my best friend =)

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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    miskin wrote:
    ahh i should definately watch lion king at uni.
    a big group of us watched Aladdin in my room last term. it was good times. Beer, Pizza, and disney film. What more could you want

    Not alot mate.... not alot..... Next time:

    Beer
    Pizza
    Disney film
    Best friend-turned-new girlfriend. :D
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • miskin
    miskin Posts: 278
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Not alot mate.... not alot..... Next time:

    Beer
    Pizza
    Disney film
    Best friend-turned-new girlfriend. :D

    lol
    we shall see what the new term brings.
    possibly an indian next time, ive had too much pizza recently.
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  • RolandTD20Kdrummer
    RolandTD20Kdrummer Posts: 13,066
    miskin wrote:
    from listening to disney songs, or from having a female best mate?

    yeah having a female best mate has changed some things. i now know how to plait hair for instance. ive also had my hair straightened. and i have partaken in a gossip session.

    jeez man, im worried for myself here. i need help before its too late


    It's settled then, I think you've found yourself a proper life partner. :D
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  • miskin
    miskin Posts: 278
    RolandTD20Kdrummer wrote:
    It's settled then, I think you've found yourself a proper life partner. :D


    taking her to see Smashing Pumpkins in Nottingham on Valentines Day, maybe something wil have happened by then.
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  • PJaddicted
    PJaddicted Posts: 1,432
    Although I'm married, have lots of friends and have kids too, but this is my best friend and greatest companion!

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    I spend my best time out in nature hiking with him....

    oxc
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    He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion.
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  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    PJaddicted wrote:
    Although I'm married, have lots of friends and have kids too, but this is my best friend and greatest companion!

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    I spend my best time out in nature hiking with him....

    oxc

    Beautiful guy!!!!
  • Ridin The Wave
    Ridin The Wave Posts: 552
    Words cannot explain how nostalgic this thread has made me. I would love to be moving back up to school tomorrow to hang out with my best mates....those moments when you realize you're changing from friends to more than friends are unbelievable......
  • miskin
    miskin Posts: 278
    been back at Uni a week and things are looking up =)
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  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    good luck mate. Hope all goes well.
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    miskin wrote:
    been back at Uni a week and things are looking up =)

    Good.. gimme updates man! I have to lead my romantic life vicariously through other people.. :D
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    miskin wrote:
    i have the most awesome best friend so just thought id let everyone know.
    only known her since September (when we both started at Uni), but wow we've clicked. shes crazy, mumbles a lot, likes a lot of good and a lot of strange music, is liked by all, is funny, laughs all the time, doesnt judge, is up for giving everything at least a go.

    guys honestly can be just friends with girls. i feel like ive fallen in love, but without any of the lust or sexual attraction

    :)

    *happy*
    I posted almost this exact thread a little over a year ago, detailing how amazing this friend was and when people started saying stuff like "marry her", I said that it wasn't that kind of love that I had for her, it was an amazingly strong platonic love etc and I thought everyone was just being cynical. I totally believed it and believe that you do. I'm sorry to say it won't last though. Another 3 months on and I was madly head over heels in love with her. Please for the love of god make sure this doesn't happen or if it does, she feels the same. It isn't much fun otherwise :o

    I think maybe there is a pure kind of friendship in which this exists, hell I've said it often enough. I've just become sceptical from experience. If I'm wrong I'm truly happy for you :)

    EDIT - I read the rest of the thread and, lo and behold I and everyone else was right :) please pay attention to what I said above though. I'm talking from very real experience here. make sure you don't push it too much either. If she doesnt feel the same, she'll think that your friendship was an excuse for you to get in with her. It doesn't go down well.
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  • miskin
    miskin Posts: 278
    things are edgy at the moment, its all a bit confusing.
    going to see nine black alps together tommorow night.
    will keep posted haha.
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  • miskin
    miskin Posts: 278
    well shes gone away for the weekend.
    just dont know what to think right now! mixed signals gallore.
    im thinking of taking the wimps way out... going through a friend in a 'confidential conversation.' you know women. she'll know how i feel within 2 minutes of me speaking to one of our mutual female friends about it
    x
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  • Pauk
    Pauk Posts: 1,084
    So are you crushing or not? :confused:

    I assume it's yes if you're talking about mixed signals...


    My advice would be leave it to develop naturally and see what happens. If you consciously drop hints and she starts acting awkward then that will pretty much fuck everything up.
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  • roar
    roar Posts: 1,116
    i've been friends with this guy for a little over 5 years. we've always clicked and he happens to be one of the hottest guys i've ever seen...yet i've never been attracted to him in "that way".

    so...i think it's very possible for guys/girls to have a connection like this still within the friend zone.
  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    Yeah, I've been there. Got real close to a girl over one summer... thought things were developing mutually. So I told her how I feel. Turns out: not so mutual. Luckily, after an awkward year or two, we're pretty much best friends now.:)
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  • DOSW
    DOSW Posts: 2,014
    Yeah, DEFINITELY strike while the iron's hot my friend. I had a female friend just like that who I met at the beginning of the year. It was great, everything built slowly but surely... but I never did anything, and it just eventually fizzled. Because honestly, men and women don't have that much in common (MOST of the time). So if you don't have that deeper connection with them, you'll eventually realize that she isn't the best fit for you as a friend. I actually avoid her a lot now because she actually annoys me more often than not.

    BUT, it seems like you have something good there with tons of shared interests. So maybe you can be just friends. Who knows?
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  • miskin
    miskin Posts: 278
    DOSW wrote:
    Yeah, DEFINITELY strike while the iron's hot my friend. I had a female friend just like that who I met at the beginning of the year. It was great, everything built slowly but surely... but I never did anything, and it just eventually fizzled. Because honestly, men and women don't have that much in common (MOST of the time). So if you don't have that deeper connection with them, you'll eventually realize that she isn't the best fit for you as a friend. I actually avoid her a lot now because she actually annoys me more often than not.

    BUT, it seems like you have something good there with tons of shared interests. So maybe you can be just friends. Who knows?

    we'll see, but we live together as well in university halls... so its hard when youre with someone 24/7...
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