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i feel numb...

pejaypejay Posts: 14
edited February 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
i am very sorry for brining all this to the pit but need to speak to someone and have nobody around at the time. i couldn't sleep all night and was crying. yesterday i got the sad news that two of my dear and close friends after 32 years of living together are splitting. it is very hard for me to believe it and i cannot imagine how to cope with this as they've been always something one and entire for me. it is very hard to understand that now they will be two separate people even though i love them both dearly. i understand (and i know) that there are reasons for such decision and that this situation is harder for them than for me. but it is very hard to see something like that happening in lives of such close people. i am not blaming anybody but still cannot believe that this is for true and i am not dreaming. i am devastated. and want to be near with them at the moment but can't as we are divided by many-many miles and countries. so sorry and i can't write this without tears dropping from my eyes. but i am screaming inside and can't hold this anymore...
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  • AnonAnon Posts: 11,175
    im sorry pejay!
    ive been this way a couple of times and i am still young. the best thing to do is really to talk to somebody. you just need to find someone who will listen and talk with you. it really does wonders and will help you through your hard times. i hope you feel better!
  • wolfbearwolfbear Posts: 3,965
    I feel sad along with you. Just try to realize that they may be better apart and that their separating has nothing to do with you. Hopefully, they can still be friends and you can still be friends with both. Good luck. :)
    "I'd rather be with an animal." "Those that can be trusted can change their mind." "The in between is mine." "If I don't lose control, explore and not explode, a preternatural other plane with the power to maintain." "Yeh this is living." "Life is what you make it."
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    wolfbear wrote:
    I feel sad along with you. Just try to realize that they may be better apart and that their separating has nothing to do with you. Hopefully, they can still be friends and you can still be friends with both. Good luck. :)


    exactly. so well spoken. :)


    tis a long time, but obviously...they have their reasons. my mom left after 36 years of marriage! :eek: but it was better for them both in a sense, still loved each other, still in each others lives until the end...but yea...they needed to be apart.


    i wish your friends the best of luck with what must've been a VERY difficult decision/life choice to make....and i hope you can remain close friends for both, be supportive/loving, b/c they shall need you.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


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