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I AM a fool...

CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
edited October 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
F it.
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
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  • Drop The Leash 10Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    dont get down on yourself. i know it can be hard, just keep moving foward.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • AyedavanitaAyedavanita Posts: 1,443
    *hugs*
    "You think I got my eyes closed but I'm lookin' at you the whole fuckin' time..."
  • jimed14jimed14 Posts: 9,488
    Take this as some friendly advice for the future ... if there's something of a sensitive nature to discuss with him going forward, don't text ... call.

    I don't know your history but, I speak from experience, texting or even e-mailing about things with significant others that are sensitive, ooof, can lead to such hurt feelings.

    Maybe you read into his comments the wrong way, maybe he was busy when he texted back so quickly and doesn't mean it ... maybe he doesn't want the stuff as it would hurt too much, (which, would mean he cares more than you currently think he does) ... I don't know ...

    I just know, from experience, that text fights are awful ... I refuse to do it anymore.

    Parhaps a call in a few days is in order (???)

    What you need is an announced PJ tour! :D
    "You're one of the few Red Sox fans I don't mind." - Newch91

    "I don't believe in damn curses. Wake up the damn Bambino and have me face him. Maybe I'll drill him in the ass." --- Pedro Martinez
  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    jimed14 wrote:
    Take this as some friendly advice for the future ... if there's something of a sensitive nature to discuss with him going forward, don't text ... call.


    He doesn't answer and doesn't call back...
    jimed14 wrote:
    What you need is an announced PJ tour! :D
    I agree with this!!!!! :D
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • mickeyratmickeyrat Posts: 40,381
    Yes you are. You seem to be forgetting the FACT that he has proven himself to be unreliable and that his IMO untreated addiction causes him to act irrationally. HmMMMM...... living at mommies house with a younger woman as girlfriend. THATS the kind of man I want to be! yeah right.


    If you wish to I suggest setting aside all the things you THINK he might want then store them for just a little while.Then after 3-4 months he doesn't change his tune then DONATE whatever is useful.
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    Not today Sir, Probably not tomorrow.............................................. bayfront arena st. pete '94
    you're finally here and I'm a mess................................................... nationwide arena columbus '10
    memories like fingerprints are slowly raising.................................... first niagara center buffalo '13
    another man ..... moved by sleight of hand...................................... joe louis arena detroit '14
  • jimed14jimed14 Posts: 9,488
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    He doesn't answer and doesn't call back...

    then you deserve far better!!
    "You're one of the few Red Sox fans I don't mind." - Newch91

    "I don't believe in damn curses. Wake up the damn Bambino and have me face him. Maybe I'll drill him in the ass." --- Pedro Martinez
  • pearljamjenpearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    He's a poopy-head!!!

    Yes, wait until PJ tours, find some cool people to go to the shows with and drink hot chocolate with, and fuhgetabout him! :D

    Maybe you'll meet a Sam look-a-like from True Blood at the next PJ show! :D
  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    pearljamjen wrote:
    Maybe you'll meet a Sam look-a-like from True Blood at the next PJ show! :D
    only if he runs around naked too;)
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • PJPixiePJPixie Posts: 3,026
    (((((((((Hugs))))))))))

    One day at a time........
    The best use of Life is Love.
    The best expression of Love is Time.
    The best time to Love is Now.


    I'm never as good as when you're there.........
  • TrailerTrailer Posts: 1,431
    The guy sounds like a dick. Obviously at one point he was a good guy.. if you were with him for 10 years and still have feelings of love towards him.. but it seems like he changed for the worse. Not answering your calls or calling you in a time like this is an extremely immature thing to do. and not wanting any of the memories that you guys shared is his very rude and heartless way of saying that he's moved on. Fuck that guy.. you seem like a nice girl, once you get settled in your new place and meet some people I'm confident that you'll find someone who will treat you like every girl wants to be treated.:) Plenty of nice, caring guys like short hair.;)
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    Trailer wrote:
    Not answering your calls or calling you in a time like this is an extremely immature thing to do. and not wanting any of the memories that you guys shared is his very rude and heartless way of saying that he's moved on.

    im not going to defend the ex , Brandi knows that i have been pretty hard on him about some pretty minor shit ;)

    i'm sure there is a good reason for not wanting any of the memories, and maybe the not calling has to do more with him and not her.

    i have reasons to think this is a possibilty, but i'll be honest. im not sure if she divulged them here in one of her threads about this ( in my defense there have been a ton of them ) or in a private conversation as we have had even more of those .

    my ex wife left and took her clothes and a few things that were handed down to her from her family. she wanted very little of "our" things. she had her reasons. and you cant blame someone for wanting a "clean" break, or as clean as these can be.


    and to you Brandi, you have been doing this to yourself long enough. there have been plenty of times that you bring on these "cryfests" by doing things when you know you are not up to it at the time.

    you need to give yourself a break kiddo.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • TrailerTrailer Posts: 1,431
    the wolf wrote:
    im not going to defend the ex , Brandi knows that i have been pretty hard on him about some pretty minor shit ;)

    i'm sure there is a good reason for not wanting any of the memories, and maybe the not calling has to do more with him and not her.

    i have reasons to think this is a possibilty, but i'll be honest. im not sure if she divulged them here in one of her threads about this ( in my defense there have been a ton of them ) or in a private conversation as we have had even more of those .

    my ex wife left and took her clothes and a few things that were handed down to her from her family. she wanted very little of "our" things. she had her reasons. and you cant blame someone for wanting a "clean" break, or as clean as these can be.

    Well what do I know... I'm just a caveman. These metal boxes on which we are talking to eachother frighten and scare me.:o:D
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • CHANGEinWAVESCHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:


    and to you Brandi, you have been doing this to yourself long enough. there have been plenty of times that you bring on these "cryfests" by doing things when you know you are not up to it at the time.

    you need to give yourself a break kiddo.
    wether I'm "up to" them or not is irrelevant....they NEED to be done.
    Personally I think anytime would be a hard time to go thru this kinds of stuff, but I have to do it.

    I wonder if he will regret not having had that trip thru the past...after i trash his share of it:(
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    Trailer wrote:
    Well what do I know... I'm just a caveman. These metal boxes on which we are talking to eachother frighten and scare me.:o:D

    yeah, they scare the shit outta me too ! :D
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • yellowled24yellowled24 Posts: 3,118
    When me and my husband had a break about two years ago, he didnt want any of the photos or any of the stuff, because he was too upset. He didnt want the memories of what we had together, and was just trying to move forward.

    He didnt NOT want them because he was a heartless prick, he just didnt want to be reminded about what he had lost.
    "....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    wether I'm "up to" them or not is irrelevant....they NEED to be done.
    Personally I think anytime would be a hard time to go thru this kinds of stuff, but I have to do it.

    I wonder if he will regret not having had that trip thru the past...after i trash his share of it:(

    okay.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
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