Do you let your little ones listen to music with "naughty" lyrics?

Brain of J.LoBrain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
edited April 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
The reason I ask is that my daughter (22 months) ONLY and ALWAYS wants to listen to Appetite for Destruction. :D She asks for it all the time, and actually gets annoyed when I try to play something else. I wouldn't exactly describe the lyrics as wholesome, ;) but I know she doesn't understand most of them so it doesn't really matter...yet.

So...do you censor what your kid listens to, or do you just let them listen to whatever?
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  • Gremmie95Gremmie95 Posts: 749
    I censor to an extent (turn the volume down when an F bomb is coming). My two are 12 and 9. I will let the little ones (damn, hell) slip through, they are hearing it anyway at school, but I don't condone the F bomb.
  • urbanhippieurbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    It depends really.. My 3 and 5 year old love Pantera.. they don't really know the lyrics, they kinda make up nonsense that sounds similar.

    If the lyrics are really clear and repeatetive(sp?) I might avoid it...only because of past experience of standing in a supermarket queue with 4 yr old singing RATM...(fuck you, won't do what you tell me :o).

    So I guess the answer is yes.... and no... :)
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  • All that matters is that your daughter already has great taste in rock. Appetite is one of the best records of all time.
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    snoop dog from birth :)
  • josevolutionjosevolution Posts: 29,624
    my 14yr old is not even remotely interested in bullshit lyrics cursin and shit my daughter even less i'm glad ...
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  • Get_RightGet_Right Posts: 13,179
    No f words for the little ones.

    My 3 yr old son loves heavy metal drummer by Wlico

    there is a line that goes
    "beautiful and stoned"

    We sing
    "Beautiful and snow"
    he hasnt yet noticed the diff.
  • dawngdawng Posts: 644
    My 10 yr old daughter loves Nirvana and Alanis Morissette. Alanis has some pissed off albums - and I try to turn down the volume when we get to a "f" word, but she knows it's there as there are times that I don't get to the volume. I don't let her listen to that album when there are friends present (as I don't want to get in trouble with their families!)

    Funny story - she wanted to do a lip synch to a Nirvana song at a school talent contest. I thought, sure, why not? So I asked her what song. She wanted to do "Polly". LOL I had to explain that there were some hidden meanings in that song that weren't appropriate for her fellow elementry school students ;)
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  • GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    My mom always tried to keep us from listening to music with bad words. I remember when I bought Greenday's Dookie as a kid, and my dad took the lyric booklet away. I wasn't deaf.. I guess he thought if I couldn't read it, I couldn't hear it???

    The best part was, my mom talks like a truck driver. I didn't learn any bad words from music. I learned it from her, being stuck in traffic :)
  • markymark550markymark550 Columbia, SC Posts: 5,158
    The reason I ask is that my daughter (22 months) ONLY and ALWAYS wants to listen to Appetite for Destruction. :D She asks for it all the time, and actually gets annoyed when I try to play something else. I wouldn't exactly describe the lyrics as wholesome, ;) but I know she doesn't understand most of them so it doesn't really matter...yet.

    So...do you censor what your kid listens to, or do you just let them listen to whatever?
    Please elaborate on what you would want to censor. Is it just not wanting her to hear curse words? Or is it more including not wanting to expose her to the drug, violence, and/or sexual references that are found in some music?
  • pffffffffffffffft when i was a kid my dad let me listen to about anything.

    i knew the lyrics to satans bed by the time i was 9:D
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    Once I get out of this town


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  • GraySaturdayGraySaturday Posts: 2,878
    pffffffffffffffft when i was a kid my dad let me listen to about anything.

    i knew the lyrics to satans bed by the time i was 9:D


    Wasn't that like yesterday?


    ;)
  • If you don't know the full catalog of swear words by second grade, you haven't been going to school.

    I got the first CD player in my house for christmas when I was in 8th grade. I got Appetite to go with it. It had a parental advisory sticker on it. My dad goes "we're going to have a talk about these lyrics." I just laughed and was like "yeah right." Basically my parents didn't really censor any music I listened to as I can recall, but my mum doesn't pick up on bad words or themes in a song (if you've seen the episode of Freaks and Geeks when Lindsay wants to see The Who and her mum is oblivious to the meaning of Squeeze Box, that's my mum). In addition, I usually listened to music alone in my room or with headphones. haha I do remember once in like 2nd grade my friend and I singing "like a virgin" in the car...mum was not pleased.

    btw Jlo- you have a pretty rocking 2 year old if she loves Appetite!
  • Wasn't that like yesterday?


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  • _Crazy_Mary__Crazy_Mary_ Posts: 1,299
    Alot of times when we listen to music with the kids we sing loud over the F bomb and change it to another word:

    "I'm gonna save you for good"

    and

    "can't defend crooked men"

    it works...
    the kids sing so many songs that they hear and at awkward times... for example at the dinner table sometimes my 3 year old will just come out with, "loosen up my buttons, babe..."
    I really screwed that up. I really Schruted it.
  • gabersgabers Posts: 2,787
    Get_Right wrote:
    No f words for the little ones.

    My 3 yr old son loves heavy metal drummer by Wlico

    there is a line that goes
    "beautiful and stoned"

    We sing
    "Beautiful and snow"
    he hasnt yet noticed the diff.

    That's cute. Have you seen the Wilco documentary for the making of YHF? There was a scene were tweedy was talking to his young son and asked him what his favorite Wilco song, and that was it.
  • gobrowns19gobrowns19 Posts: 1,447
    It depends really.. My 3 and 5 year old love Pantera.. they don't really know the lyrics, they kinda make up nonsense that sounds similar.

    If the lyrics are really clear and repeatetive(sp?) I might avoid it...only because of past experience of standing in a supermarket queue with 4 yr old singing RATM...(fuck you, won't do what you tell me :o).

    So I guess the answer is yes.... and no... :)

    Lol, that's pretty funny.
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Yeah, I do...just turn it down when I know the "F" word is coming up. Julia's favorite song is Why Go (cool kid, huh?).
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  • nfanelnfanel Posts: 2,558
    Yeah, I do...just turn it down when I know the "F" word is coming up. Julia's favorite song is Why Go (cool kid, huh?).
    you're raising her right. :D
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    nfanel wrote:
    you're raising her right. :D

    That I am. That I am. :)
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  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    i see it kids will be in contact with even bad lyrics but maybe if they listen and understand we have to talk about meanings for example ..i have no idear if that works;)
  • butterfly1butterfly1 Posts: 372
    Ed drops the F bomb a lot live. My daughter hears it, but ususally doesn't say anything about it.
  • mindimindi Posts: 1,862
    I don't really censor stuff, I mean they will hear it anyway, probably from me.
    I would hate for them to listen to something really explicit, but someone saying fuck isn't going to bother me.
    Example, Sir Psycho Sexy is not something I will listen to when all my kids are in the room, but Ed saying fuck amongst other lyrics won't bother me.
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  • TowsertunesTowsertunes Posts: 187
    I say censor.If they hear it at school...oh well,can't control that.
    We are supposed to set examples.Even if they don't understand they still hear it and sometimes repeat it.
    Nothing humerous or cute about a 3 or 4 year old blurting out f**k.
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    is that exactly what I thought I read?"


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