What's wrong with happy people?

Buru

eMMI wrote:

you've only got yourself to blame.

That's the worst part.

EvilMerlin

I'll never be happy until everyone is happy.

Heineken Helen

EvilMerlin wrote:

I'll never be happy until everyone is happy.

BUT there's bound to be at least one other person with the same point of view. How the fuck is THAT gonna work out for the two of yas? :eek:

godpt3

"I have been to the land of happy. What a bore."
-Shel Silverstein

libragirl

I just think people are skeptical and jaded. I tend to envy very optimistic people...I want to know there secret..lol. I don't think Im very pesstimistic I'd like to think Im a realist.

EvilMerlin

Heineken Helen wrote:

BUT there's bound to be at least one other person with the same point of view. How the fuck is THAT gonna work out for the two of yas? :eek:

I'm hoping it's a very beautiful she, I'll marry her, and live in agony forever!

Heineken Helen

libragirl wrote:

I just think people are skeptical and jaded. I tend to envy very optimistic people...I want to know there secret..lol. I don't think Im very pesstimistic I'd like to think Im a realist.

well sometimes it can be difficult... or I start thinking badly about stuff... but there is usually some way of turning it around into a potential positive situation!

Perhaps it helps that I've been in a situation where everything could and should have very easily been turned upside down. Having a chance to make decisions and live life the way i want to is a gift. And one I hope I never take for granted again!

Rhinocerous Surprise

libragirl wrote:

I just think people are skeptical and jaded. I tend to envy very optimistic people...I want to know there secret..lol. I don't think Im very pesstimistic I'd like to think Im a realist.

Colour me cynical. But in a strange way, I derive a lot of joy from being so damn bitter.

Heineken Helen

EvilMerlin wrote:

I'm hoping it's a very beautiful she, I'll marry her, and live in agony forever!

there are plenty of beautiful yet miserable women out there... I really hope you find yours

libragirl

Rhinocerous Surprise wrote:

Colour me cynical. But in a strange way, I derive a lot of joy from being so damn bitter.

lol...well I stay in the middle...figure if something bad happens I don't get too depressed and if something real good happens Im like, nice. Right now Im more bitter then I'd care to be.

EvilMerlin

Heineken Helen wrote:

there are plenty of beautiful yet miserable women out there... I really hope you find yours

Why thank you! I hope she finds me as well. Hey, just because I'm not happy, doesn't mean I can't be optimistic, right?

Heineken Helen

libragirl wrote:

lol...well I stay in the middle...figure if something bad happens I don't get too depressed and if something real good happens Im like, nice. Right now Im more bitter then I'd care to be.

I dunno... call me melodramatic (everyone else does ) but sometimes it's fun to experience emotions to their limit.

Merlin... actually I believe it does

EvilMerlin

Heineken Helen wrote:

I dunno... call me melodramatic (everyone else does ) but sometimes it's fun to experience emotions to their limit.

Merlin... actually I believe it does

Awww, shucks.

I'll figure something out then...I always do.

SENROCK

Heineken Helen wrote:

I've been sucked in to this years big brother and there are a few members of the house who try to overlook all the bullshit but they just get accused by the others (the ones with a gameplan cos they're obviously jealous) of being fake and having a gameplan. So it got me thinking, since when is it unpopular to be happy? What the fuck's wrong with happy people?

I dont know about that show but....in real life and....ON HERE, not many people appreciate "happiness". And why do i feel hung over?!

Lukin66

SENROCK! wrote:

And why do i feel hung over?!

Payback for me having one yesterday and you getting off scott-free?

SENROCK

Lukin66 wrote:

Payback for me having one yesterday and you getting off scott-free?

ahhhh that could be the case 66. However, Im not SURE its a hangover. The room isn't spinning and...I dont feellike puking. I DO feel like I'm carrying a city on the tip of my dome though. I just want to sort of lay over the sofa and do nothing.

decides2dream

i love happy people.

not the 'fake happy' people who seeminly never have a bad day, never share anything 'real'...but truly, the 'happy people' who realize life is a gift...that there's more good than bad...that CHOOSE to find the good, the happy, in the smallest of things...and even when life is utter shite....realize...the sun WILL shine another day......that's my kind of happy.

i find a lot of people are under the impression that i am one of those perpetual happy people, and then they meet me. haha. i AM an optimist, i do choose to try and see the good. but hell yes, i have bad days.....i have a temper...i have opinions, i can be a bitch, i can be negative. thing is, just not for long. i truly realize how utterly BLESSED i am...even with whatever BS is thrown my way in life. i have had my fair share of shite...more to come too i imagine...but i also know how absolutely fortunate i am too. there will always be someone WAY better off than me...and others WAY more underpriveliged. i am THANKFUL to be happily somewhere in the inbetween. because you betcha, it's mine.

libragirl

Heineken Helen wrote:

I dunno... call me melodramatic (everyone else does ) but sometimes it's fun to experience emotions to their limit.

Merlin... actually I believe it does

Oh Im a highly emotional gal...that freaks people out sometimes..well at least my ex :rolleyes: I guess I would say I'm highly expressive. People usually know if Im happy, sad, pissed..lol

Heineken Helen

decides2dream wrote:

not the 'fake happy' people who seeminly never have a bad day, never share anything 'real'...but truly, the 'happy people' who realize life is a gift...that there's more good than bad...that CHOOSE to find the good, the happy, in the smallest of things...and even when life is utter shite....realize...the sun WILL shine another day......that's my kind of happy.

ABSOLUTELY! I know a few of them and they're an absolute pleasure to be around. You forget about anything bad when you're with them.

Heineken Helen

libragirl wrote:

Oh Im a highly emotional gal...that freaks people out sometimes..well at least my ex :rolleyes: I guess I would say I'm highly expressive. People usually know if Im happy, sad, pissed..lol

well I think that's a good way to be.