Dump your kids in Nebraska

godpt3

Oct 13, 7:00 PM EDT

2nd out-of-state teen dropped at Omaha hospital

By JEAN ORTIZ and JOSH FUNK
Associated Press Writers

OMAHA, Neb. (AP) -- A Michigan mother drove roughly 12 hours to Omaha, so she could abandon her 13-year-old son at a hospital under the state's unique safe-haven law, Nebraska officials said Monday.

The boy from the Detroit area is the second teenager from outside Nebraska and 18th child overall abandoned in the state since the law took effect in July.

"I certainly recognize and can commiserate and empathize with families across our state and across the country who are obviously struggling with parenting issues, but this is not the appropriate way of dealing with them, whether you're in Nebraska or whether you're in another state," said Todd Landry, who heads the state's Department of Health and Human Services' division of children and family services.

There was no sign the boy was in immediate danger before he was abandoned early Monday, but an investigation into the boy's situation was still continuing, Landry said.

The boy has been placed in an emergency shelter. Landry said the family doesn't appear to have ties to Nebraska and he wasn't sure if the family had sought help in Michigan first.

State officials have met with the boy's mother, Landry said but wouldn't immediately address her reasons for leaving her son. He said he believed the boy's parents were married but wasn't sure if the father agreed to the decision.

"Regardless of why or how, our focus remains on the safety of the child," he said.

Creighton University Medical Center spokeswoman Lisa Stites said she did not know any additional details about the boy abandoned at her hospital early Monday.

Last week, a 14-year-old girl from Iowa was left at an Omaha hospital by her grandparents. The girl has since been returned to her family.

Nebraska's safe-haven law is unlike similar laws in that it allows anyone, not just a parent, to drop off a child, of any age, at any state-licensed hospital without fear of prosecution for abandonment. The law doesn't absolve anyone of other charges like abuse or neglect.

In Nebraska, several of the parents or guardians who have left children cited uncontrollable behavioral problems. An out-of-work widower who left nine of his 10 children said he simply felt overwhelmed by his responsibilities. That man, Gary Staton, has asked a judge to allow him to visit his children.

State officials have stressed that the safe-haven law should be used only for children in immediate danger; some worry the broadly written law could make the state a dumping ground for unwanted children.

State officials have said parents and caregivers need to understand there is no guarantee an abandoned child could be returned to them if they change their minds. The have encouraged parents to seek other resources before resorting to abandonment.

Lawmakers have spoken about the need to re-examine the law, but the Legislature doesn't reconvene until January. Gov. Dave Heineman has been reluctant to call a rare special session.

Landry declined to comment on whether a special session was needed, but he did say Monday that a new law is needed to specifically address infants in danger. Two children coming from out of state is clear evidence changes are needed, he said.

"We need to get back to the intent of the law," he said. "The intent of the law was always the protection of newborns in immediate danger of being harmed."

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On the Net:

DHHS safe-haven page: http://www.hhs.state.ne.us/Children-Family-Services/SafeHaven/

mickeyrat

Seems to me the lawmakers should have foreseen that one coming.goes to show hoow a rush on a bill does not allow thoughtful , probing questions/debate. And how wordy some of these bills are and thats at a state lavel!

qtegirl

So, what did this mother talk to her son about on the 10 hour drive to the hospital??

Mukluk4

Actually, they had an age limit on it in the beginning, but the wonderful blubbering Ernie Chambers threatened to filibuster the vote unless they took it out.

This is the same jackass that is suing God and wanted to bring back segregated schools (he is black FYI)

mostdefiled

These "safe haven" laws (at least that's what they're called in NY) were originally designed to encourage mothers in a crisis pregnancy to abandon their babies safely, in a hospital or someplace like that, rather than leaving them in a dumpster or someplace else unsafe. Fine. I can understand the intent behind opening it up to parents of older children- they can find themselves in crisis too, although some places have crisis nurseries- where you drop your kids off for a few hours or days until you get your own sh_* together, then pick them up. But not everyplace has one, and lots of parents don't want to be associated with the word "crisis". Fine. But when all these parents think that taking a kid to Nebraska is an easier, better way to solve your family problems than anything else that's available locally, that's evidence of a whole lot of problems. In PA, you can surrender a child over the age of 10 (I think) into a group foster care setting if the child has any evidence of "mental illness, emotional disturbance or a behavioral problem", and, at least in the one county there I'm most familiar with, did parents ever take advantage of it! There is sooooo much more we can be doing to help and support parents, and kids, rather than making it really easy for them to abandon them.

CHANGEinWAVES

qtegirl wrote:

So, what did this mother talk to her son about on the 10 hour drive to the hospital??

I was wondering this too...did the kid know this is why she was taking him there? just odd, and sad.

Jack_C_Gregory

This makes me think of the Mr. Show sketch where Bob is having a flashback and his mom is told by the doctor, "I'm sorry, but it's too late for an abortion. Your son is 4 years old."