in the mail today....

CHANGEinWAVES
CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
edited October 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
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"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
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  • Indian Summer
    Indian Summer Posts: 2,296
    put the past behind you. Things could always be worse.
    "It's all happening"
  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    Stay strong. :) I don't have much in the way of relevant advice, but I can offer you this...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Zzh79J2fC0

    :o
    Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    i did a happy dance when mine came, then had celebration alone time with the GF. ;)


    i was just glad it was almost over. we had to wait so long to get it over with cause my dad was in such bad shape we didnt feel right. we were divorced less then 2 months after he died though.

    still kinda weird though. that feeling that its finally over.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    Rhinocerous Surprise wrote:
    Stay strong. :) I don't have much in the way of relevant advice, but I can offer you this...

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Zzh79J2fC0

    :o
    lol :) Jemain is always good for a smile! :D

    looks like I may need a few cranberry and vodkas before I rip this sucker open.....
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    i did a happy dance when mine came, then had celebration alone time with the GF. ;)
    yeah would be easier if I wasn't sitting here ALONE!
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    yeah would be easier if I wasn't sitting here ALONE!

    given the convos we have had, im guessing the Vodka may not be such a good idea.

    but hey, im not you.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    given the convos we have had, im guessing the Vodka may not be such a good idea.

    but hey, im not you.
    in my wedding toasting glass to boot.....
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • arq
    arq Posts: 8,101
    Wow, i can't say anything deep enough or good enough to make you feel better, i'm married now, but i had a couple of really long term relationships (8 years, 4 yeas) and the pain was really deep when things ended, you'll learn to live with the pain and surely but slowly it'll disappear.

    Like the good friend said:
    "You are not depressed; you are distracted. You believe that you have lost something, which is impossible, because everything that you have was given to you. You did not make a single hair of your head so you can not own anything. In addition, life does not subtract things, it liberates you from them."

    sorry for being cheesy
    "The good thing about science is that it's true whether or not you believe in it"
    Neil deGrasse Tyson

    Why not (V) (°,,,,°) (V) ?
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    in my wedding toasting glass to boot.....

    why?


    never mind.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    why?


    never mind.
    for the irony of it all......
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    for the irony of it all......

    Brandi, i consider you a friend. and a good one at that. and not just a internet friend.

    but that is fucking stupid !


    why do that to yourself?
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,820
    for real, self-inflicted salt in the wounds.
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    mickeyrat wrote:
    for real, self-inflicted salt in the wounds.
    it doesn't make it hurt more...it makes me pissed off with each sip, and that's better then sad right now. (for me at least)
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,820
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    it doesn't make it hurt more...it makes me pissed off with each sip, and that's better then sad right now. (for me at least)
    ok then do the greek thing and bust the glass when you are finished.OPA!
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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    mickeyrat wrote:
    ok then do the greek thing and bust the glass when you are finished.OPA!
    that was my plan.....but when the paperwork is finally all done.....not like there will ever be a use for it!
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,820
    well as painful as ths may be for you signing is like being reborn. Now you can truely begin the next chapter of your life! THIS IS A GOOD THING!!!!
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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    "#5 This marriage is irretrievably broken."


    Is it a legal issue if his name is spelled wrong on all of the paperwork?
    Dumb idiot even signed the verification where it stated that everything was correct, and would fall under falsification if not.


    the Lawyers he's using are called "The Divorce Center" sounds like the Toys R Us of divorces.

    I also have the right to request marriage counseling... Like I'd put myself thru that Hell again!

    *******************signed and ready for the mail tomorrow....may even walk my drunk ass up to the mailbox tonight to get rid of it! one step closer the the end.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • mickeyrat
    mickeyrat Posts: 44,820
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    "#5 This marriage is irretrievably broken."


    Is it a legal issue if his name is spelled wrong on all of the paperwork?
    Dumb idiot even signed the verification where it stated that everything was correct, and would fall under falsification if not.


    the Lawyers he's using are called "The Divorce Center" sounds like the Toys R Us of divorces.

    I also have the right to request marriage counseling... Like I'd put myself thru that Hell again!
    according to the wife(paralegal/1styr. law student) It is not an issue. She said" Typically clerical errors are not actionable"
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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • Hawkshore
    Hawkshore Posts: 2,185
    Have some drinks get youself laid and put the loser behind you! :)
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  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    in my wedding toasting glass to boot.....

    make sure you smash that glass when youre finished. :)
    hear my name
    take a good look
    this could be the day
    hold my hand
    lie beside me
    i just need to say

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