Most disturbing person you ever met?

musicismylife78

I know some of you, have met or had strange and disturbing encounters with others, what are some of your stories?

BinGnarly

There was a kid I went to grade school with. He was the social outcast of the grade school. I was good friends with his sister so I would stick up for him as often as I could. But he would get so made at the kids in his class and he would just go straight for their throat and try to strangle them. He would tell everyone he was going to to kill them and made jokes about killing people a lot. This was about 8 years ago. He's a pretty normal kid now a days just really really into shitty bands like ICP and Twizted or whatever that bands name is. But yeah thats my story about a disturbed person I know.

FinsburyParkCarrots

Blimey. They'd need to build a new internet, for me to list all the fuckups I've met.

SENROCK

recently, this one dude my friend wanted to meet. The guy would NOT go near the beach becuz he hadd new shoes on. He complained about everything. He SAID he was a fan of YIELD so I gave him a chance. Shortly after, I told him I was disgusted and didnt wanna talk to him anymore that night. There are others but Ive chosen to block them out!!!

Urban Hiker

I don't know about most disturbing, but this semi-recent encounter sticks out right now.

The same week of a murder on my block I'm walking home from the grocery store (it's about 3 blocks from my apt) at around 6:15 in the evening. On one side is a construction site (and scene of murder), on the other side is a block sized empty parking lot.

As I approach the corner I see a dude checking me out. He looks homeless. Suddenly he starts doing this freaking lewd street pole dance for me and sucks on his middle finger while flipping me off.

The wise thing probably would have been to turn around and find a different direction home. But it pissed me off that I would have to bother, so I continued toward him.

He had some crude remarks as I walked past, but nothing memorable. I kept a good stride and headed towards home which is on an active intersection.

Just when I got to the light, I turned back to see that the fucker was running to try to catch up to me. He didn't, but it was still disturbing.

I haven't seen him since, but we have lots of transient neighbors, so I'm sure to have another interesting encounter.

libragirl

my ex...the only person who comes in mind at the moment.

_Crazy_Mary_

I wrote about this guy before, but here goes:

About a year ago, a couple men come into the bar where I'm bartending and this one guy is a real chatterbox. He has a few mixed drinks (he kept having me make these god-awful foofoo drinks) and starts talking about his twin sons. He tells me one of his sons is gay, "and you can probably tell I'm gay, too." He said. Then he tells me how cute his boys are and he wishes he could have sex with them! :eek: He kept saying, "they are so good looking. And they're so sweet. So sweet..."

His tab was about $70 and he didn't tip. He said he would be back in town during the holidays and he would bring something very special for me. :rolleyes:

eyedclaar

Pyscho ex green beret, Portland cop, and coke addict who taught me how to write. I always had the feeling that he would just as soon kill someone as talk to them.

Inhiding230

My ex husband.......

I finally got the courage to leave him 5 years ago, but he still tries to make my life hell. He has sent many death threats to my new husband - yes law enforcement has been involved and we have permanent restraining orders against him and I have an order of protection. E

Even though he has been diagnosed as bi-polar, he thinks he is perfect and everyone is else is screwed up. He is also extremely controlling, and just not a very nice person. If you could read all the thousands of emails I used in my custody case against him, you would see how very disturbed he is.

you are

well, my ex-boyfriend. he was such a pathological liar! he was good at it for a while. i guess you can tell so many lies and then they catch up with you one day.

anyway, he was "everything i wanted." he worked hard, was going to school, wanted to be a cop, had no debt, except his truck payment, made me feel good about myself, talked about wanting to marry me, asked me what kind of ring i would want.....it all happended so fast and i thought, "this is too good to be true!" and he was such a gentleman......then i found out everything was a freakin' lie. he had been dating two other girls, went ring shopping with all of us, got one of the girls pregnant (but she lost it :(). me and one of the other girls (the one who got pregnant) are friends now. the 1st one knew about us, the other two, and didn't even bother to let us know. and she knew we had no clue about what he was doing. i'm tempted to name him because he's still doing it to other girls. how do you warn someone about something like that? it's unreal!

anyway, now he recently had his beautiful truck repossessed, he's in danger of losing his job because he has become a slacker....his life is falling apart.

oh AND, i didn't know about this until after i broke up with him, but he had everyone at his workplace convinced that he was dying of cancer.....REALLY?! and that he only had a year left to live.....what's gonna happen when you're still alive in a year, buddy?! and no sign of cancer?

freakin' psycho!

LikeAnOpeningBandForTheSun

this guy i used to work with was obsessed with female behinds. Every time a new girl started he would tell me about how great her ass looked. it was kind of a rite of passage that every girl who worked there had to be asked out by him, usually within the first week. He was so creepy though no girl ever went out with him. his creepy aura was too much. we all thought he had bodies buried under his house.

LONGRD

I remember when I was around 12 or 13 I had to do a door-to-door sale of charity candybars for my class. There is house with an old Christian lady, she probably around 85+, so a few screw loose in the head.

She was very kind and sweet however, even made dinner for us(2 of my other friends were with me) as she asked us to stay for dinner with her "brother".

She told us all these stories about her life and her brother and they were interesting stories. Then she points out to a picture of Jesus Christ and said that was her brother. I was totally creeped out by it.

I found out she past away just a couple of weeks later.

Rhinocerous Surprise

My answer hinges on whether you can technically "meet" yourself.

chadwick

in the future read some of my Iowa prison poetry.
i'd go there sometimes to pick up my dad from work
and see, maybe say hello to some very screwy folks..

the dude eats mice, his own feces,
beats his head on concrete or steel bars,
(this dude is mild compared to evil)

the list is huge at the freak shows i've know about or met.
...

i knew a homeless type dude who would use gasoline as tooth paste
he'd also bum a cigarette from someone, break it up and use the cig as chewing tobacco

Samule

http://forums.pearljam.com/showpost.php?p=5657003&postcount=1
havn't met him but this guy seems wierd...

vedderfan10

Long John Baldry! And it had nothing to do with his being gay... it was something else...still can't say what for sure - after all these years... And it's not like he wasn't a nice guy...Well, the first time I met him it was all good and a lark and all, but the second time...something had changed. Maybe it was I who changed?

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When my sister and I were in high school we somehow became friends (and I use that word loosely) with this guy who was around 30. I always thought he was a weirdo, but would still agree to go to his house with my sister because I didn't want her to go alone. Somehow he even got to know my mom; he thought we were like some kind of second family for him or something.

Then one day we saw him on the news. Turns out he had kidnapped a prostitute and kept her tied up in his house for days while he tortured and raped her - until she escaped. When the police came to his house they found all sorts of hard core porn and a human skull.

He actually called my mom and asked her to be a character witness for him at his trial. She said she couldn't do it, but we all still acted like we were his friends - especially while he was out on bond - for fear that he would turn on us. (You always want the crazy/dangerous people to be on your side.) At some point, my sister was in a magazine that he happened to receive in prison and it listed where she worked. He kept calling her at work from prison like they were great old friends, saying he was going to come visit her when he got out.

Several years later (when I thought he might have already gotten out) I was buying groceries and thought I saw him checking out in the line next to me. I panicked and nearly ran out of the store in the middle of my transaction.

God, now I'm going to have nightmares!

Spunkie

I took a girl with OCD to SubPop. I think she actually beat my crazy on the best day!

CityMouse

scb wrote:

When my sister and I were in high school we somehow became friends (and I use that word loosely) with this guy who was around 30. I always thought he was a weirdo, but would still agree to go to his house with my sister because I didn't want her to go alone. Somehow he even got to know my mom; he thought we were like some kind of second family for him or something.

Then one day we saw him on the news. Turns out he had kidnapped a prostitute and kept her tied up in his house for days while he tortured and raped her - until she escaped. When the police came to his house they found all sorts of hard core porn and a human skull.

He actually called my mom and asked her to be a character witness for him at his trial. She said she couldn't do it, but we all still acted like we were his friends - especially while he was out on bond - for fear that he would turn on us. (You always want the crazy/dangerous people to be on your side.) At some point, my sister was in a magazine that he happened to receive in prison and it listed where she worked. He kept calling her at work from prison like they were great old friends, saying he was going to come visit her when he got out.

Several years later (when I thought he might have already gotten out) I was buying groceries and thought I saw him checking out in the line next to me. I panicked and nearly ran out of the store in the middle of my transaction.

God, now I'm going to have nightmares!

I think we have a winner.

HOOKER

My ex boyfriend.

rrivers

I once hear of a bus driver who ate people. Crazy!

GOSSArDgEEK

scb wrote:

When my sister and I were in high school we somehow became friends (and I use that word loosely) with this guy who was around 30. I always thought he was a weirdo, but would still agree to go to his house with my sister because I didn't want her to go alone. Somehow he even got to know my mom; he thought we were like some kind of second family for him or something.

Then one day we saw him on the news. Turns out he had kidnapped a prostitute and kept her tied up in his house for days while he tortured and raped her - until she escaped. When the police came to his house they found all sorts of hard core porn and a human skull.

He actually called my mom and asked her to be a character witness for him at his trial. She said she couldn't do it, but we all still acted like we were his friends - especially while he was out on bond - for fear that he would turn on us. (You always want the crazy/dangerous people to be on your side.) At some point, my sister was in a magazine that he happened to receive in prison and it listed where she worked. He kept calling her at work from prison like they were great old friends, saying he was going to come visit her when he got out.

Several years later (when I thought he might have already gotten out) I was buying groceries and thought I saw him checking out in the line next to me. I panicked and nearly ran out of the store in the middle of my transaction.

God, now I'm going to have nightmares!

That's too scary, how are you dealing?

libragirl

jeez..that almost sound like a guy me and my sister knew in HS..he was friggin creepy...I remember he was alway dropping in at dinner time for a free meal...we would try to act like we weren't home. I wonder if it's the same guy...

failedpersephone

This man i dated for less than 3 months... he still sits outside my house sometimes...and every so often he calls friends that i had introduced him to - to "check up on his gal" (he means me) he sent me flowers with a card that said 'next chance??" on it, when my BF and i were having troubles.

he threatened me - numerous times (i have a restraining order) he purchased cemetery plots. I was contacted that he had my name listed on the double plot but they didn't have all of my information. he has stolen my identity and created a pretty big stir for me with my original email address...he even signed in here (because the email notices - let him know that I posted here) he told me that he posted here as himself too...but I am not sure if he was telling the truth.

when my dad was in the hospital last january, he called for updates and claimed he was his son-in -law. He makes hotel reservations for "us" and I get calls on my home phone for confirmations

he did a very disturbing "thing" on my front porch...sort of like if he was marking his territory...only it wasn't pee (if you get my drift) my BF was like really grossed out by that.

there was a LOT of things he did that I dont want to list because they were pretty wacky and I normally like wacky/kinky.

I only dated him for less than three months! and when I stopped dating him I just told him that I wasn't interested in him, and that he seemed like a nice person but he needed to work on his sense of self. I never told him there was a chance for a reconciliation...I didn't lead him on. I was honest. at first i said I was willing to be friends, but after a while I told him that I wanted him OUT of my life...and he got even wiggy-er.

when he saw that i was dating my BF he stopped him at his work and threatened him and then wrote this long strange letter comparing himself with my BF. it was very bizarre.

jamie uk

failedpersephone wrote:

This man i dated for less than 3 months... he still sits outside my house sometimes...and every so often he calls friends that i had introduced him to - to "check up on his gal" (he means me) he sent me flowers with a card that said 'next chance??" on it, when my BF and i were having troubles.

he threatened me - numerous times (i have a restraining order) he purchased cemetery plots. I was contacted that he had my name listed on the double plot but they didn't have all of my information. he has stolen my identity and created a pretty big stir for me with my original email address...he even signed in here (because the email notices - let him know that I posted here) he told me that he posted here as himself too...but I am not sure if he was telling the truth.

when my dad was in the hospital last january, he called for updates and claimed he was his son-in -law. He makes hotel reservations for "us" and I get calls on my home phone for confirmations

he did a very disturbing "thing" on my front porch...sort of like if he was marking his territory...only it wasn't pee (if you get my drift) my BF was like really grossed out by that.

there was a LOT of things he did that I dont want to list because they were pretty wacky and I normally like wacky/kinky.

I only dated him for less than three months! and when I stopped dating him I just told him that I wasn't interested in him, and that he seemed like a nice person but he needed to work on his sense of self. I never told him there was a chance for a reconciliation...I didn't lead him on. I was honest. at first i said I was willing to be friends, but after a while I told him that I wanted him OUT of my life...and he got even wiggy-er.

when he saw that i was dating my BF he stopped him at his work and threatened him and then wrote this long strange letter comparing himself with my BF. it was very bizarre.

Shit :eek: you say you don't wanna list the wackiest things he did? Jeez, the mind is most definitely boggling.....

Rhinocerous Surprise

failedpersephone wrote:

This man i dated for less than 3 months... he still sits outside my house sometimes...and every so often he calls friends that i had introduced him to - to "check up on his gal" (he means me) he sent me flowers with a card that said 'next chance??" on it, when my BF and i were having troubles.

he threatened me - numerous times (i have a restraining order) he purchased cemetery plots. I was contacted that he had my name listed on the double plot but they didn't have all of my information. he has stolen my identity and created a pretty big stir for me with my original email address...he even signed in here (because the email notices - let him know that I posted here) he told me that he posted here as himself too...but I am not sure if he was telling the truth.

when my dad was in the hospital last january, he called for updates and claimed he was his son-in -law. He makes hotel reservations for "us" and I get calls on my home phone for confirmations

he did a very disturbing "thing" on my front porch...sort of like if he was marking his territory...only it wasn't pee (if you get my drift) my BF was like really grossed out by that.

there was a LOT of things he did that I dont want to list because they were pretty wacky and I normally like wacky/kinky.

I only dated him for less than three months! and when I stopped dating him I just told him that I wasn't interested in him, and that he seemed like a nice person but he needed to work on his sense of self. I never told him there was a chance for a reconciliation...I didn't lead him on. I was honest. at first i said I was willing to be friends, but after a while I told him that I wanted him OUT of my life...and he got even wiggy-er.

when he saw that i was dating my BF he stopped him at his work and threatened him and then wrote this long strange letter comparing himself with my BF. it was very bizarre.

How do we know this isn't him posting? :eek:

Seriously though... cemetery plots?!? That's fucked up.

failedpersephone

Rhinocerous Surprise wrote:

How do we know this isn't him posting? :eek:

Seriously though... cemetery plots?!? That's fucked up.

well I guess you don't...ahem...does this human skin skirt make my legs look longer??

:eek: I have learned to not get too stressed over it all...he fades in and out - and i "dated" him about 3 and a half years ago.

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larmen42 wrote:

That's too scary, how are you dealing?

It's been a really long time and I try to not think about him. I just hope I never see or hear from him again, and that neither does anyone else in my family. I was quite frightened when he started contacting my sister, but I don't think she's heard from him in a few years.

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libragirl wrote:

jeez..that almost sound like a guy me and my sister knew in HS..he was friggin creepy...I remember he was alway dropping in at dinner time for a free meal...we would try to act like we weren't home. I wonder if it's the same guy...

This guy was in New Mexico. Unless you were here at the time, it's probably not the same guy.

What's scary & sad is that there are plenty of guys like this out there.

Now that I think about it, I think if I ever have daughters I'm not going to let them leave the house. :(

he still stands

wow... some of these guys need serious help.