You women...AGAIN...

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  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    decides2dream wrote:
    i am sorry for your pain...but that made me laugh. :p
    hey, were you at least getting laid with the GF? then all is not lost. sure, you missed out on some variety...but honestly, you probably had better quality sex. it's a toss-up; being with a partner a long time you really get to know each other, how to please each other, etc...and that is fantastic. however, it also is fantastic to explore the unknown. the eternal conundrum. :D

    no conundrum here, i feel the dude's pain 100%. i tried to make up for it all during my senior year, but no amount of "getting to know" my gf those first 3 years can make up for what i passed on, hehe.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    catch22 wrote:
    no conundrum here, i feel the dude's pain 100%. i tried to make up for it all during my senior year, but no amount of "getting to know" my gf those first 3 years can make up for what i passed on, hehe.



    and regret is such a helpful emotion, isn't it? :p


    seriously...so fucking what? you made the decisions you made and that time has come and gone. if you think there were 'mistakes'..you learn from em and move on. no need to obsess. :D i've made some bad decisions in my life to be sure....thankfully none with any truly 'bad' consequences...and life is a work in progress, so i can always 'right' any things i want in the future. life is FULL of choices. sometimes you'll be happy with the ones you make, othertimes not. oh fucking well. get over it. ;)
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • know1
    know1 Posts: 6,801
    MonsterOfTheMidway wrote:
    Christ...I want my 20 seconds back I wasted reading this thread.

    No kidding. Has culture really regressed to the point where people have to have an audience for even the most absolutely mundane occurences.

    Maybe I'll start a thread about the shadow that my window blinds are casting on the floor. ;)
    The only people we should try to get even with...
    ...are those who've helped us.

    Right 'round the corner could be bigger than ourselves.
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    decides2dream wrote:
    and regret is such a helpful emotion, isn't it? :p


    seriously...so fucking what? you made the decisions you made and that time has come and gone. if you think there were 'mistakes'..you learn from em and move on. no need to obsess. :D i've made some bad decisions in my life to be sure....thankfully none with any truly 'bad' consequences...and life is a work in progress, so i can always 'right' any things i want in the future. life is FULL of choices. sometimes you'll be happy with the ones you make, othertimes not. oh fucking well. get over it. ;)

    learning from it doesn't help. didn't do me any good to learn that i should never turn down a smokin hot and horny college girl no matter what when those girls aren't coming onto me anymore anyway ;)

    in any case, no obsession here. my "regret" is mostly for comic effect. but it's still good advice for the young one! :)
    and like that... he's gone.
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    know1 wrote:
    No kidding. Has culture really regressed to the point where people have to have an audience for even the most absolutely mundane occurences.

    Maybe I'll start a thread about the shadow that my window blinds are casting on the floor. ;)

    is the shadow sexy?
    and like that... he's gone.
  • know1
    know1 Posts: 6,801
    catch22 wrote:
    is the shadow sexy?

    See - it's not about the shadow. It's about the fact that I'm better than everyone else because I have window blinds.
    The only people we should try to get even with...
    ...are those who've helped us.

    Right 'round the corner could be bigger than ourselves.
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    catch22 wrote:
    learning from it doesn't help. didn't do me any good to learn that i should never turn down a smokin hot and horny college girl no matter what when those girls aren't coming onto me anymore anyway ;)

    in any case, no obsession here. my "regret" is mostly for comic effect. but it's still good advice for the young one! :)



    only if he is an entirely shallow, misogynistic guy like yourself. ;)


    bottomline, still...too fucking bad. i've passed on my fair share of hot men, and thankfully didn't pass on my share too...c'es la vie. all a part of living.

    i say all should live and learn on their own accord. definitely don't need advice from a jaded one. :D
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    know1 wrote:
    See - it's not about the shadow. It's about the fact that I'm better than everyone else because I have window blinds.

    no way dude. drapes are better. blinds have slats that let light through and wake me up in the morning. you're a fascist blinds-lover!

    oh, sorry. thought this was the moving train.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • know1
    know1 Posts: 6,801
    catch22 wrote:
    no way dude. drapes are better. blinds have slats that let light through and wake me up in the morning. you're a fascist blinds-lover!

    oh, sorry. thought this was the moving train.

    Well maybe I should have said the shadow that the blinds are casting on the hard wood floor of my house. How's that for making everyone else jealous?! ;)
    The only people we should try to get even with...
    ...are those who've helped us.

    Right 'round the corner could be bigger than ourselves.
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    decides2dream wrote:
    only if he is an entirely shallow, misogynistic guy like yourself. ;)

    bottomline, still...too fucking bad. i've passed on my fair share of hot men, and thankfully didn't pass on my share too...c'es la vie. all a part of living.

    i say all should live and learn on their own accord. definitely don't need advice from a jaded one. :D

    hey, in college, EVERY guy is a little shallow and misogynistic ;)

    just tossing my 2 cents into the pot. he'll do what he wants, i'm sure. just saying, you can always find some chick to marry once you finish college and have a career. you can't always have freaky sex with young girls who want to try everything their daddy's told them never to do, hehe.

    i quote road trip:
    E.L.: "Think about it Josh, you're in college. The window of opportunity to drink and do drugs and take advantage of young girls is getting smaller by the day."
    and like that... he's gone.
  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    know1 wrote:
    Well maybe I should have said the shadow that the blinds are casting on the hard wood floor of my house. How's that for making everyone else jealous?! ;)

    i know i'm green with envy!
    and like that... he's gone.
  • Trailer
    Trailer Posts: 1,431
    catch22 wrote:
    no conundrum here, i feel the dude's pain 100%. i tried to make up for it all during my senior year, but no amount of "getting to know" my gf those first 3 years can make up for what i passed on, hehe.

    Yeah, I had a girlfriend for the first 3 years too.. it was fun because we were in love and like d2d said, it was good quality sex all the time, and we were able to explore eachother. At the same time, my senior year was just like yours. No love, but plenty of quality sex.. exploring different women. Who knows which one was better... they both were good!:D
    Whoa, chill bro... you know you can't raise your voice like that when the lion's here.
  • decides2dream
    decides2dream Posts: 14,977
    Trailer wrote:
    Yeah, I had a girlfriend for the first 3 years too.. it was fun because we were in love and like d2d said, it was good quality sex all the time, and we were able to explore eachother. At the same time, my senior year was just like yours. No love, but plenty of quality sex.. exploring different women. Who knows which one was better... they both were good!:D



    EXACTLY!
    as with most things...it's your OWN perspective on the situation. if you felt you 'misseed out'...or if you felt you enjoyed what you had at the time, etc. it's a distinction YOU make.


    is the gladd half-empty or half-full? ;)


    trailer...sounds like you had win-win! :D
    me...i am more than happy and satisifed with my past and all it encompasses.
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • HailHailVitalogy
    HailHailVitalogy Posts: 6,020
    just to add....last night i had a small party in my apartment....i had 4 gorgeous girls on my bed dancing and cuddling, it was fuckin awesome :D
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  • MonsterOfTheMidway
    MonsterOfTheMidway Posts: 416
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    just to add....last night i had a small party in my apartment....i had 4 gorgeous girls on my bed dancing and cuddling, it was fuckin awesome :D



    And I bet they think you are the coolest man ever by coming on a Pearl Jam message board and posting about it afterward. Seriously, is this Hugh Hefner?
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  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    just to add....last night i had a small party in my apartment....i had 4 gorgeous girls on my bed dancing and cuddling, it was fuckin awesome :D

    now we're talking. i think we need to kick off a 4-year thread here ;)
    and like that... he's gone.
  • stickboy
    stickboy Posts: 2,981
    HailHailVitalogy wrote:
    just to add....last night i had a small party in my apartment....i had 4 gorgeous girls on my bed dancing and cuddling, it was fuckin awesome :D
    hope you were in the middle at least..or videotaping or some shit!

    whats that saying?

    useless thread without pics?..j/k...dont get banned!
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
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  • catch22
    catch22 Posts: 1,081
    stickboy wrote:
    hope you were in the middle at least..or videotaping or some shit!

    whats that saying?

    useless thread without pics?..j/k...dont get banned!

    seconded. this is the stuff youtube legends are made of :)
    and like that... he's gone.
  • stickboy
    stickboy Posts: 2,981
    MonsterOfTheMidway wrote:
    And I bet they think you are the coolest man ever by coming on a Pearl Jam message board and posting about it afterward. Seriously, is this Hugh Hefner?
    HughHefnerVitalogy..I like that :D
    Aah, fuck it, I’m just gonna go home, turn on the fuckin’ TV...
    Watch the nightly news and drink a beer...
    Like I could even change the world, yeah right...
    ************************************
  • aNiMaL
    aNiMaL Posts: 7,117
    I have been talking to this 18 year old college girl who works where I work - dangerous, scary, and a big turn on all at the same time. I am a grown man - but DAMN is she sexy and super cool!

    That is all I have on this topic.

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