Unrequited love...

Badmind
Badmind Posts: 267
edited June 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
I know almost anyone here has gone thru it, and I´ve gone thru it last year, and it hurt liked hell, now with my damn lucky I have a huge feeling that my best friend is falling in love with me, as she´s been acting differently in the last couple of days, and also I asked her, if I knew the guy and she said yes... and mind you, that I don´t know, that many guys that she also knows, and she treats me in a very nice way, telling me all the time she loves me, she adores me, she´s so lucky to have meet someone like me...
I still hope the guy she´s in love with isn´t me, but at the same time I have this huge bad feeling, that it´s me... and I feel so bad, my stomatch hurts badly, if she´s really in love with me, I wish I could return the favor, but unfortunatelly I can´t :(:(!! I could never really think of her more than in a friend way, I sort of see her as a sister not as my girlfriend!! So anyone here as gone thru this situation?? I feel so awful, it hurts almost as badly as being "on the other side" of this situation, it feels like I´m stabbing my own self!!
"Vocês são do caralho" Eddie Vedder : Lisbon, 04/09/2006 - best day of my life
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Yup, I'm quite familiar with unrequited love. I spent my entire high school career lusting after my best guy friend. <sigh>
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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Yup, I'm quite familiar with unrequited love. I spent my entire high school career lusting after my best guy friend. <sigh>


    You went to high school with Jeff Ament?

    I never knew! :p
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    GraySaturday wrote:
    You went to high school with Jeff Ament?

    I never knew! :p

    LOL! No no no...I lust after him in my adulthood.
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  • eyedclaar
    eyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    GraySaturday wrote:
    You went to high school with Jeff Ament?

    I never knew! :p


    I know someone who went to high school with Jeff and remains a very good friend with him.
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  • nfanel
    nfanel Posts: 2,558
    i'm convinced there's not a worse feeling in the world.
  • share
    share Posts: 551
    Badmind wrote:
    I I could never really think of her more than in a friend way, I sort of see her as a sister not as my girlfriend!!

    This wouldn't be as big a problem as you think if you lived in the south.
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  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    nfanel wrote:
    i'm convinced there's not a worse feeling in the world.

    Just wait till you give birth...wait, it's not like I have or anything...I'm just saying...
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  • nothingman44
    nothingman44 Posts: 1,496
    nfanel wrote:
    i'm convinced there's not a worse feeling in the world.


    ditto...
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    eyedclaar wrote:
    I know someone who went to high school with Jeff and remains a very good friend with him.

    His name Rubysdad? :p
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  • Steve Dunne
    Steve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    i love pearl jam girls!



    (just casting the net wide open here)


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  • eyedclaar
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    AmentsChick wrote:
    His name Rubysdad? :p

    Not the handle I know him by...
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  • nfanel
    nfanel Posts: 2,558
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Just wait till you give birth...wait, it's not like I have or anything...I'm just saying...
    it doesn't hurt when i bleed...but the memories they eat me...

    haha. i really think emotional pain is worse than physical pain! but then again i haven't given birth yet either. but at least that gives you that amnesia so you forget....
  • Lukin66
    Lukin66 Posts: 3,063
    nfanel wrote:
    i'm convinced there's not a worse feeling in the world.
    yes, it's pretty fucking bad
    deep, deep blue of the morning
    gets to me every time
  • Badmind
    Badmind Posts: 267
    Lukin66 wrote:
    yes, it's pretty fucking bad

    it is indeed :(:(
    "Vocês são do caralho" Eddie Vedder : Lisbon, 04/09/2006 - best day of my life
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    nfanel wrote:
    it doesn't hurt when i bleed...but the memories they eat me...

    haha. i really think emotional pain is worse than physical pain! but then again i haven't given birth yet either. but at least that gives you that amnesia so you forget....

    Way to reference PJ! And, being on the wrong end of unrequited love..it SUUUUUUUUCKED...and not in the 'fun' way.
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  • Thecure
    Thecure Posts: 814
    i don't want to downplay what you are feeling but it could be worse. i used to be an emotional vacume and never felt anything. that is worse. i would talk with your friend and see if what you believe is true as there is no point to get worried over something that doesn't exist. if your friendship i sthat good things will work out.
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  • Badmind
    Badmind Posts: 267
    Thecure wrote:
    i don't want to downplay what you are feeling but it could be worse. i used to be an emotional vacume and never felt anything. that is worse. i would talk with your friend and see if what you believe is true as there is no point to get worried over something that doesn't exist. if your friendship i sthat good things will work out.

    Thanks, that´s what I´m gonna do!! And yeah, feeling like an emotional vacum, it´s even worse, I guess... even though feeling helpless this way, eats you inside!! Love is tough :(
    "Vocês são do caralho" Eddie Vedder : Lisbon, 04/09/2006 - best day of my life
  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Yup, I'm quite familiar with unrequited love. I spent my entire high school career lusting after my best guy friend. <sigh>

    is young people ***king playing in US theatres?

    one of the stories involves two childhood friends hooking up after many years ...
  • AmentsChick
    AmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    polaris wrote:
    is young people ***king playing in US theatres?

    one of the stories involves two childhood friends hooking up after many years ...

    Never heard of it.
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  • polaris
    polaris Posts: 3,527
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Never heard of it.

    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0913445/

    hilarious movie but poignant at the same time ... it's a canadian movie and am not sure about us release dates ...

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