'I want to hurry home to you
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Was he always this insecure and controlling or did it evolve over time?
Well at the time I was 18! I was sure naive and innocent (well i didnt think i was) at first no it never seemed like control but as I grew older and wiser it all became so unbearable. I should have guess on one of first dates he punched somebody at the bar for looking at me... I thought it was male chivalry, now I would say that should have been a red flag for me, on insecurity and jealousy...
Do you believe the man actually snuck up behind me and whispered in my ear to tell me he "caught" me? That was final straw! When I got home from the library I told him I was filing for divorce!
The rest is to be written....
I'm so glad you got away from him. I actually told my husband about this thread. We can't believe your husband was that controlling and followed you to the library. My husband wants to know what you did that made him think you were cheating.
9/98, 9/00 - DC, 4/03 - Pitt., 7/03 - Bristow, 10/04 - Reading, 10/05 - Philly, 5/06 - DC, 6/06 - Pitt., 6/08 - Va Beach, 6/08 - DC, 5/10 - Bristow, 10/13 B'more
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
I'm so glad you got away from him. I actually told my husband about this thread. We can't believe your husband was that controlling and followed you to the library. My husband wants to know what you did that made him think you were cheating.
Absolutely nothing... the man was just paranoid, I couldnt have any friends basically male or female. Not that Im like bragging on myself... but Im a cute girl... good personality, likes to talk to everyone, nice so... everyone was a threat to him I assume since he was so insecure. He was so bad when I started to become close to any of my female friends he would just start saying things like we were lesbians... whatever. Now I have some many damn friends I cant keep up with them all! Its a scary fact of life alot of women go through.
Mental abuse is far worse than the physical, I think anyway... lol the dumb guy still thinks he can control my life, I have to laugh though when he freaks out when he tries cannot manipulate and control me. All in all I take responsibility for staying with him for a long time and accept that it is part of my past... and it was one hell of a learning experience!
the Message Pit caused me to get engaged. fortunately, the marriage never happened. anyway, i'm back looking for a cute girl with a good personality, who likes Pearl Jam, and may have female friends that she may or may not be lesbians with...
the Message Pit caused me to get engaged. fortunately, the marriage never happened. anyway, i'm back looking for a cute girl with a good personality, who likes Pearl Jam, and may have female friends that she may or may not be lesbians with...
LMAO!!
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."
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hehe pretty funny
lol..everyone has a shtick:
http://www.insuremeblog.com/affiliate/blogimages/mr-stink-eye.jpg
put on a slow, dumb show for you
and crack you up
so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
god I'm very, very frightening
and I'll overdo it'
Well at the time I was 18! I was sure naive and innocent (well i didnt think i was) at first no it never seemed like control but as I grew older and wiser it all became so unbearable. I should have guess on one of first dates he punched somebody at the bar for looking at me... I thought it was male chivalry, now I would say that should have been a red flag for me, on insecurity and jealousy...
I agree.. I am so far out now .. I am looking for someone to trust and be secure with while I live at my house and they theirs....
now that is a "tou fucking che"
hehehehe funnay.....
I'm so glad you got away from him. I actually told my husband about this thread. We can't believe your husband was that controlling and followed you to the library. My husband wants to know what you did that made him think you were cheating.
8/08 - Ed solo in DC, 6/09 Ed in B'more,
10/10 - Brad in B'more
Absolutely nothing... the man was just paranoid, I couldnt have any friends basically male or female. Not that Im like bragging on myself... but Im a cute girl... good personality, likes to talk to everyone, nice so... everyone was a threat to him I assume since he was so insecure. He was so bad when I started to become close to any of my female friends he would just start saying things like we were lesbians... whatever. Now I have some many damn friends I cant keep up with them all!
Mental abuse is far worse than the physical, I think anyway... lol the dumb guy still thinks he can control my life, I have to laugh though when he freaks out when he tries cannot manipulate and control me. All in all I take responsibility for staying with him for a long time and accept that it is part of my past... and it was one hell of a learning experience!
LMAO!!
"What a stupid lamb."
"What a sick, masochistic lion."