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why do I hate myself

rjbukowskirjbukowski Posts: 117
edited November 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
anyone else feel the same way? It is weird to realize it.
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  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Hate yourself or hate the situation you're in?

    If you did something really bad and is remorseful about it then yeah, it's alright to hate yourself. But then you just gotta forgive yourself or ask for it, and try to move on.
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  • rjbukowskirjbukowski Posts: 117
    Hate myself, and not for anything I have done.
  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Boo-ya wrote:
    Hate myself, and not for anything I have done.
    Why? what terrible situation are you in?

    ;)
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  • rjbukowskirjbukowski Posts: 117
    ok, i hate myself around women...which is so weird
  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Boo-ya wrote:
    ok, i hate myself around women...which is so weird
    you are afraid to show affection to them? or you choke up around them?

    ^something of that notion^
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  • SENROCKSENROCK Posts: 10,736
    is this the kind of thread that happens in the wee hours of the night??!! :eek: no, i do not hate myself. you shouldnt hate you either.
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  • spongersponger Posts: 3,159
    Self-hatred will be felt by anyone who believes that they can be someone they aren't. You say that you hate yourself around women, but I'd guess that you generally don't feel comfortable in your own skin regardless of who is around you.

    And not feeling comfortable in your own skin will always scare away women.

    And, of course, later on when you realize those women were scared away, you believe it is because of something about you, not because of the feeling that you were projecting.

    One of my oldest and most successful get-laid strategies is to show unrelenting weakness. I'm serious...it actually works. I would think of a million different ways to say, "It's because you don't like me, isn't it?"

    Most of the time, the response is, "No, no...don't be silly."

    But that doesn't always work. There are also lots of women who like the tough guy act. Personally, I can't stand those women.

    There are also women who like men who talk about themselves a lot. Yes, those women actually exist. These are the women who are just happy to be in a relationship, and they feel that selfish guys are easy to please because they only require an audience.

    My point is that all women are different, and you should take some time to figure what you're looking for in a woman, so that when you're around women, you'll put more effort into focusing on them because you'll be interested in getting to know them for who they are, not for who you are to them.
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  • Nothingman54Nothingman54 Posts: 2,251
    Boo-ya wrote:
    anyone else feel the same way? It is weird to realize it.


    Its ok I hate myself most of the time. I hate the world more!
    I'll be back
  • nothingman44nothingman44 Posts: 1,495
    in a word...

    yes.
  • Yellow LedbellyYellow Ledbelly Posts: 3,749
    I'm pretty damned fond of myself nowadays. It wasn't always that way though
    All I have to do is revel in the everyday....then do it again tomorrow

    They say every sin is deadly but I believe they may be wrong...I'm guilty of all seven and I don't feel too bad at all
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    Boo-ya wrote:
    anyone else feel the same way? It is weird to realize it.


    No, life's too short for that nonsense! :o
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • small town becksmall town beck Posts: 6,691
    LongRd. wrote:
    you are afraid to show affection to them? or you choke up around them?

    ^something of that notion^


    :o I only quickly read your response, T and thought it said "...or do you choke them..." LMAO I was like :eek:

    :D


    I love myself. Sometimes twice on Sundays :p No seriously I like myself :) Sometimes when something happens you can feel down on your self but you learn from that and it helps. If it happens too often that you hate your self you may want to talk to someone.
  • Lanegan7Lanegan7 Posts: 124
    I do hate myself, but there are other things in life I hate more.
  • elmerelmer Posts: 1,683
    Boo-ya wrote:
    anyone else feel the same way? It is weird to realize it.
    sometimes. no.
  • LONGRDLONGRD Posts: 6,036
    small town beck wrote:
    :o I only quickly read your response, T and thought it said "...or do you choke them..." LMAO I was like :eek:

    :D


    I love myself. Sometimes twice on Sundays :p No seriously I like myself : ) Sometimes when something happens you can feel down on your self but you learn from that and it helps. If it happens too often that you hate your self you may want to talk to someone.
    Haha...I wouldn't endorse that.

    But I was right though in my first responds, most people usually hate the situation they're in rather themselves.

    Youknow, the best way to talk to a girl is with a buddy-buddy conversation or activity. Oftentimes, I just make-believe they have penis so that I wouldn't mess up...:o
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  • angelm20angelm20 Posts: 142
    I think Im the Village idiot...but actually hate myself..hmmm....I say it but... I have compassion for myself through blaming others and understanding Im an idiot baby
  • SongburstSongburst Posts: 1,195
    Boo-ya wrote:
    ok, i hate myself around women...which is so weird

    I was walking down the street just the other day,
    I saw these two fine bitches, they were walking my way,
    "Yo watchu girls doing tonight " that's what I wanted to say,
    But suddenly I panicked, my voice started to shake.
    So I put my head down and I just walked away.
    I had a bus to catch anyway, it worked out great.
    'got on the bus, put my headphones on and pressed play.
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  • angie76angie76 Posts: 646
    Sometimes I do for getting myself into certain situations. But then I forgive myself and chalk it up to a lesson I had to learn.
    Dig a ditch deep enough
    To keep you clear of the sun
    You've been burned more than once
    You don't think much of trust
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