taking a year off of school:(

CHANGEinWAVES
CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
edited September 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
plllttttt.
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  • answers are fatal
    answers are fatal Posts: 281
    aww im sorry to hear about that. but everything happens for a reason. and im sure it will work out for the best :) good luck!!
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    yeah, that sounds like a plan.

    oh, you could just hire someone to kick the shit outta him too.

    just trying to make sure you explore all of your options kiddo.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    yeah, that sounds like a plan.

    oh, you could just hire someone to kick the shit outta him too.

    just trying to make sure you explore all of your options kiddo.
    are you for hire?;)
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    are you for hire?;)


    always.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    always.
    we'd have to work out the payment details....since i'm BROKE! :( lol!
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    looks like my divorce is catching up with me and I have to take a year off of school (even though this is my final year) because my (ex) husband can't afford to continue paying while we still have our house (and that's not selling).
    Oddly enough I think this may turn out for the best, sure I'll finish later then I expected but hey I'm 27 already so no big deal. But at least this will give me the chance to get an internship and get back on my own 2 feet with out him & time to make myself financially independent. Maybe even untangle myself from this past 10 years.

    question... why is your husband paying your tuition? it is part of alimony or something? just asking. :)
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    catefrances wrote:
    question... why is your husband paying your tuition? it is part of alimony or something? just asking. :)
    we are not divorced yet, and while we were married it was agreed that i'd go back to school so I could get a better job. Since he bailed on the marriage he agreed to continue paying.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    looks like my divorce is catching up with me and I have to take a year off of school (even though this is my final year) because my (ex) husband can't afford to continue paying while we still have our house (and that's not selling).
    Oddly enough I think this may turn out for the best, sure I'll finish later then I expected but hey I'm 27 already so no big deal. But at least this will give me the chance to get an internship and get back on my own 2 feet with out him & time to make myself financially independent. Maybe even untangle myself from this past 10 years.

    10 years? you married at 17? wow.

    in any case, sorry to hear about your situation. hang in there, it sounds like you're doing everything right to land on your feet. i don't know what i'd do in a divorce. i lost my grip on reality just from a normal break up!
    and like that... he's gone.
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    catch22 wrote:
    10 years? you married at 17? wow.

    in any case, sorry to hear about your situation. hang in there, it sounds like you're doing everything right to land on your feet. i don't know what i'd do in a divorce. i lost my grip on reality just from a normal break up!
    met at 17, married at 21.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    we'd have to work out the payment details....since i'm BROKE! :( lol!


    take that part time job at that "other" place, and i'm sure we could work something out.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • catefrances
    catefrances Posts: 29,003
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    we are not divorced yet, and while we were married it was agreed that i'd go back to school so I could get a better job. Since he bailed on the marriage he agreed to continue paying.

    considering he is such a fuck up that was mighty magnanimous of him. :)

    youll do fine so long as you dont lose sight of your goal. mind you im currently in the 4th year of a 3 year degree(im in my final semester..YEAH!!!). obviously i lost sight of something at some time. maybe you shouldnt listen to me. :D
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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    take that part time job at that "other" place, and i'm sure we could work something out.
    ahhhh....THAT job;)
    yeah i could see how we'd work something out then:D
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    met at 17, married at 21.

    that makes more sense. :)
    and like that... he's gone.
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    catefrances wrote:
    considering he is such a fuck up that was mighty magnanimous of him. :)

    youll do fine so long as you dont lose sight of your goal. mind you im currently in the 4th year of a 3 year degree(im in my final semester..YEAH!!!). obviously i lost sight of something at some time. maybe you shouldnt listen to me. :D
    he tries....just never pulls thru.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    he tries....just never pulls thru.

    oh stop! he's a dick.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • StateOfLoveBoatCptn.
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. Posts: 904
    answers are fatal wrote:
    aww im sorry to hear about that. but everything happens for a reason. and im sure it will work out for the best :) good luck!!
    This is so true. It took me a while after mine, but I'm a firm believer that things do happen for reasons, and the grass really can be greener on the other side if you want it to be :D
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    the wolf wrote:
    oh stop! he's a dick.
    you know i don't like to say bad things about him or others.
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    you know i don't like to say bad things about him or others.

    you dont have to. i did for you.

    your welcome.
    Peace, Love.

    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • writersu
    writersu Posts: 1,867
    CHANGEinWAVES wrote:
    we'd have to work out the payment details....since i'm BROKE! :( lol!


    me too!
    Our buy one get one free sale perhaps?
    Baby, You Wouldn't Last a Minute on The Creek......


    Together we will float like angels.........

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  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    StateOfLoveBoatCptn. wrote:
    This is so true. It took me a while after mine, but I'm a firm believer that things do happen for reasons, and the grass really can be greener on the other side if you want it to be :D
    thanks for the support:)
    the grass is greener...if there's a chick-fil-a there:D
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"

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