were planned to meet last week but we had to reschedule. Last Thursday we ended up talking on the phone for about an hour. It wasn't weird at all, but it was like we used to do back when we dated. We ended up meeting today for lunch and we really had a good time. We had a 2 and a half hour lunch, including talking for over an hour after we ate. It was really nice and am glad to have her back in my life, however, I feel that if I don't call her or anything we might not talk again for awhile (I could be totally wrong on that, but I feel empty after that lunch)
I really like this girl, and I was totally devastated when things didn't work out a couple years ago (I know it sounds silly for someone I only dated for a short time). I about about 90% sure she is single, but I'm not really looking to be just friends with her. How do I know if she just wants to be friends? Everytime I think that, I say to myself 'well she wouldn't just call me out of the blue and want to meet if she was just my friend' but then again, thats what friends do.
So I really want her in my life, but I don't know if I could be a good friend because I don't know how I would take if I knew she was dating different guys.
Just so you know, I just got home from our lunch and instead of feeling happy about meeting someone I wish was in my life, I feel extremely down- like I will never see her again (I listen to all of KidA on the way home so I'm even more in one of those moods haha)
I know this was long, but can someone give me some advice as to what to do. I wish I could tell her how I feel, but I don't really want to lay myself out like that if I'm totally wrong
alright, so a girl I dated in college (graduated 2 years ago, and we really only dated officially for about 4-5 weeks) called me up a couple weeks ago and wanted to meet me for lunch. I hadn't talked to her in about a year (we randomly ran into eachother so it wasn't planned.) So we were planned to meet last week but we had to reschedule. Last Thursday we ended up talking on the phone for about an hour. It wasn't weird at all, but it was like we used to do back when we dated. We ended up meeting today for lunch and we really had a good time. We had a 2 and a half hour lunch, including talking for over an hour after we ate. It was really nice and am glad to have her back in my life, however, I feel that if I don't call her or anything we might not talk again for awhile (I could be totally wrong on that, but I feel empty after that lunch)
I really like this girl, and I was totally devastated when things didn't work out a couple years ago (I know it sounds silly for someone I only dated for a short time). I about about 90% sure she is single, but I'm not really looking to be just friends with her. How do I know if she just wants to be friends? Everytime I think that, I say to myself 'well she wouldn't just call me out of the blue and want to meet if she was just my friend' but then again, thats what friends do.
So I really want her in my life, but I don't know if I could be a good friend because I don't know how I would take if I knew she was dating different guys.
Just so you know, I just got home from our lunch and instead of feeling happy about meeting someone I wish was in my life, I feel extremely down- like I will never see her again (I listen to all of KidA on the way home so I'm even more in one of those moods haha)
I know this was long, but can someone give me some advice as to what to do. I wish I could tell her how I feel, but I don't really want to lay myself out like that if I'm totally wrong
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hehe, kidding!
just tell her how you feel, if you think you may not talk to her in a long time if you don't call her, express your love, if she laughs, you don't have to talk to her in a long time.
Well we started dating towards the end of the semester and I moved back home for the summer, and things just weren't the same. We tried to meet during the beginning of that summer but we were just moving things along too fast and things crumbled.
gosh, it was only 2 hours ago and I can't even remember if she was doing either...crap...however I don't think she was doing either... crap
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel
"How do you know if a girl licks you?"
HA! Fucking awesome. that post is so funny.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel
i like you.
*thwack!*
yeah...actually it's either that or I hit you in the back HARD and then run off laughing...hoping you will give chase!!!