Stood Up....Again

zircona1

So I was supposed to meet this girl that I like for lunch today, but she didn't show. I asked her on Monday night if she wanted to have lunch with me on Wednesday, she couldn't do that so she suggested Friday. She put the info into her planner in her phone.

This is the second time she hasn't shown. She says she doesn't have a very good memory but I'm suspicious. You'd think if someone you liked asked you out to lunch you would be anticipating it all week - like I had been doing. We have eaten lunch together a couple of times in the past, so it's not like this is twice in a row that she's not showed up.

Now I'm not so sure she even likes me at all.

What do you all think? I could use some advice, cause right now I'm angry/sad.

BarryWalker

Wait until 3am and then call her when you're really drunk and leave an insane # of messages on her answering machine. That always seems to work out well. Then she'll realize that you're so money, you don't even know it!

Drop The Leash 10

either she's an asshole or an alien abducted her.

keep the faith.

anotherclone

Unless she has some sort of health issue that impairs her memory, I'd say shes using that line as an excuse. If she really wanted to do something, she'd remember. I don't know you, but I do know that no one deserves to get treated that way.

You might be angry or sad, but remember, you don't want someone that doesn't want you.

Don't give her another chance.

genie

zircona1 wrote:

So I was supposed to meet this girl that I like for lunch today, but she didn't show. I asked her on Monday night if she wanted to have lunch with me on Wednesday, she couldn't do that so she suggested Friday. She put the info into her planner in her phone.

This is the second time she hasn't shown. She says she doesn't have a very good memory but I'm suspicious. You'd think if someone you liked asked you out to lunch you would be anticipating it all week - like I had been doing. We have eaten lunch together a couple of times in the past, so it's not like this is twice in a row that she's not showed up.

Now I'm not so sure she even likes me at all.

What do you all think? I could use some advice, cause right now I'm angry/sad.

hehe, depends on how bad her memory is, is it so bad that sometimes she can't remember her name or where she lives?

or bad as in she sometimes forgets where she put her *enter any unimportant item in here*?

holtz

zircona1 wrote:

Now I'm not so sure she even likes me at all.

She doesn't. She wouldn't stand you up like that, TWICE!!!, if she liked you. Don't let someone treat you like that, move on, there are other women out there who won't take you for granted.

SPEEDY MCCREADY

zircona1 wrote:

So I was supposed to meet this girl that I like for lunch today, but she didn't show. I asked her on Monday night if she wanted to have lunch with me on Wednesday, she couldn't do that so she suggested Friday. She put the info into her planner in her phone.

This is the second time she hasn't shown. She says she doesn't have a very good memory but I'm suspicious. You'd think if someone you liked asked you out to lunch you would be anticipating it all week - like I had been doing. We have eaten lunch together a couple of times in the past, so it's not like this is twice in a row that she's not showed up.

Now I'm not so sure she even likes me at all.

What do you all think? I could use some advice, cause right now I'm angry/sad.

time to move on....

and if given the chance.....

bang her sister..
her mother....
her cousins....
and every friend she has...........

DaytimeDilemma

BarryWalker wrote:

Wait until 3am and then call her when you're really drunk and leave an insane # of messages on her answering machine. That always seems to work out well. Then she'll realize that you're so money, you don't even know it!

I laughed out loud at this. Well done.

GraySaturday

done with her.


Time to find someone worth your time..

zircona1

Thanks for the advice everyone.

Problem is, she runs the Open Mic night that I go to every Monday night so I kinda have to keep seeing her there.

DaytimeDilemma

zircona1 wrote:

Thanks for the advice everyone.

Problem is, she runs the Open Mic night that I go to every Monday night so I kinda have to keep seeing her there.

Just get a hooker to come with you and make out with her every 5 minutes.

That'll show the bitch.




Also, I am not liable for any diseases you may obtain whilt following my advice.

Snake

Dang I know the feeling. I asked a girl out three times. Each time she said she had to check and she'd call me back... never called though.
That also happend to me again recently, only im better friends with this girl AND have only asked twice .

Blanche

I don't have Alzheimer's and even though I write stuff down, I have a tendency to forget things like appointments. I've forgotten to go to work once or twice. I believe I may have missed a date or two. I've seen some movies and can't remember them for the life of me. And I've been cornered at parties by people insisting they know me.

zircona1, maybe your date suffers from a similar dilemma.
Either that or she has multiple personalities.

dunkman

zircona1 wrote:

Thanks for the advice everyone.

Problem is, she runs the Open Mic night that I go to every Monday night so I kinda have to keep seeing her there.

if its an open mic night then pic up the mic and tell everybody she stood you up twice.. and then all the girls in that place will swoon for you and your puppy dog eyes and take you back to a mansion where they show you their home made porn dvds.

this is how it always works out for me at least.


but that does suck amigo... time to move on its cos time to groove on.. or whatever the words are

GreenTeaDisease

zircona1 wrote:

Thanks for the advice everyone.

Problem is, she runs the Open Mic night that I go to every Monday night so I kinda have to keep seeing her there.

well at least you asked her out. I couldn't even do that.

DaytimeDilemma

Blanche wrote:

I don't have Alzheimer's and even though I write stuff down, I have a tendency to forget things like appointments. I've forgotten to go to work once or twice. I believe I may have missed a date or two. I've seen some movies and can't remember them for the life of me. And I've been cornered at parties by people insisting they know me.

zircona1, maybe your date suffers from a similar dilemma.
Either that or she has multiple personalities.

Wow, that actually sounds sort of severe.

anotherclone

zircona1 wrote:

Thanks for the advice everyone.

Problem is, she runs the Open Mic night that I go to every Monday night so I kinda have to keep seeing her there.

I think if you keep on going there, you can make her feel like a full-on ASS if you act like nothing happened. Don't act like she hurt your feelings. Slap on a fake smile. Be friendly to her if she initiates a conversation with you, but then find ways to excuse yourself. Don't bring up the lunch date thing or her standing you up. If she brings it up, resist temptation and don't ask her out again.

Not that you wanted my advice anyway.

zircona1

dunkman wrote:

if its an open mic night then pic up the mic and tell everybody she stood you up twice..

You know, I actually have a song that I wrote about being dumped, it's kinda depressing. Might just whip it out on Monday with a "special dedication."

Or just learn Ben Folds' Song For the Dumped....:)

genie

zircona1 wrote:

You know, I actually have a song that I wrote about being dumped, it's kinda depressing. Might just whip it out on Monday with a "special dedication."

Or just learn Ben Folds' Song For the Dumped....:)

good god people!

if she was interested in you as you are in her, she would've asked you, without waiting for you to ask her.

and to everyone else who keeps on asking someone for more than 2 times leave them alone, it's a female rejection. they're not always going to write to you they don't want to meet up with you cause they don't like you.

dunkman

zircona1 wrote:

Might just whip it out on Monday with a "special dedication."

that sentence above might just work

holtz

genie wrote:

and to everyone else who keeps on asking someone for more than 2 times leave them alone, it's a female rejection. they're not always going to write to you they don't want to meet up with you cause they don't like you.

Agreed, I would never ask someone out 3 times, thats just not taking a hint. I wouldn't even ask a girl out twice if she never responded the first time I asked. There are plenty of women out there, forget them and move on.

Riverrunner

anotherclone wrote:

I think if you keep on going there, you can make her feel like a full-on ASS if you act like nothing happened. Don't act like she hurt your feelings. Slap on a fake smile. Be friendly to her if she initiates a conversation with you, but then find ways to excuse yourself. Don't bring up the lunch date thing or her standing you up. If she brings it up, resist temptation and don't ask her out again.

Not that you wanted my advice anyway.

I second this piece of advice.

vmfury

I'd forget about her and call it a day. Stop wasting your time and thoughts.

justam

zircona1 wrote:

So I was supposed to meet this girl that I like for lunch today, but she didn't show. I asked her on Monday night if she wanted to have lunch with me on Wednesday, she couldn't do that so she suggested Friday. She put the info into her planner in her phone.

This is the second time she hasn't shown. She says she doesn't have a very good memory but I'm suspicious. You'd think if someone you liked asked you out to lunch you would be anticipating it all week - like I had been doing. We have eaten lunch together a couple of times in the past, so it's not like this is twice in a row that she's not showed up.

Now I'm not so sure she even likes me at all.

What do you all think? I could use some advice, cause right now I'm angry/sad.

Time to take the hint and stop asking her out.