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The "L" word.

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  • kenshuntkenshunt Posts: 2,863
    Damn i thought this was about theT.V series:p
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  • WildChildRoseWildChildRose Posts: 568
    Wow. 3-6 months isn't long enough?? In my relationship it was said really early. We'd been dating not even a month and he was saying it. I was cool with it. after months and months, are you ever going to say it?
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  • Steve DunneSteve Dunne Posts: 4,965
    tish wrote:
    I was wondering how early in a new relationship you can tell your parnter, "I love you"? I kept biting my tongue every time I felt it and said so, because the new relationship is in the 3-6 month mark. When is good?

    that's a pretty good estimate. takes 3-6 months to go through some odd times to figure out if it's ok to verbalize.
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    3-6? Which is is 3 or 6? Big difference if ya ask me. 6, then I think you should say it, Keep your guard up but say it to see how he or ahe responds.
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  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Say it when you feel it.... as long as you mean it, and don't automatically expect it to be said back :)
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    I tried watching that show...just couldn't get into it. The characters weren't interesting to me.
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  • GreenTeaDiseaseGreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    my friend has been making a huge deal of this lately...I don't get why it's such a big deal. to me saying "I love you" is saying "I care about you." If you are with someone and are very close, what is the big deal of saying this?
  • HawkshoreHawkshore Posts: 2,155
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I tried watching that show...just couldn't get into it. The characters weren't interesting to me.

    Thats like reading playboy for the articles :p
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  • kenshuntkenshunt Posts: 2,863
    AmentsChick wrote:
    I tried watching that show...just couldn't get into it. The characters weren't interesting to me.
    It's not about the characters :)
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Hawkshore wrote:
    Thats like reading playboy for the articles :p
    LOL...I think that's why my roommate bought it on DVD...I think she's a closeted lesbian, no joke.
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  • HawkshoreHawkshore Posts: 2,155
    AmentsChick wrote:
    LOL...I think that's why my roommate bought it on DVD...I think she's a closeted lesbian, no joke.


    Tell me more ......and don't spare any details about the pillow fights when you girls are in your underware!
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  • kenshuntkenshunt Posts: 2,863
    Hawkshore wrote:
    Tell me more ......and don't spare any details about the pillow fights when you girls are in your underware!
    Lmao
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Hawkshore wrote:
    Tell me more ......and don't spare any details about the pillow fights when you girls are in your underware!

    Oh christ. :rolleyes:
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    tish wrote:
    I was wondering how early in a new relationship you can tell your parnter, "I love you"? I kept biting my tongue every time I felt it and said so, because the new relationship is in the 3-6 month mark. When is good?


    Damn it Tish !

    You got me all excited ;)

    I guess a good time is when it feels right and make sure he feels that way or he will be scared off !
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  • SpunkieSpunkie Posts: 6,676
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    tish wrote:
    Well, I broke down and said it last night. Hell, it was the perfect calandar date for it. Plus, he baked brownies and gave me an ipod we filled with music of shows we've seen together/will see together.

    I am a lucky one in love.

    Congrats!! :D AIn't love grand?!
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  • Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    tish wrote:
    Well, I broke down and said it last night. Hell, it was the perfect calandar date for it. Plus, he baked brownies and gave me an ipod we filled with music of shows we've seen together/will see together.

    I am a lucky one in love.

    Niiiiiiiiiice !!


    No more thoughts about banging the neighbor

    ;)
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  • SpunkieSpunkie Posts: 6,676
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  • HawkshoreHawkshore Posts: 2,155
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Oh christ. :rolleyes:

    I can't help it! :o:p
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  • bovy_jbovy_j Posts: 1,008
    When the "L" word is brought up, that's when I bail. Too young for that shit. I'm gonna be 19 in May? Eff that. ;)
  • BinFrogBinFrog Posts: 7,309
    No right answer.
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    my friend has been making a huge deal of this lately...I don't get why it's such a big deal. to me saying "I love you" is saying "I care about you." If you are with someone and are very close, what is the big deal of saying this?
    I agree with this... I've had close friends who I'd tell I love them often. In this relationship it was said quite early.

    There is no set time for these things... it's not like you can say multiply the time you're with him by 2... divide this by the percentage of your feelings for him vs how much you really want the remote control... and that will give you your answer. If you love him and if you think it might be mutual you shouldn't have to bite your tongue. I had to bite my tongue in my last relationship but that was only cos I knew he wouldn't say it back and he'd go running... so yeh, I was kinda keeping myself in denial.
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  • Heineken HelenHeineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    tish wrote:
    Well, I broke down and said it last night. Hell, it was the perfect calandar date for it. Plus, he baked brownies and gave me an ipod we filled with music of shows we've seen together/will see together.

    I am a lucky one in love.
    :) well done... did he say 'thank you'? :o
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Sian-of-the-deadSian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    Did he say it back? :)
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  • imspinninimspinnin Posts: 933
    kenshunt wrote:
    Damn i thought this was about theT.V series:p
    Ummm...yeah me too:(
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  • Cree NationsCree Nations Posts: 2,247
    tish wrote:
    I was wondering how early in a new relationship you can tell your parnter, "I love you"? I kept biting my tongue every time I felt it and said so, because the new relationship is in the 3-6 month mark. When is good?

    Whenever it feels good and right....is probably the best time. I dont think there is ever an exact moment in a relationship when it should be said. It should definetely be felt from ones head to their toes before its said.
    :)
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  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    wait a year. that's when the passion and hormones fade and you really find out if it's love or just lust and excitement. i dont say it to my gf anymore, don't want her to think im going to marry her or anything.
  • GreenTeaDiseaseGreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    soulsinging wrote:
    wait a year. that's when the passion and hormones fade and you really find out if it's love or just lust and excitement. i dont say it to my gf anymore, don't want her to think im going to marry her or anything.

    that's the dumbest thing I have ever heard.

    one doesn't equal the other.
  • soulsingingsoulsinging Posts: 13,202
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    that's the dumbest thing I have ever heard.

    one doesn't equal the other.

    one what doesn't equal the other what?
  • GreenTeaDiseaseGreenTeaDisease Posts: 3,359
    soulsinging wrote:
    one what doesn't equal the other what?

    telling someone you love them doesn't mean you want to get married.
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