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JennytreeJennytree Posts: 5,340
edited September 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
So, the fella that has the misfortune of being my other half has been friends with this chick for a few years. They talk, as most friends do.

Anywho, her husband has decided to mail me to tell me that he's divorcing her cos she's 'obsessed' with my fella and they're gonna run away together. He has the proof, you see :rolleyes: From what she's telling my bf, he's a possessive psycho who reads all her mails, wouldn't let her use the phone or msn, and is pretty much a loser.

WTF though?! I hate people who try to mess with my life for no reason. And the bf is gettin a li'l mad at me for askin questions about the whole thing (more angry that the crazy husband has been mailing me and I keep bringing it up).

So, would you ask for the "proof" that your other half has been internet cheating on you? I haven't...
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  • petrocspetrocs Posts: 4,342
    Yes...ask...call him on it...see if its true
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    You're Boyfriend gets mad if you bring it up? Careful there. In my past experiences if one gets argry because you are concerned then that is a red flag IMO. If he has nothing to hide then he should not react that way. Unless you approch him in a nasty distrusting manor, then thats different.
    I also think even though the girls BF is strange he might on to something.
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  • reeferchiefreeferchief Posts: 3,569
    Happy days, you'll be single again.:)
    Can not be arsed with life no more.
  • JennytreeJennytree Posts: 5,340
    nah he doesn't get mad at me. Just annoyed at her husband for creating the situation. BTW, the bf and the chick have never met IRL! She lives in the States.
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  • petrocspetrocs Posts: 4,342
    Jennytree wrote:
    nah he doesn't get mad at me. Just annoyed at her husband for creating the situation. BTW, the bf and the chick have never met IRL! She lives in the States.

    oh...then you're good...but still find out
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    10/3/05 Philly. 5/27-28/06 Camden. 6/23/06 Pitt. 6/19-20/08 Camden. 6/24/08 MSG. 8/7/08 EV Newark, NJ. 6/11-12/09 EV Philly, PA. 10/27-28-30-31/09 Philly, PA., 5/15/10 Hartford,5/17/10 Boston, 5/18/10 Newark, 5/20-21/10 MSG
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    probably not much to it. it would still drive me crazy enough to have to find out.

    how did the crazy BF get your email addy?
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  • The JugglerThe Juggler Posts: 49,257
    Jennytree wrote:
    nah he doesn't get mad at me. Just annoyed at her husband for creating the situation. BTW, the bf and the chick have never met IRL! She lives in the States.

    does IRL mean "in real life?" they are just friends from the internet?
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  • JennytreeJennytree Posts: 5,340
    the wolf wrote:
    how did the crazy BF get your email addy?

    He got to me through myspace.
    This is me:
    http://www.facebook.com/jennytree

    SMELL YER MA!
  • angie76angie76 Posts: 646
    That is an odd thing. I would think if he has been carrying on with her you would have had a clue.

    I would talk to your boyfriend though. Good luck.
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  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    Jennytree wrote:
    He got to me through myspace.

    oh, thats why i boycott myspace. yuck, i feel dirty even typing the words myspace.
    Peace, Love.

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  • lalalalaaaaaaaalalalalaaaaaaaa Posts: 2,445
    What proof can he really offer you? Chat logs? Those can easily be forged. Same with emails or whatever else that "internet cheating" would involve.

    You're just gonna have to trust yer fella's word on this. And if you can't trust his word, just dump him. Simple.
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    the wolf wrote:
    oh, thats why i boycott myspace. yuck, i feel dirty even typing the words myspace.
    I made a HUGE mistake signing up for Facebook.....now every fucking person I went to high school with is getting intouch with me. WTF? Most are girls who I used to know but did not even hang out with. My wife keeps asking me why most of my friends on there are girls. I have no clue? They need to get lives I think.
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Personally, I'd like to see the proof, so I can confirm one way or the other. Your boyfriend shouldn't be getting mad at YOU, you have done absolutely nothing wrong!! Sounds to me like it might just be a defensive thing on his part and would make me even more suspicious. Then again, I've been cheated on before and have zero tolerance for it (not to mention I'm already paranoid and cynical).
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  • catch22catch22 Posts: 1,081
    Jennytree wrote:
    So, the fella that has the misfortune of being my other half has been friends with this chick for a few years. They talk, as most friends do.

    Anywho, her husband has decided to mail me to tell me that he's divorcing her cos she's 'obsessed' with my fella and they're gonna run away together. He has the proof, you see :rolleyes: From what she's telling my bf, he's a possessive psycho who reads all her mails, wouldn't let her use the phone or msn, and is pretty much a loser.

    WTF though?! I hate people who try to mess with my life for no reason. And the bf is gettin a li'l mad at me for askin questions about the whole thing (more angry that the crazy husband has been mailing me and I keep bringing it up).

    So, would you ask for the "proof" that your other half has been internet cheating on you? I haven't...

    sure. it sounds like the dude's unbalanced and just looking for a little confirmation of his insanity. the cat is out of the bag, and it's going to bother you not to hear what he's got. odds are, it's going to be some grossly misinterpreted or out of context email and then you can forget about it. you might even be able to explain so to him and then get him off your back when he realizes you're not going to side with him. on the flip side, if it's legit, better to have fair warning. if your bf throws a fit about it, tell him you were just trying to help his friend by calming her husband down and trying to get him to be rational.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    acoustic guy wrote:
    I made a HUGE mistake signing up for Facebook.....now every fucking person I went to high school with is getting intouch with me. WTF? Most are girls who I used to know but did not even hang out with. My wife keeps asking me why most of my friends on there are girls. I have no clue? They need to get lives I think.

    Facebook is another one !! my gf keeps telling me that after i finish the record im recording that she is going to make and manage a myspace page for me.

    i'm dreading that.

    her reasoning is that my band has not been together for 2 years, so i need to promote myself !! ugh.
    Peace, Love.

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    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • catch22catch22 Posts: 1,081
    Jennytree wrote:
    nah he doesn't get mad at me. Just annoyed at her husband for creating the situation. BTW, the bf and the chick have never met IRL! She lives in the States.

    that means nothing. i got dumped by a girl for a guy she met online that lived in another country and had never met her. they're married now. go figure!

    my guess is still that the guy is overreacting though. people say weird things online, and often are more free with internet buddies than close friends. there's less risk involved. you can vent about a relationship without worrying that it will get back to the s.o. (usually). he probably read something like that and flipped. his own fault.
    and like that... he's gone.
  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    AmentsChick wrote:
    . Then again, I've been cheated on before and have zero tolerance for it (not to mention I'm already paraoid).
    That explains a lot. :D
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    acoustic guy wrote:
    That explains a lot. :D

    Yes, it certainly does. But, it definitely doesn't explain YOUR issue. :rolleyes:
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    AmentsChick wrote:
    Yes, it certainly does. But, it definitely doesn't explain YOUR issue. :rolleyes:
    My issue is the same as every other living horny man my dear! Nothing abnormal about it.
    Sorry to get off topic people.
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  • RygarRygar Posts: 8,689
    I'd say since you know the other guy is already nuts, don't put the bullseye on your guy :)
  • JennytreeJennytree Posts: 5,340
    Rygar wrote:
    I'd say since you know the other guy is already nuts, don't put the bullseye on your guy :)

    Thats what I was hoping. But I don't wanna be made a fool of either!
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  • haffajappahaffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    e-Jerry
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  • acoustic guyacoustic guy Posts: 3,770
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    e-Jerry
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    ROLFLMAO!!!!!!!
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