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Sarah's been with me for the last couple of days...

harmless_little_f***harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
edited May 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
and she left to go back home earlier today. Is it supposed to be this difficult? I got so used to someone being around.. Argh.
'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

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  • Rhinocerous SurpriseRhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    I know that feeling. :o You've just got to be thankful for the time you do get together, rather than regretting all the time you don't. And that's so much easier said than done. :(
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  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    and she left to go back home earlier today. Is it supposed to be this difficult? I got so used to someone being around.. Argh.


    Oh man, it sucks!!! Sorry Harmless, but it will get better! It's hard when you can't see the person you love all the time....but of course that makes the heart grow even fonder!! IT also makes seeing them again very exciting!!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,769
    Thanks for the optimism.
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Yes...it's damn hard. But that's good! If it was easy for you to leave each other that would be a problem, wouldn't it? I'm glad you got to spend some time together - and really enjoy yourselves! Savor that...you will have it again :) I can't do 6 months apart again :( It looks like we might have to...but I just don't know how I'm gonna do it.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    Harmless,

    Why do I feel like I'm reading your journal sometimes? Don't get me wrong. I find it equally admirable as puzzling that you would talk so openly in an environment such as this. I don’t even think I open up to my wife as well as you open up to strangers.

    Mind you, I’m certainly not suggesting anyone act like me…
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  • harmless_little_f***harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    eyedclaar wrote:
    Harmless,

    Why do I feel like I'm reading your journal sometimes? Don't get me wrong. I find it equally admirable as puzzling that you would talk so openly in an environment such as this. I don’t even think I open up to my wife as well as you open up to strangers.

    Mind you, I’m certainly not suggesting anyone act like me…

    Different strokes I guess, mate. No harm in either approach, I'm just open.
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • gobrowns19gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    Sorry harmless. :( and comeback, 6 months? damn.......so depressing. In the middle of half of that and it sucks hardcore. 23 more days.
    Happiness is only real when shared
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    gobrowns19 wrote:
    Sorry harmless. :( and comeback, 6 months? damn.......so depressing. In the middle of half of that and it sucks hardcore. 23 more days.
    It really sucks :( Yeah looks like it...I'll probably be able to move there in about a year...so we're looking at maybe one more visit before then. I hope you guys get to see each other soon! As much as the being apart sucks...it makes you appreciate the being together so much more.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • gobrowns19gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    comebackgirl wrote:
    It really sucks :( Yeah looks like it...I'll probably be able to move there in about a year...so we're looking at maybe one more visit before then. I hope you guys get to see each other soon! As much as the being apart sucks...it makes you appreciate the being together so much more.

    I swear if I ever make it big or win the lottery, a fair amount is going to go to you fine people in this thread for travel purposes.
    Happiness is only real when shared
  • Ridin The WaveRidin The Wave Posts: 552
    gobrowns19 wrote:
    I swear if I ever make it big or win the lottery, a fair amount is going to go to you fine people in this thread for travel purposes.

    This made me smile! :)
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    gobrowns19 wrote:
    I swear if I ever make it big or win the lottery, a fair amount is going to go to you fine people in this thread for travel purposes.
    You're a sweetie :) That made me smile too. I would be happy to return the favor if I ever have the opportunity
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • patrickredeyespatrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    and she left to go back home earlier today. Is it supposed to be this difficult? I got so used to someone being around.. Argh.


    I don't know the whole story but sorry to hear what your going threw.


    I miss someone too.
  • ZosoZoso Posts: 6,425
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Yes...it's damn hard. But that's good! If it was easy for you to leave each other that would be a problem, wouldn't it? I'm glad you got to spend some time together - and really enjoy yourselves! Savor that...you will have it again :) I can't do 6 months apart again :( It looks like we might have to...but I just don't know how I'm gonna do it.

    it's very hard and even more depending on when you will see them again :( But yes the harder it is the better it is if you get my point :p
    I'm just flying around the other side of the world to say I love you

    Sha la la la i'm in love with a jersey girl

    I love you forever and forever :)

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  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    Zoso wrote:
    But yes the harder it is the better it is if you get my point

    :eek:
    :D
    :p

    hahaha I so know you didn't mean that to be dirty...but sorry - too much lusting as of late :o

    but yes...if it's difficult to leave someone...that's how you know it's real :)
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • ZosoZoso Posts: 6,425
    comebackgirl wrote:
    :eek:



    hahaha I so know you didn't mean that to be dirty...but sorry - too much lusting as of late :o

    but yes...if it's difficult to leave someone...that's how you know it's real :)

    too much lust for someone :D
    I'm just flying around the other side of the world to say I love you

    Sha la la la i'm in love with a jersey girl

    I love you forever and forever :)

    Adel 03 Melb 1 03 LA 2 06 Santa Barbara 06 Gorge 1 06 Gorge 2 06 Adel 1 06 Adel 2 06 Camden 1 08 Camden 2 08 Washington DC 08 Hartford 08
  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    comiserations harmless, very sorry for ya.
    strength in time of adversity is all i can say
  • gobrowns19gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    This thread makes the distance and everything seem so much further and so much tougher tonight. It's kind of nice seeing other people in this sad state, as greedy and/or evil as that seems.

    :( :( :(
    Happiness is only real when shared
  • Rhinocerous SurpriseRhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    gobrowns19 wrote:
    This thread makes the distance and everything seem so much further and so much tougher tonight. It's kind of nice seeing other people in this sad state, as greedy and/or evil as that seems.

    :( :( :(

    Strength in numbers. :)
    Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    Zoso wrote:
    it's very hard and even more depending on when you will see them again :( But yes the harder it is the better it is if you get my point :p
    :) exactly. I think it's a great way to start a relationship... if it's really not meant to work, you'll both get tired of it after a while and simply drift apart.

    Yes harmless it really is this difficult :o and there's no way around that... but I find the times together more than make up for it and make every second of misery worthwhile :)
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
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    Had I not found this love with you
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    gobrowns19 wrote:
    This thread makes the distance and everything seem so much further and so much tougher tonight. It's kind of nice seeing other people in this sad state, as greedy and/or evil as that seems.

    :( :( :(
    I'm sorry it's hard for you guys...and everyone else. Sometimes it helps to know you're not the only one dealing with a difficult situation.

    I agree with Helen...if you're willing to deal with the distance and the time apart and all the things that go along with it...that's how you know your feelings are real. You wouldn't go through all that if the person didn't really matter to you.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • londonwprlondonwpr Posts: 293
    I met a lovely woman at a wedding awhile back. We lived in different cities at the time and it was really tough. We did the long distance thing and then I got a job offer and moved, so we could live in the same city. It was definitely worth it as we're getting married in July!

    Hang in there...the times you're apart totally suck. But, the times you are together make up for being apart. Plus, you grow much closer when you're long distance.
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  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    londonwpr wrote:
    I met a lovely woman at a wedding awhile back. We lived in different cities at the time and it was really tough. We did the long distance thing and then I got a job offer and moved, so we could live in the same city. It was definitely worth it as we're getting married in July!

    Hang in there...the times you're apart totally suck. But, the times you are together make up for being apart. Plus, you grow much closer when you're long distance.
    Congratulations! :) Best wishes to you and your fiancee :)

    and I agree...in a weird way...the distance actually makes you closer...you really get to know the person
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    comebackgirl wrote:
    Congratulations! :) Best wishes to you and your fiancee :)

    and I agree...in a weird way...the distance actually makes you closer...you really get to know the person
    whilst still keeping your own space and your own seperate lives... while it can be hard, I actually think it's a great way to start a relationship.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    whilst still keeping your own space and your own seperate lives... while it can be hard, I actually think it's a great way to start a relationship.
    Well I agree...and how many relationships do you know where people conciously set aside a part of their day just to talk to the other person?
    When someone is always there it's all too easy to take each other for granted.
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Well I agree...and how many relationships do you know where people conciously set aside a part of their day just to talk to the other person?
    When someone is always there it's all too easy to take each other for granted.
    Oh yes, I read a quote from Ali Hewson the other day saying about bono and how the time apart when he's touring is good for their relationship and she said the same, about how it's too easy to take eachother for granted.

    I reckon that even when we ARE living together, some distance will be a good thing.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    Oh yes, I read a quote from Ali Hewson the other day saying about bono and how the time apart when he's touring is good for their relationship and she said the same, about how it's too easy to take eachother for granted.

    I reckon that even when we ARE living together, some distance will be a good thing.
    Well when you are living together the time you've spent talking and getting to know each other inside out will pay dividends.
    A human being that was given to fly.

    Wembley 18/06/07

    If there was a reason, it was you.

    O2 Arena 18/09/09
  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Well when you are living together the time you've spent talking and getting to know each other inside out will pay dividends.
    Absolutely :) . The little things count for so much when you're in a long distance relationship... even just sitting down watching a film or going for a drive, ya make every second count.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • surfanddestroysurfanddestroy Posts: 2,786
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    Oh yes, I read a quote from Ali Hewson the other day saying about bono and how the time apart when he's touring is good for their relationship and she said the same, about how it's too easy to take eachother for granted.

    I reckon that even when we ARE living together, some distance will be a good thing.

    If I was married to Bono I would prefer for him to be away most of the time to.
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    surfanddestroy wrote:
    If I was married to Bono I would prefer for him to be away most of the time to.
    :D Obviously!
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Gossard_Is_GodGossard_Is_God Posts: 1,031
    LOL I read "Satan" instead of "Sarah! hahahahah!
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    Paris 2006 - Fucking amazing

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