For the PJ women out there

rjbukowski
rjbukowski Posts: 117
edited October 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
what makes a man attractive to you?
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  • yellowled24
    yellowled24 Posts: 3,118
    Boo-ya wrote:
    what makes a man attractive to you?
    Liking PJ, good sense of humour and respect.

    I also loooove long hair on men :o
    "....and was very surprised to see that he didnt actually have a recipe for anus-ankle soup." - Big Ed
  • Boo-ya wrote:
    what makes a man attractive to you?

    A man who can make me laugh is very very sexy.
  • 12345AGNST1
    12345AGNST1 Posts: 4,906
    Liking PJ, good sense of humour and respect.

    I also loooove long hair on men :o

    That sounds like me. Watsup :D
    5/28/06, 6/27/08, 10/28/09, 5/18/10, 5/21/10
    8/7/08, 6/9/09
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    That sounds like me. Watsup :D
    Are u willing to fly to Australia for her? :p
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    A guy who shares my sense of humor,infinite love for music, obsession with art of any and all kinds, someone who makes me feel normal for being me however strange and different I may be, a guy where I feel at home in his arms...and who has facial hair! ;)
    Really though the facial hair is just a bonus...it's all about how a guy makes me feel...I don't wanna feel less then a guy, or better then a guy...I wanna feel like we are the same. If u can find that kind of connection then you've got it! :)

    **ohh I forgot to add....unheard of sexual stamina! ;):eek:
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    A guy who shares my sense of humor,infinite love for music, obsession with art of any and all kinds, someone who makes me feel normal for being me however strange and different I may be, a guy where I feel at home in his arms...and who has facial hair! ;)
    Really though the facial hair is just a bonus...it's all about how a guy makes me feel...I don't wanna feel less then a guy, or better then a guy...I wanna feel like we are the same. If u can find that kind of connection then you've got it! :)
    :( I can't grow a full beard...just a goatee though.

    All my hair grows in all the weird places however. i.e. belly-button, nipples, and especially feet. I'm known as Froto around some of my friends. :o
    PJ- 04/29/2003.06/24,25,27,28,30/2008.10/27,28,30,31/2009
    EV- 08/09,10/2008.06/08,09/2009
  • muiren77
    muiren77 Posts: 3,511
    good sense of humor, treats people with respect...:)
    what is essential is invisible to the eye

    apparently, 07162056 is THE date...
  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    He needs to be very funny, someone who gets my weirdness and is okay with it :D, someone who is just as much of a dork as I am, someone who is honest, doesn't play games, puts a silly grin on my face, makes me feel like I'm on cloud nine. :) Someone who loves PJ and shares a love of my other favorite bands, but who can also introduce me to some of their favorites. Someone who knows how to treat a lady and likewise would enjoy being spoiled by me. :D

    Oh yeah accents are sexy too :p
  • illegal pants
    illegal pants Posts: 13,471
    Liking PJ, good sense of humour and respect.

    I also loooove long hair on men :o

    i knew it Sairs
    wah
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    having just read through this thread... i think you've all just described me to be honest. :)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • ladygooddiva
    ladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    when he is
    smart
    inteligent
    kind
    likes kids
    funny
  • drivingrl
    drivingrl Posts: 1,448
    muiren77 wrote:
    good sense of humor, treats people with respect...:)

    Seconded. And a man that knows how to budget his money, that's sezzy!
    drivingrl: "Will I ever get to meet Gwen Stefani?"
    kevinbeetle: "Yes. When her career washes up and her and Gavin move to Galveston, you will meet her at Hot Topic shopping for a Japanese cheerleader outfit.

    Next!"
  • Sense of humour :)
    Love of music
    Comfortable in himself
    Respect for me and others around him
    Similar level of intelligence to myself
    Opinionated but not arrogant
    Caring and thoughtful
    Love of animals (especially kitties :D)
    Similar life goals to myself (marriage, children etc)
    Not afraid of his own emotions or to show them
    Good personal hygiene
    The understanding that he will never understand women ;)
    Not afraid to challenge me, my opinions or my mood swings :p
    The ability to act like a jackass when necessary :D
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • muiren77
    muiren77 Posts: 3,511
    dunkman wrote:
    having just read through this thread... i think you've all just described me to be honest. :)

    i really think the good sense of humor part is true in your case mr. dunk...:D
    what is essential is invisible to the eye

    apparently, 07162056 is THE date...
  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    honesty, integrity, kindness and a good heart.
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    Jeanie wrote:
    honesty, integrity, kindness and a good heart.

    Jeanie, that's a great way to start isn't it?

    For me, intelligence has to be high on the list too. Also, I have a tendency to fall in love with musicians just because that's my main interest. :o

    :)
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    justam wrote:
    Jeanie, that's a great way to start isn't it?

    Sure is! :)

    I find those qualities highly attractive and valuable. :p:D
    justam wrote:
    For me, intelligence has to be high on the list too. Also, I have a tendency to fall in love with musicians just because that's my main interest.

    :)

    I agree intellectual intelligence is very important but I'd say I place as much, if not more value on emotional intelligence. I suppose I'm also more readily attracted to someone with a well developed artistic side. It doesn't have to be their primary employment as long as they have a creative outlet. A passion for something artistic. :)
    NOPE!!!

    *~You're IT Bert!~*

    Hold on to the thread
    The currents will shift
  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    Jeanie wrote:
    Sure is! :)

    I find those qualities highly attractive and valuable. :p:D



    I agree intellectual intelligence is very important but I'd say I place as much, if not more value on emotional intelligence. I suppose I'm also more readily attracted to someone with a well developed artistic side. It doesn't have to be their primary employment as long as they have a creative outlet. A passion for something artistic. :)

    Emotional intelligence makes things easier, but I've noticed that many of the men I've loved need a little help in that area and since I have plenty to spare we usually work it out somehow.
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  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    Boo-ya wrote:
    what makes a man attractive to you?


    SENSE OF HUMOR!! :D

    Nothing more sexy then that! :)
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • bernmodi
    bernmodi Posts: 631
    Someone with a friendly way - a philanthropist.
    Someone who has learnt to care for himself (for example by living alone for some time in his life).
    Someone who knows to appreciate leisure time and spending time with his family.
    Someone with a good sense of humour.
    I take it for granted that he is faithful, honest, respectful, understanding and has a basic knowledge of good manners and personal hygiene.



    Oh my god - sounds almost like I described the opposite of my husband...