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chiquimonkey
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life is.
i just found out someone who used to work for years in our lab died yesterday in a car accident. people here are like family, so it's gonna mess folks up for sure. i have to break the news to my boss when she gets back :(
so yeah, just tell those that you care about that you love them every chance you get, cuz you just never know.
i just found out someone who used to work for years in our lab died yesterday in a car accident. people here are like family, so it's gonna mess folks up for sure. i have to break the news to my boss when she gets back :(
so yeah, just tell those that you care about that you love them every chance you get, cuz you just never know.
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my thoughts are with you and everyone involved.
We are are truly lucky for every day we have.
But yeah, you never know when these things are gonna happen. That's what sucks....Hug your friends everyone!
but absolutely, hug and love on those that matter to you!
damn. i'm sorry. it's apparent it has affected you even though it's not a flesh and bllod relative. really speaks to how close all you are.
true. don't take family or friends for granted...they can be snuffed away in an instance time as i have found out 2 in the last 2 year.
again, sorry.
Esther's here and she's sick?
hi Esther, now we are all going to be sick, thanks
yeah you can't take anything for granted for sure, appreciate everything.
So yeah, if you think of a friend that you miss, give them a call or send an email...at least you'd have tried to make a connection...
But take care Chiquimonkey...you've got a lot of support from the Pit...
definitely, i'll be sending some notes out and makign a few calls for sure. i talked to my grandparents (my grandma had surgery on tuesday), and it felt good to just say i love you.
thanks a lot, i appreciate it. i think i'll be okay, it's just come as such a shock. i'll have to get something ready tomorrow to send out to everybody that's worked with him, it'll have to be an email, i can't make those kind of calls, i don't have the heart.
i'll give ya all i can.....{{Hugs}}
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That's just awful. I'm so sorry.
I've lost a few school friends and work colleagues and it never gets any easier. There's really nothing I can say that will take away the shock and grief. Just know that I'm thinking of you, I'm so very sorry, I love you dearly and hope it will feel better soon.
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my boss just started a memorial fellowship fund in his honor which i think is a beautiful idea, it's something he would have loved.
take care
Jason
also need some good vibes for my grandma, she had surgery tuesday night and has biopsy results coming in on monday. i'm trying real hard to stay positive.
Oh that's good chiq. I mean knowing when the funeral will be.
Viewing is such a personal choice, if you're not comfortable then don't do it. I think you're wise to know that. It can make things so much worse. It's a funny thing, I've viewed some loved ones and it's been an awful thing and I wished I hadn't and there have been other times when it's been very cathartic and helped me immensly. And then there have been people, my Gran in particular where there just wasn't time and I missed out, and I'm kinda sad I did but it's done now and I can't change it, so I just have to live with it. I think you just have to be guided by how you're feeling at the time.
The memorial in his honor sounds fabulous. I'm so glad that your boss has done that. It's such a positive way to honor him. And it gives you all a positive focus to channel all your love and affection and respect for the man into.
*~You're IT Bert!~*
Hold on to the thread
The currents will shift
Bad News SUCKS.
take care, Chiqui.
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