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pearlzepfan
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Does anyone know how quickly my fiance and I can get married. She's in the air force and will be done with her job training on jan 31. We want to get married before she must report to her new base. But we don't know how long she'll be able to come home for. It may be just for a day. We already have the marriage license. Is it possible to get married in a day without any notice to anyone? So we need to get married as soon and as quickly as possible.
thanks a lot. I hope I'm clear on my question.
thanks a lot. I hope I'm clear on my question.
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First go-round I was married in Vegas, no waiting period that I can recall.
Second marriage, we had something like 72 hours before we could get hitched.
That is [size=+2]WAY [/size] too young to get married.
Don't do it yet..................seriously.
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I'm assuming this is where you are from your location.
You got married in Nevada???
That is way cool. Although I think I'd go the whole hog and wander into Vegas and have the elvis impersonator too!
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I did, and I spent the week in Vegas partying hardcore!
It was the most awesome week of my life. LOVED it!
We tried to keep the elvis out of the wedding, but they did have an Elvis DVD playing in the limo on the way home, I was like.. NOOOOOOOOOOO!
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Excellent!
That's pretty much my idea of a wedding. Either beach at sunset, park, somewhere pretty, or vegas, just me and him and the immediate folk and then slap up party with everyone after. Of course if I had mega bucks I'd just fly everyone up to Queensland or Maui or Tahiti or something and we could make a holiday of it.
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No good the elvis??? :( Man I love Elvey that would be such a blast I reckon!
It's weird how it appeals to me really, because I'm the person least likely to have any interest in Vegas at all and yet somehow the idea of marrying there really appeals to me.
Sounds like yours was very cool!
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Magic shot!
Looks like Kalbarri WA and the Nature's Window.
Beautiful but stinking hot!
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but to answer your question, I assume you would have to make an appointment in advance.
wow. i've been there.
wow.
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People will always give you shit for the age thing. I get it all the time from people. I had just turned 23, 2.5 weeks before my wedding. Complete strangers still tell me I made a huge mistake and threw my life away. Not very nice, it makes me feel like crap. However, everyone will always have their opinions and will have NO problem sharing them with you.
I won't tell you to do it, or not do it based on age or any other reasons. We don't know you, and its shitty to judge people when you don't know them. I do hope you find happiness, and if getting married is truly right for you, then I wish you the best. It does take a lot of work though. Think it through completely, don't rush into anything. Thats my advice, and best of luck.
pearlzep, I have no clue what the rules and laws are about marrige where you are, I'll just say this, if you truly believe this is what you want, go for it with all your heart and don't ever let anyone tell you that you're too young or too old or whatever. It's your life and your path to choose and I wish you the very best of good fortune.
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Exactly!
And by far getting married young is not the worst thing that can happen in a life. Sometimes it's even the best thing.
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I agree. If it's right it's right, doesn't matter what age. We don't know, only those involved do.
I completely agree.....but if I had the opportunity to do it all over again, I never would have married at the age of 25, far too young....that's me. Given your thread regarding not knowing if you're pregnant or not/having questioned pregancy in the past, my opinion is that you're too young and irresponsible to handle the pressure and responsibility of marriage. It's not a walk in the park.
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I'm not going to say that you are too young, but just put some thought in it and decided what is right for you both not only now, but down the road. From the bits I've gathered from other posts, you are newly separated, and the stress and excitement of her quickly changing life with the Air Force could make anyone jump the gun a bit. It it was up to me, like most MAJOR decisions such as this, I would try to sleep on it a bit, and make it when life is a little calmer. But in the end, it's both of your choices. Good luck!
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