Instant thoughts. (add yours if you like)

Chip McFlennigan

i'd rather be
stuck to someone's bumper

flat, stuck
in the extreme cold and the devastating heat
thick humid days
thunderstorms outside

or staring at the back wall of an old garage
counting the paint cans and hammers

i'd get destroyed in a rear-end collision
and no one would give a fuck

or i'd be sold
along with the car
at least
i'd rather be

Green Circle

My instant thought:

To Dang Dang's Husband:

Dear Sir,
After reading your post I can't help but to think that since you are at work all day "working your ass off" and clearly you don't know what our friend does all day since you are at work, maybe you can see it clear to maybe ask her about her day. I cannot imagine for a second that she ignores the needs of your children autistic or not. Maybe you can look at the times of her posts, since you have somehow gained access to her account here.

Does it really seem that she is on 24/7? Although never met her, I can assure you she is not.

It seems sir that YOU lack the normal communication skills of a person. Insulting Chadwick (not Chadick) and us as a group just shows that you have a skewed view on how to hold a normal conversation, never mind be involved in a marriage. I have found that Marriage AND Parenting is a team effort. Its the two of you needing to help each other NOT to be controlling and demanding of the other person.

I do wish you luck sir, I hope that someday you can see your error in all of this. Please send our best wishes to our friend since it seems clear that you have banished her from this site and all her friends here.


P.S. We miss you Dang Dang, we hope you are ok.

Theo...aka Boo boo.

chadwick

Boo Boo wrote:

My instant thought:

To Dang Dang's Husband:

Dear Sir,
After reading your post I can't help but to think that since you are at work all day "working your ass off" and clearly you don't know what our friend does all day since you are at work, maybe you can see it clear to maybe ask her about her day. I cannot imagine for a second that she ignores the needs of your children autistic or not. Maybe you can look at the times of her posts, since you have somehow gained access to her account here.

Does it really seem that she is on 24/7? Although never met her, I can assure you she is not.

It seems sir that YOU lack the normal communication skills of a person. Insulting Chadwick (not Chadick) and us as a group just shows that you have a skewed view on how to hold a normal conversation, never mind be involved in a marriage. I have found that Marriage AND Parenting is a team effort. Its the two of you needing to help each other NOT to be controlling and demanding of the other person.

I do wish you luck sir, I hope that someday you can see your error in all of this. Please send our best wishes to our friend since it seems clear that you have banished her from this site and all her friends here.


P.S. We miss you Dang Dang, we hope you are ok.

Theo...aka Boo boo.

well done, boo boo.

RKCNDY

Boo Boo wrote:

My instant thought:

To Dang Dang's Husband:

Dear Sir,
After reading your post I can't help but to think that since you are at work all day "working your ass off" and clearly you don't know what our friend does all day since you are at work, maybe you can see it clear to maybe ask her about her day. I cannot imagine for a second that she ignores the needs of your children autistic or not. Maybe you can look at the times of her posts, since you have somehow gained access to her account here.

Does it really seem that she is on 24/7? Although never met her, I can assure you she is not.

It seems sir that YOU lack the normal communication skills of a person. Insulting Chadwick (not Chadick) and us as a group just shows that you have a skewed view on how to hold a normal conversation, never mind be involved in a marriage. I have found that Marriage AND Parenting is a team effort. Its the two of you needing to help each other NOT to be controlling and demanding of the other person.

I do wish you luck sir, I hope that someday you can see your error in all of this. Please send our best wishes to our friend since it seems clear that you have banished her from this site and all her friends here.


P.S. We miss you Dang Dang, we hope you are ok.

Theo...aka Boo boo.

Kudos Boo Boo!

mikalina

Boo Boo wrote:

My instant thought:

To Dang Dang's Husband:

Dear Sir,
After reading your post I can't help but to think that since you are at work all day "working your ass off" and clearly you don't know what our friend does all day since you are at work, maybe you can see it clear to maybe ask her about her day. I cannot imagine for a second that she ignores the needs of your children autistic or not. Maybe you can look at the times of her posts, since you have somehow gained access to her account here.

Does it really seem that she is on 24/7? Although never met her, I can assure you she is not.

It seems sir that YOU lack the normal communication skills of a person. Insulting Chadwick (not Chadick) and us as a group just shows that you have a skewed view on how to hold a normal conversation, never mind be involved in a marriage. I have found that Marriage AND Parenting is a team effort. Its the two of you needing to help each other NOT to be controlling and demanding of the other person.

I do wish you luck sir, I hope that someday you can see your error in all of this. Please send our best wishes to our friend since it seems clear that you have banished her from this site and all her friends here.


P.S. We miss you Dang Dang, we hope you are ok.

Theo...aka Boo boo.

Pearl Drummer

Boo Boo wrote:

My instant thought:

To Dang Dang's Husband:

Dear Sir,
After reading your post I can't help but to think that since you are at work all day "working your ass off" and clearly you don't know what our friend does all day since you are at work, maybe you can see it clear to maybe ask her about her day. I cannot imagine for a second that she ignores the needs of your children autistic or not. Maybe you can look at the times of her posts, since you have somehow gained access to her account here.

Does it really seem that she is on 24/7? Although never met her, I can assure you she is not.

It seems sir that YOU lack the normal communication skills of a person. Insulting Chadwick (not Chadick) and us as a group just shows that you have a skewed view on how to hold a normal conversation, never mind be involved in a marriage. I have found that Marriage AND Parenting is a team effort. Its the two of you needing to help each other NOT to be controlling and demanding of the other person.

I do wish you luck sir, I hope that someday you can see your error in all of this. Please send our best wishes to our friend since it seems clear that you have banished her from this site and all her friends here.


P.S. We miss you Dang Dang, we hope you are ok.

Theo...aka Boo boo.

Well said

Green Circle

Thanks guys...i feel badly for her.

Pearl Drummer

Boo Boo wrote:

Thanks guys...i feel badly for her.

Me too..

Godfather.

even though he posted it I think we should stay away from it all togeather...it's a family thing not ours.

Godfather.

Green Circle

He was so great she thought

The one she had been waiting for

She was strong, but he was stronger

As soon as he met her, as soon as she let her guard down

He sunk in his hooks and she was done

He slowly but effecientl began his manipulation

She was under his spell and could not break free

He was her world, her reason for living

Things didn't make sense without him

At least that's what she thought

People ask how did she allow it to get so far for so long

It's not something you can control

Because you no longer have that power

You lose yourself in this feeling, you believe is love

When in reality it's selfish manipulation

Things begin to connect

when he stops smiling, carressing you

he doesn't comfort you when your sad

He sees you crying but just stares back at you with these dead eyes

He knows hes killing you, but he doesn't care because he hates you

His joy, his satisfaction is knowing he has that control

Because he doesn't want to love you, he desires to own you

Then one day you look in the mirror, and you see it in your eyes

Your dying,you lost yourself

It's time to make a decision you love him, but you love yourself more

He may control your mind, and your heart

But no one can ever control your will

So you take that and you fight to break free

Because in that you will find freedom and independence

Something he cannot take from you.

~Stephanie Monroy.

blenderman69

chadwick wrote:

Boo Boo wrote:

My instant thought:

To Dang Dang's Husband:

Dear Sir,
After reading your post I can't help but to think that since you are at work all day "working your ass off" and clearly you don't know what our friend does all day since you are at work, maybe you can see it clear to maybe ask her about her day. I cannot imagine for a second that she ignores the needs of your children autistic or not. Maybe you can look at the times of her posts, since you have somehow gained access to her account here.

Does it really seem that she is on 24/7? Although never met her, I can assure you she is not.

It seems sir that YOU lack the normal communication skills of a person. Insulting Chadwick (not Chadick) and us as a group just shows that you have a skewed view on how to hold a normal conversation, never mind be involved in a marriage. I have found that Marriage AND Parenting is a team effort. Its the two of you needing to help each other NOT to be controlling and demanding of the other person.

I do wish you luck sir, I hope that someday you can see your error in all of this. Please send our best wishes to our friend since it seems clear that you have banished her from this site and all her friends here.


P.S. We miss you Dang Dang, we hope you are ok.

Theo...aka Boo boo.

well done, boo boo.

i agree!well said boo. but fuck all the nicety's let's go all red dawn on his ass and get our dang dang back

blenderman69

Godfather. wrote:

even though he posted it I think we should stay away from it all togeather...it's a family thing not ours.

Godfather.

better listen to godfather he knows about"FAMILY" ....why don't you just make him an offer he can't refuse

justam

Godfather. wrote:

even though he posted it I think we should stay away from it all togeather...it's a family thing not ours.

Godfather.

I feel this way too.

Godfather.

blenderman69 wrote:

Godfather. wrote:

even though he posted it I think we should stay away from it all togeather...it's a family thing not ours.

Godfather.

better listen to godfather he knows about"FAMILY" ....why don't you just make him an offer he can't refuse

now thats funny !!

Godfather.

CHANGEinWAVES

I lost my best friend one year
By the time 2 years pass
I'll have gained more than I could have ever imagine
Divorce has helped me smile again

skyeriverwinter

just venting

Green Circle

Worthless.
That’s what you say we think you are
Kept around so we appear the better
Not wanted at all
Useless. Going nowhere in this life.
Never achieving anything.
That’s what you say we think you are.

You push us away,
Further each day.
Offers of help and sympathy,
Meet with anger and shouting of
“You don’t understand! ! ! ”
But when sympathy is looked for
And none given due to what
You said last time we tried to offer help.
You cry and say we do not care.

We do care. We will help. We think the world of you.
But it is you who are pushing us away.

~Elaine O' Keeffe

mikalina

Boo Boo wrote:

He was so great she thought

The one she had been waiting for

She was strong, but he was stronger

As soon as he met her, as soon as she let her guard down

He sunk in his hooks and she was done

He slowly but effecientl began his manipulation

She was under his spell and could not break free

He was her world, her reason for living

Things didn't make sense without him

At least that's what she thought

People ask how did she allow it to get so far for so long

It's not something you can control

Because you no longer have that power

You lose yourself in this feeling, you believe is love

When in reality it's selfish manipulation

Things begin to connect

when he stops smiling, carressing you

he doesn't comfort you when your sad

He sees you crying but just stares back at you with these dead eyes

He knows hes killing you, but he doesn't care because he hates you

His joy, his satisfaction is knowing he has that control

Because he doesn't want to love you, he desires to own you

Then one day you look in the mirror, and you see it in your eyes

Your dying,you lost yourself

It's time to make a decision you love him, but you love yourself more

He may control your mind, and your heart

But no one can ever control your will

So you take that and you fight to break free

Because in that you will find freedom and independence

Something he cannot take from you.

~Stephanie Monroy.

WOW, this speaks for many, I'm sure .... thank you for sending.

justam

I love living in a big city!!

prism

justam wrote:

I love living in a big city!!

i love living in a lil city


in the part with alot of gorgeous old Victorian homes (though i don't live in one myself)