what DID NOT make your day....

writersu

he keeps manipulating the kids by telling them he is gettng sole custody, the house, the car, the camper, in plain words, EVERYTHING. They are too young to get the laws involved in these things but he is just the same intimidating them. Now when the two don't want to listen, they tell me what dad said about me and my soon to be future. I tell them it is bs, but I am afraid that the middle two boys have gotten the generational curse from the ex's side of woman abuse. They are pretty bad. All ways possible; verbally, physically, emotionally, financially, god you'd think they were attractive and actually thought they were hot. If you would see my ex, you would be so like, "Su, why do you listen to his crap??". But I need to remain steady for the kids and the hopes that the truth will come out and he will not be allowed to violate me from my kids.

divorce sucks enough. but now his insecure mind games?

CHANGEinWAVES

writersu wrote:

depends on how you look at it though.......right? as a bad thing or a good thing?

who knows at this point.....was looking forward to it, but now I'm not!

writersu

CHANGEinWAVES wrote:

who knows at this point.....was looking forward to it, but now I'm not!

I don't know if it is the same but you know I think of maybe one or two guys that were really cute in like my 20's maybe and we had gone out for a little while, and I wonder now how they get along. And although, I am not out there at all, not until my number one job of raising these kids are grown, I think it would be such a shame to waste all of this time being alone to blow it on a half way thing.......
you know??

satans_bed

traffic jam!

CHANGEinWAVES

writersu wrote:

I don't know if it is the same but you know I think of maybe one or two guys that were really cute in like my 20's maybe and we had gone out for a little while, and I wonder now how they get along. And although, I am not out there at all, not until my number one job of raising these kids are grown, I think it would be such a shame to waste all of this time being alone to blow it on a half way thing.......
you know??

it's just a friend from the past..... nothing along those lines.

Yellow Ledbelly

SENROCK! wrote:

i freakin LOVE the way you said all that!!! i felt the aggression!!! Well done!

Thanks....and I feel muuuuuch better now

harmless_little_f***

Being full of cold and having to drink Lemsip all day and not being able to taste my food...

Yellow Ledbelly

Having to start working on our high school basketball preview section, plus the fact that I put all the real work off until the last minute as I always do. I guess I work better under pressure. Our web sizes have changed this year though and I have resize and rework all the elements to fit a much more cramped space....this should really be a bitch

chadwick

i missed the bus which means i am fucked.

norm

fires

GraySaturday

I feel really sick today... :(

Rygar

My talent-laden hockey team constantly playing like they're allergic to hockey.

urbanhippie

harmless_little_f*** wrote:

Being full of cold and having to drink Lemsip all day and not being able to taste my food...

GraySaturday wrote:

I feel really sick today... :(

:( I've been ill for a month. Hope we all feel better soon.

Linda

urbanhippie wrote:

:( I've been ill for a month. Hope we all feel better soon.

i'm "sick" for a couple of months now.....so yeah lets hope we all feel better soon....:o

Lizard

my boss giving me the feeling like it is such a pain in the ass for him to give me my paycheck!!!

Geez.

Cocaine_Nosejob

Stupid fucking douchebag assholes. That's what did not make my day.

I'm in college, and I HATE group work. I do better work by myself, I'm impatient and kind of a control freak. It's for the greater good that I work independently. But, sometimes that's unavoidable.

I had to do this huge, uber important project about Pearson International Airport with another girl last month and although she did do some work, it was all useless. All she did was email me llinks to some websites, and a page she wrote out of phone numbers and names for some airlines...maybe about 15 of them...which is about a quarter of the amount that was required, and a bunch of them were wrong....so I had to pull an all nighter to fix her mistakes and do the work she didn't do.

I had to do another project, again was ASSigned to work with the same girl. Talked to the prof about what happened in the other course, was basically told tough shit. So, me being a huge pushover, I caved.
This project is worth the most marks out of anything done this semester and was supposed to be done in 3 parts, all due on differenet days.
I did EVERYTHING for the first part. Well, to be fair, she again sent me some links to websites and a few cut and paste things that had I not known she cut and pasted them into her email and deleted them, I would have been kicked out for plagiarism. So again, had to pull a few all nighters to pull this one off.
Talked to the prof...again...was told tough shit...again :mad:

Second part of that project was due yesterday. I had been working on it on and off, not too seriously, for a few days. Two days ago we were supposed to get together to work on it, and she never came to class.
The day before yesterday she did show up and said she would stay after class and work on it with me.
She did 15 mins of work then went home. I did 11 hours of work on it, just that night....not including the little bits and pieces I did for the few days prior...and once again went without sleep.

So obviously at this point I'm just a huge ball of stress.

Then today I get to class and we have to do group work again...just a small in class assignment this time, but again we were assigned who to work with.
I didn't have to work with this same girl, but the two people I did have to work with were just as useless as she was and we didn't get it done, ended up having to present something that in comparison to the other groups looked like holding up a Denny's placemat with shit on it next to a Rembrandt.

Oh, and I told the other girls in my group that since I did all the work they had to do the presenting part of it and they both shot me dirty looks.

Seriously people. Are you fucking retarded? :rolleyes:

I guess really I'm the retard for consistently letting it happen, but fuck.

Sorry that's so long and probably makes no sense to anyone here lol....just needed to vent :mad:

Cocaine_Nosejob

So, to sum things up....people are stupid. That did not make my day.
And I'm a doormat, which never makes my day.

God I wish I was better with confrontation :(

Rhinocerous Surprise

Cocaine_Nosejob wrote:

So, to sum things up....people are stupid. That did not make my day.
And I'm a doormat, which never makes my day.

God I wish I was better with confrontation :(

Just hanging around this place for long enough will toughen you up a little.

But yeah, group work in college sucks. Especially when you're in a group with a stoner, and two people who never, ever, ever go to class. And the presentation is a dramatisation of an anthropological study that is physically impossible to pull off alone. Also, I don't know if anyone's ever tried to mock-fight with a guy who was off his head on weed, but it's not as easy as it looks.

norm

more brush fires.....more people's home destroyed :(

patrickredeyes

cutback wrote:

more brush fires.....more people's home destroyed :(

It looks bad on MSNBC.

Take care and be safe.