is it a defensive mechanism? pessimism? self-fulfilling? stupid? all the above? lol
i do it sometimes. but i wonder if it does me any good really. i'm not pessimistic by nature overall, just for certain things, my brain tends to go in the darkest scenario.
just curious on people's take on it.
This is how I live my life. For better or worse. This way you are rarely disappointed.
"If you're not living on the edge you're taking up too much room."
Gambling=a taxation on stupidity.
Remember, you can walk anywhere, as long as you have the time.
is it a defensive mechanism? pessimism? self-fulfilling? stupid? all the above? lol
i do it sometimes. but i wonder if it does me any good really. i'm not pessimistic by nature overall, just for certain things, my brain tends to go in the darkest scenario.
just curious on people's take on it.
I try to be optimistic most of the time but there ARE appropriate times to consider the worst possible outcome.
For example, when thinking about issues that are related to your survival--it is appropriate to look at the best and the worst outcome so that you can consider whether an action is worst the risk.
I believe it's in us as a kind of protection.
However, most of the time (considering most actions don't involve life or death situations) I think it's better to stay on the optimistic side.
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This is how I live my life. For better or worse. This way you are rarely disappointed.
Gambling=a taxation on stupidity.
Remember, you can walk anywhere, as long as you have the time.
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I try to be optimistic most of the time but there ARE appropriate times to consider the worst possible outcome.
For example, when thinking about issues that are related to your survival--it is appropriate to look at the best and the worst outcome so that you can consider whether an action is worst the risk.
I believe it's in us as a kind of protection.
However, most of the time (considering most actions don't involve life or death situations) I think it's better to stay on the optimistic side.
You need a wall??? It's worse than I anticipated!!!
Tell you what, you teach me the finer nuances of snowball fights and I'll teach you how to dance without a wall!
*~You're IT Bert!~*
Hold on to the thread
The currents will shift
Or... we could combine the two disciplines... and have a Snow Ball!
*dies a little inside*
i tend to be surprised and somewhat shocked when things go well
Do you do this?
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