What were your teen years like?

musicismylife78musicismylife78 Posts: 6,116
edited May 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
Mine were pretty tame. I never drank, or did drugs or smoked. I felt a distance start between my parents and I that hasnt been mended and fixed. I never snuck out late at night. I was a good student, did all my homework, never skipped class.

While I had and still have my share of teen angst, and while I dont regret being and maintaining my straight edge status, it seems almost like, I feel like i missed out on things. It seems like I feel a sense of aliveness right now, and feel like I need to start living. And I feel like my teen years I should have been doing that. I have a desire to live life to the absolute fullest, but how do I do that if I feel like my chance at rebellion, and living, could have passed me by!
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  • PaukPauk Posts: 1,084
    Pretty tame. I was pretty antisocial back home since no one listened to rock music so I got teased about my 'shit taste in music' quite a bit and for having medium length hair (where I live all guys need a short back and sides or else they look like a girl apparently :rolleyes: ). Couldn't wait to escape to the city to be able to relax a little and 'find people like me'. Didn't get drunk until uni (other than 1 event when I was 13) and had never socialised outside of school, so it was all a new experience to me. But when I moved to manchester for uni I was paranoid about getting skint so didn't go out at night much. Sorted that out when I was 19.


    That's my teenage years in all their mediocrity :)
    Paul
    '06 - London, Dublin, Reading
    '07 - Katowice, Wembley, Dusseldorf, Copenhagen, Nijmegen
    '09 - London, Manchester, London
    '12 - Manchester, Manchester, Berlin, Stockholm, Copenhagen
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    Great!
    Got drunk at 14
    Laid at 15
    High at 16
    Arrested at 17
    and repeated all of the above until I was in my late twenties.
    Good Times ;)

    Oh and if my children do any of this, the beatings will begin. ;)
    I have been there and done that with everything! My kids will not pull the wool over my eyes, maybe my wife's but not mine.

    Gosh, hard to believe that I am somewhat successful in life after all that dumb shit
    Get em a Body Bag Yeeeeeaaaaa!
    Sweep the Leg Johnny.
  • JordyWordyJordyWordy Posts: 2,261
    Gosh, hard to believe that I am somewhat successful in life after all that dumb shit

    its part of learning and the life experience!

    i was very much a shy loser kid until 15 or so but then randomly just came out of my shell when started hangin out with the right people. listening to and playing music. drinking hard. learning how to control that after a few years. fucking up relationships. being impulsive. experimenting with drugs. repeating exams. going to college.

    to the OP:
    iwouldnt regret any of that immaturity, then again i just look at life that way: whatever course you take the important part is what you learn from it along the way. but i also recognise that it was immature.

    if you feel like you want to try these things do, but do so knowing your limits or when something is changing you for the worse. some of it seems exciting when youve missed out on it, but some of it is better being left behind.
  • PJaddictedPJaddicted Posts: 1,432
    I was completely wild and things were pretty awful at home.

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  • pearljammin41pearljammin41 Posts: 465
    pretty tame here.. good relationship with the folks.. did well in school... played basketball in high school.... rocked Pearl Jam/STP/Soundgarden/Silverchair with the friends on the weekends...
  • FinsburyParkCarrotsFinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    I ran a mail order national comedy fanzine, from the ages of thirteen to fifteen. It was great fun. It sold quite well, too. When I got to about fifteen, I picked up the electric guitar.

    I was seventeen when I had my first serious girlfriend, but I'd had some happy close encounters before then. Between the ages of eighteen and twenty, I got through a lot of women. I was a dirty little bastard, looking back on it.

    I remember aged about nineteen, playing guitar around a friend's house. We jammed on Interstellar Overdrive. Syd Barrett lived three doors away, and was in his front garden, listening. Didn't seem distressed at all. Amused, if anything. Ah, happy days.


    As for drinking, ah, I started that when I was teething.
  • im 15........pretty tame........for now
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    I loved my teen years, especially when I turned 17.........whoo hoo!! :D
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • I was quite a handful. Drinking/pot/sex/lying/snuck out/crawled back in through my window. I'm quite proud of my mother for not killing me...because if i had kids that acted the way i did, i'd kill them. I've always had a good relationship with my parents. They let me rebel and find my own way.
  • seanw1010seanw1010 Posts: 1,205
    im 15........pretty tame........for now
    exact same for me too...
    they call them fingers, but i never see them fing. oh, there they go
  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,689
    Horrific.
  • seanw1010 wrote:
    exact same for me too...
    you a sophmore?
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • seanw1010seanw1010 Posts: 1,205
    you a sophmore?
    nope, freshman
    if i was born 10 days earlier i would be. :(
    they call them fingers, but i never see them fing. oh, there they go
  • seanw1010 wrote:
    nope, freshman
    if i was born 10 days earlier i would be. :(
    when were you born sept. 10th/9th?
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • seanw1010seanw1010 Posts: 1,205
    when were you born sept. 10th/9th?
    oct. 10
    the cutoff was october 1st.
    but at least i get to be one of the biggest kids in my year!:)
    they call them fingers, but i never see them fing. oh, there they go
  • spongersponger Posts: 3,159
    People sometimes tell me I should write a book about it sometime.

    When I see my old friends and they introduce me to their friends who don't know me, they need only mention a few facts about my past and I hear, "Really? OMG! What was that like? Sit down! Tell me all about it!"

    Really...I know it sounds like I'm trying to be boastful. If anything, I wish I could undo pretty much everything that I did because I paid a heavy, heavy price later in life.

    But, the word "wild" is an enormous understatement by like a marathon's distance.

    Let's just say that my parents had a house 1 block from the beach in sunny southern california, and I knew pretty much everyone there was to know in my city and then some.

    But I wil end it on a somber note and admit that I've never had group sex.

    Nowadays I am no one. I am less than no one.
  • seanw1010 wrote:
    oct. 10
    the cutoff was october 1st.
    but at least i get to be one of the biggest kids in my year!:)
    dammit! im not the youngest one here hahaha. im one of the youngest in my grade. born august 14th
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • seanw1010seanw1010 Posts: 1,205
    dammit! im not the youngest one here hahaha. im one of the youngest in my grade. born august 14th
    damn that would suck.
    btw, anyone other than you listen to (or even know of, for that matter) pearl jam? for my grade its like me and 4 other kids who even know who they are
    ha
    they call them fingers, but i never see them fing. oh, there they go
  • seanw1010 wrote:
    damn that would suck.
    btw, anyone other than you listen to (or even know of, for that matter) pearl jam? for my grade its like me and 4 other kids who even know who they are
    ha
    the 20 year old teachers haha!i wore my stickman shirt, i got compliments from teachers. other kids dont really listen to them. its all hiphop and rap to everyone.
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • seanw1010seanw1010 Posts: 1,205
    the 20 year old teachers haha!i wore my stickman shirt, i got compliments from teachers. other kids dont really listen to them. its all hiphop and rap to everyone.
    exactly the same for me!
    every time i wear my tour 06 surfboard logo shirt my history teacher says something about PJ to me
    they call them fingers, but i never see them fing. oh, there they go
  • Mine were pretty tame. Started drinking at 17, stopped by 19. Smoked some cannabis, then didn't anymore. Mostly, got kicks out of doing stupid shit at school. Y'know: goose-stepping as part of a Nazi invasion of French class, during school-wide France Day.
    Smokey Robinson constantly looks like he's trying to act natural after being accused of farting.
  • in_hiding79in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    seanw1010 wrote:
    exactly the same for me!
    every time i wear my tour 06 surfboard logo shirt my history teacher says something about PJ to me


    Your teachers ROCK then.....
    And so the lion fell in love with the lamb...,"
    "What a stupid lamb."
    "What a sick, masochistic lion."
  • seanw1010 wrote:
    exactly the same for me!
    every time i wear my tour 06 surfboard logo shirt my history teacher says something about PJ to me
    HAHAHAHA i wore my surfboard 06 shirt and my english teacher said something!
    I will be what i could be
    Once I get out of this town


    9/29/04;6/27/08;6/30/08;8/23/09;08/24/09;5/17/10
  • iamsampjiamsampj Posts: 784
    my family moved to florida at the end of my 8th grade to a town about 30 minutes north of gainesville...in the middle of nowhere! so, i was pretty resentful and angry...and hated almost everyone in town. damn rednecks ;)

    i just kept to myself at home. locking myself in my room for hours just listening to music while i did homework. i had nothing better to do than get good grades so that i could get into college and get the hell out of that town. i was on the dance team and played tennis, so i wasn't a total loner. but, i wasn't really popular. i would spend too much time making out with my boyfriend in parked cars around town...that was fun :) i just learned not to cause any problems...unlike my sister who was a crazy person growing up.

    i didn't come out of my shell until i went off to college at 17. i haven't been the same person since...and i feel i'm better off for it! so much fun!!
    yes...i do feel like a human. i do not feel like a tree.
  • battan1120battan1120 Posts: 310
    My mom was a stay at home Mom.Dad was an undertaker/lived in funeral home for a while.Got picked up by my Dad at school constantly .If it was the hearse the body was in a casket.If it was the station wagon the body was in a bag on a stretcher.This went on from 1970-1982 till I graduated.Go figure I'm a Deadhead.otherwise not bad.
    The bus came by and I got on!!!!!
  • decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,977
    hmmmmmmm...my teen years were awesome! :D


    i was a very *bad* kid in that i did, well, just about everything...:p hahaha. but what fun!


    however, i was pretty much a straight A student, never skipped out of school, well except for typing class. :rolleyes: and i did get detention a LOT for smoking. yikes.


    i didn't have to sneak out to stay out late, i was the last child....and yes, pretty damn good at convincing my parents to let me do what i wanted to do. sure, there were a couple times tho, eh well. bottomline, even with all the shite i did...i was a very responsible teen, so it was all good. i think my mother would have a storke if she knew all the things i did, hell me and my sisters did.....:eek: however, she doesn't...we have a great relationship.....i am a fairly responsible/togther adult...so no regrets.


    it was FUN!!!
    :cool:
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


  • reeferchiefreeferchief Posts: 3,569
    Drug fuelled mostly acid, weed and alcohol with some amphetamines, valium and E thrown in for measure, the later drugs I didn't start taking till later though, 16 when I first started taking phet and 18 for E.
    Met lots of cool people, had lots of crazy experiences.
    Can not be arsed with life no more.
  • GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    I went to a really snotty high school, I was very close with my parents, I didn't drink or smoke, but I snuck around with boyfriends. I worked full time from 3-11pm after school and was always tried. Went to my first PJ concert at 16.
  • eyedclaareyedclaar Posts: 6,980
    Drugs, booze, crime, arrests... you know, the usual shit.
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  • CobbelstoneCobbelstone Posts: 35
    pretty tame. I was interested in 2 things: rock music and getting into a top college. I was a total "good kid." You kinda had to be at my school though, because if you weren't a "good kid" you were a really bad kid, and for whatever reason, your future was shot. My parents still got mad at me though, I don't think they realized how good they had it. I got in trouble for things like not studying hard enough for AP calculus or not calling when I was going to be late. I have to say though, I went to A TON of rock shows in high school, way more in a concentrated time than I have since.
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