Do you talk crap about other people to your significant other?

sponger
sponger Posts: 3,159
edited July 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
I had a girlfriend who got off on listening to me bad mouth people.

She never said, "I love it when you talk crap about people." But, it was easy to see by her body language and reactions that it was something that she enjoyed. She even asked me to "keep going" once.

I rarely do it. I'd have to really dislike someone immensely to say anything negative about that person. I try to look on the bright side of people. Also, I take into consideration that what I say could come back to haunt me later.
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  • Drop The Leash 10
    Drop The Leash 10 Posts: 7,011
    yep :D being in high school its hard not to :p
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    ha..ha...I did..now Im sure he's doing it about me to his significant other or not so significant other..:p
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  • justam
    justam Posts: 21,415
    In my experience, people who get excited and encourage you to say unkind things about others enjoy it because they want to spread negative gossip. This is bad for you if you've said something you don't want everyone to know.
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  • ajedigecko
    ajedigecko \m/deplorable af \m/ Posts: 2,431
    no.......................but i do somewhat enjoy it when i find out someone has been talking about me, at least i know where i stand.
    live and let live...unless it violates the pearligious doctrine.
  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    I don't say anything behind people's backs that I wouldn't say to their face. I'm not saying I don't say rude and mean things, but I have the balls to back it up.

    so, yes. haha
  • gabers
    gabers Posts: 2,787
    GraySaturday wrote:
    I don't say anything behind people's backs that I wouldn't say to their face. I'm not saying I don't say rude and mean things, but I have the balls to back it up.

    so, yes. haha

    I'd really rather not think of you with balls. :D
  • GraySaturday
    GraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    gabers wrote:
    I'd really rather not think of you with balls. :D


    haha.. well, uh.. guts..


    there you go ;)
  • Rhinocerous Surprise
    Rhinocerous Surprise Posts: 4,423
    My girlfriend knows how much I truly hate each and every one of you.




    :D:p
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  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    Yeah, if they deserve it. :D

    I mean....if someone is an asshole, I'm gonna talk about it with my husband, ya know? Why wouldn't I?
  • acoustic guy
    acoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    My wife knows I am very out spoken on how I feel about people. If I have a problem with them I tell them. But, I am also quick to forgive, after I am mean I start to feel bad and try to be kind to them. lol
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