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ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
edited August 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
there is a girl at my bf work ..she really likes him ..i knew it from the first place ..she realiced me once with sarah by the way her name is sara(not written like our daughter but...)...and since
weeks she mix up with my bf to learn english (haha) he never told me i was just wondering why his spanish is gettin so good ..i don t know what to do
there where much other stuff but i am to tired to wrote them down sorry
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  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    there is a girl at my bf work ..she really likes him ..i knew it from the first place ..she realiced me once with sarah by the way her name is sara(not written like our daughter but...)...and since
    weeks she mix up with my bf to learn english (haha) he never told me i was just wondering why his spanish is gettin so good ..i don t know what to do
    there where much other stuff but i am to tired to wrote them down sorry


    confront her ass and tell her what the story is
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    confront her ass and tell her what the story is
    i don t know how becv. she pretends not to speak english that well
    and yea my spanish is not that good ...
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    i don t know how becv. she pretends not to speak english that well
    and yea my spanish is not that good ...


    just say "this is my boyfriend dont fuck around" in spanish

    look it up on the computer she will understand
  • Touchofgray16Touchofgray16 Posts: 639
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    i don t know how becv. she pretends not to speak english that well
    and yea my spanish is not that good ...

    This is simple.

    Ausentese de mi hombre = stay away from my man
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  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    Touchofgray16 wrote:
    This is simple.

    Ausentese de mi hombre = stay away from my man


    yea and tell her how to say " or else i will hurt you" ;)
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    just say "this is my boyfriend dont fuck around" in spanish

    look it up on the computer she will understand
    thanx i think i have my words now ..i can not be rough that is so stupid from me
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    Touchofgray16 wrote:
    This is simple.

    Ausentese de mi hombre = stay away from my man

    gracias but when should i tell her should i phone her at work ...??
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    gracias but when should i tell her should i phone her at work ...??


    asap and i would do it in person ,but the phone will work also
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    asap and i would do it in person ,but the phone will work also

    well when we live near his work next month i hope by then it is not to late i will do that ...
  • NY PJ1NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    well when we live near his work next month i hope by then it is not to late i will do that ...


    dont wait a month

    call her b4 then if your that worried
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    dont wait a month

    call her b4 then if your that worried
    i want to but same way ..it is funny i am scarred ...
    that some more will come out or so...
  • failedpersephonefailedpersephone Posts: 3,424
    El es mi novio. Respeteme por favor. No se meta!

    you may want to say instead "No se meta, cabrona!"

    and if you feel strongly enough about it to be worrying, you should talk to her as soon as possible.

    also - you totally need to talk to your man.

    oh it means "He is my boyfriend, please respect me and do not get involved"
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  • SamuleSamule Posts: 3,231
    Tell her to move to australia and give her my number ;)
  • justamjustam Posts: 21,412
    It's really up to your boyfriend to set the boundaries for her. Maybe mention to him that you think she's getting the wrong idea?
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  • spongersponger Posts: 3,159
    If you can't trust your b/f now, then how will you ever be able to trust him in the future? You can't go on forever being suspicious every time some chick digs ur dude.

    If he doesn't take the initiative of setting boundaries, then drop him fast and find someone who respects your feelings.
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  • OffHeGoes29OffHeGoes29 Posts: 1,240
    Introduce me to her....I'll take her off your hands.
    BRING BACK THE WHALE
  • comebackwomancomebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    justam wrote:
    It's really up to your boyfriend to set the boundaries for her. Maybe mention to him that you think she's getting the wrong idea?
    I agree. Talk to your boyfriend about your concerns. If all is well in your relationship her intentions won't be much of an issue.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • Born.Mine.DieBorn.Mine.Die Vancouver Posts: 225
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    there is a girl at my bf work ..she really likes him ..i knew it from the first place ..she realiced me once with sarah by the way her name is sara(not written like our daughter but...)...and since
    weeks she mix up with my bf to learn english (haha) he never told me i was just wondering why his spanish is gettin so good ..i don t know what to do
    there where much other stuff but i am to tired to wrote them down sorry
    some say 'stay close to your enemies...'
    make 'friends'
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  • chiquimonkeychiquimonkey Posts: 9,337
    failedpersephone wrote:
    El es mi novio. Respeteme por favor. No se meta!

    you may want to say instead "No se meta, cabrona!"

    and if you feel strongly enough about it to be worrying, you should talk to her as soon as possible.

    also - you totally need to talk to your man.

    oh it means "He is my boyfriend, please respect me and do not get involved"
    i would go with 'puta' instead of 'cabrona', but tomatoes, tomahtoes ;)

    and definitely, talk to your guy as well. get everybody on the same wavelength. good luck!
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    hey chicas,chicos thanx for her advices etc. sorry i can not indroduce her to anyone her for now lol
    and she already showed me that she doesn t respect me
    i told already my bf about that what i think but he said well we are just meeting for language exchanges ...
    but pardon for weeks and he doen t told me
    i tell him everythink
    and by the way i am not jelaous as i was in earlier time
    in this case i was like ok well this girl doesn t repect me but hell he has to work with her not me ..so no big deal
    and now i found out he is meeting her since weeks
    and he nevver told me ...
  • stonedponeystonedponey Posts: 47
    if you trust your man and so long as he understand your concerns theres no problem.
  • bernmodibernmodi Posts: 631
    By the way you tell your story I can't find anything trustworthy or respectful in your bf's behaviour. Don't let these people hurt you or make you so insecure! Looks like time for an ultimatum. Make it clear that you - and your daughter! - need some respect.
  • ladygooddivaladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    i think i will wait if some stuff change or not ..if not then by next year i am back in germany ..and i hope with my daughter ...
    but first i wait ...how everything goes
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